Please help, Long,boyfriend problem |
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 Jan 25 2007, 01:14 PM
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I met this guy at the mall January 6th.We started going out the 8th.He makes me really happy,but then again,he makes me really annoyed and angry and sad and frustrated.Hes really emo,too.He said before he met me he was on the edge of killing himself.Hes making all of these plans to marry me when I'm old enough.By the way,I'm 13,hes 15.Anywho,he's okay that I'm bi,and all.And I really don't know what to do.Everyone call me a whore because I'm always in a new relationship.But that's been happening since last year when my boyfriend died,and then my other boyfriend died,and then my best friend died.I'm so confused.Because if I leave him I'll tell myself that I want to be single for a while,but then like 3 days later I'm in another relationship with another guy I don't really like.Plus,my bf seems like a cheater,because when we met he had a gf and he kept flirting with me,god only knows if he is doing the same thing to me.I don't know what to do.If I leave him,what if I really don't get another guy for a while,I don't want to be alone,and I don't want people thinking I'm a whore or anything.And then again,what if he isn't kidding.He says if we ever break up he'll kill himself?I wouldn't be able to live with that.Anybody know what I should do?
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Jan 25 2007, 06:37 PM
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Don't worry if you don't get another guy -- you're only thirteen. You have PLENTY of time to be with a boy. You will find another. If you think he's the cheating kind and you don't like him, break up with him. He won't kill himself, he's just being melodramatic.
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Jan 25 2007, 06:49 PM
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Aw, I'm sorry bout your past boyfriends &your bestfriend.. Stayup, better days will come. But yea, you're only 13 &that's still young. You still have time to be with another boy, &another &another. Different times of course. I don't think he's gonna kill himself if you break up with him. He's just being dramatic &wants attention. After breaking up with him, you want to be single for awhile right? Just spend time with friends and not get invovled with any boys. If they try to get at you, just tell them straight up that you don't want to be in a relationship &stay true to your word, yourself, &heart. Don't go out with someone that you don't like. That's like using them as a rebound boy/girl.
Shouldn't this be in relationships? |
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Jan 25 2007, 08:18 PM
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 Home is where your rump rests! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,235 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969 |
Please don't make duplicate topics, one will suffice. The other one will be kept open and moved to Relationships.
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