this annoying guy., please help |
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 Jan 23 2007, 10:02 PM
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there is this guy who asked me to winter ball in december. long story short he made me miserable, and i have tried to tell him to stop bothering me in a nice way.
he's like not "f**king off." even though i implied it. what should i do? |
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Jan 23 2007, 10:13 PM
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stop implying, and tell him to f**k off
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Jan 23 2007, 10:37 PM
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QUOTE(BOPular @ Jan 23 2007, 10:13 PM)  stop implying, and tell him to f**k off i agree.. be assertive but not mean, get the point across but don't imply the longer you wait, the harder it will be for him consume! |
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Jan 23 2007, 10:48 PM
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Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
i told him he wasn't my friend . <<but he still ims me. follows me at school.
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Jan 23 2007, 11:18 PM
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Not just that, tell him you don't want to have anything to do with him anymore (if that's really how you feel), and make it clear.
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Jan 23 2007, 11:52 PM
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 You say you eat fucking hearts for breakfast. Group: Member Posts: 662 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,026 |
Sounds ilke a stalker. And uh, I don't mean it in a funny way.
You need to be confrontational and get up in his face, and tell him to keep the f**k away from you. |
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Jan 24 2007, 01:33 AM
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 Believe in Magic. Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 497,854 |
I pretty much agree with everyone.
Tell him exactly how you feel. [That you want to be left alone by him] &explain -briefly- why. Don't let it keep dragging on. &If he gets to be too big of an annoyance... Talk to someone at school, a teacher or something. :] Make one of your big manly friends get him to leave you alone ;D |
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Jan 24 2007, 11:31 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
QUOTE(BOPular @ Jan 23 2007, 10:13 PM) stop implying, and tell him to f**k off Hahahhaa. That's great. But true. Don't be afraid to sound mean. |
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Jan 24 2007, 01:04 PM
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When people don't get it, you have to give t to the straight. Simply say, "I don't think you get it, I DO NOT LIKE YOU AT ALL. YOU HAVE NO CHANCE WITH ME. DO YOU UNDERSTAND?"
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Jan 24 2007, 01:14 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
slap him in the face. keep on doing that until he gets the message
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Jan 25 2007, 07:06 AM
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a simple kick in the balls. and a "i hate you " will suffice lol
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Jan 25 2007, 07:07 AM
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^ OH MY GOSH YOU TOOK MY REPLY! HOW COULD YOU!!!?!?!?!?!?
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Jan 25 2007, 12:58 PM
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 Oh Wow ... Group: Official Designer Posts: 688 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 468,522 |
wow that's real creepy. but yeah get all up on his face and jut tell him to leave you the fck alone cuz hes creeping you out. yeah that sucks =/
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Jan 25 2007, 06:34 PM
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Tell him straight up.
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Jan 26 2007, 07:43 AM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933 |
i agree with everyone... just tell him to f*** off...
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Jan 26 2007, 08:31 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
Live with it. If he likes to follow you around, tell him to buy you lunch and save your own money.
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Jan 26 2007, 12:21 PM
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sometimes the blunt truth is the best way....if you don't want to hurt his feelings then you're gonna have to deal with it
good luck hidden_soul |
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Jan 26 2007, 12:24 PM
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 never settle for less than what you deserve. Group: Member Posts: 485 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,920 |
Block him off on AIM, try telling him again to back off, if he doesnt then you can just go walk different ways to classes or avoid the places you know he'll be there.
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Feb 2 2007, 08:56 AM
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 WarPath Leader. Group: Member Posts: 668 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,721 |
Haha this is funny, atleast for me, one of my best friends hated themselves to death, they even got in a fight, guess what, when the prom came, they won and the next day they were like "the perfect couple", so what i'm saying its that maybe you don't "know" him much.... in the end if he really is an stalker weh get some help from other people since you can't do anything 1 on 1 :/ mho
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Feb 2 2007, 11:32 AM
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 D.L.A Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 499,537 |
QUOTE(xMyStIcShAd0wSx @ Jan 24 2007, 6:14 PM) slap him in the face. keep on doing that until he gets the message hahaha  agreed 
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Feb 2 2007, 08:12 PM
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Just tell him what you feel.... don't hold back
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Feb 2 2007, 10:08 PM
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Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
thank you everybody. i took your advice. he is out of my life :]
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