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 Jan 16 2007, 04:13 PM
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Before I start the topic I guess I'll just tell you guys/girls about myself since I am new. K well I'm 18 and I'm in High School right now and I am 5"7 (Yes I know I'm short lol). I love to weight lift. Before I started I was 110 pounds now I weigh 150. (sigh) sadly I have yet to have a girlfriend. It seems I can be friends with them but not *close* enough. Last time I asked a girl out she laughed and walked away the other said she hates my personality
 Ok well I like this girl and I've liked her for some time now. She is in my english class. I was you know shy around girls I liked but this one I can talk to. I sometimes sit with her in english but of course my friends always insist that i sit with them. But everytime I talk to her I...well most of the times make myself look like a total idiot. I just say stupid things sometimes for no reason at all it just pops out without me even thinking about it. I just seem to say the wrong things. But other times I make her laugh alot. That is one of my positives is that I make people laugh all the time. I really like this girl but I wanna have like a nice conversation with her. Plus someday I hope to ask her out and she will say yes but I guess I got to slowly work my way up. Thanks for posting 
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Jan 16 2007, 04:20 PM
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so what advice do you need exactly?
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| *Uronacid* |
Jan 16 2007, 04:50 PM
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One piece of advice. Don't treat her like your friend or that's exactly what you'll be. I know you don't want that. Don't put her on a pedistal. If you need me to elaborate more let me know.
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Jan 16 2007, 05:28 PM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
^Agreed. My boyfriend's friend had a girl ask
me to go out with him almost a year ago. Though I had a lot of reasons for freaking out and saying no, one of the reasons why was because he was this neat little friend of mine and suddenly the thought of him liking me and being with him, it sort of urked me. Got me from behind and didn't process in my mind well. Moral of story: let your intentions be known?  As for you acting like an idiot. I think it's pretty common, it can be a bit awkward sometimes talking to someone you like.. Just don't make a big deal out of it, laugh it off. Everyone makes mistakes, just be yourself with her. |
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Jan 16 2007, 09:30 PM
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 young enough to not give a f*ck Group: Member Posts: 1,149 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,060 |
my best advice :
Think before you talk! |
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Jan 16 2007, 09:54 PM
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young enough to not give a f*ck Group: Member Posts: 1,149 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,060 |
I know this guy in 8th grade that's 6'0 !
LOL sorry for getting off topic :D okay, you may continue. |
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Jan 16 2007, 11:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,876 |
lol no I'm not Filipino. I'm Italian, German, French and Ukraine. Yea your so right I should just off myself right now for being short
I don't know I guess I'm just short lol. In middle school I was the tallest out of my friends now they keep growing and I don't lol. But iunno I talk to her alot and I guess making her laugh alot is a plus to so i gues i gott step it up a bit. Thanks for the replies.
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Jan 17 2007, 01:26 AM
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QUOTE(ITxMISHELLE @ Jan 16 2007, 9:30 PM)  my best advice : Think before you talk! yessss!! |
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Jan 17 2007, 01:31 AM
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 never settle for less than what you deserve. Group: Member Posts: 485 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,920 |
QUOTE(JonathanK @ Jan 16 2007, 1:13 PM) Before I start the topic I guess I'll just tell you guys/girls about myself since I am new. K well I'm 18 and I'm in High School right now and I am 5"7 (Yes I know I'm short lol). I love to weight lift. Before I started I was 110 pounds now I weigh 150. (sigh) sadly I have yet to have a girlfriend. It seems I can be friends with them but not *close* enough. Last time I asked a girl out she laughed and walked away the other said she hates my personality Ok well I like this girl and I've liked her for some time now. She is in my english class. I was you know shy around girls I liked but this one I can talk to. I sometimes sit with her in english but of course my friends always insist that i sit with them. But everytime I talk to her I...well most of the times make myself look like a total idiot. I just say stupid things sometimes for no reason at all it just pops out without me even thinking about it. I just seem to say the wrong things. But other times I make her laugh alot. That is one of my positives is that I make people laugh all the time. I really like this girl but I wanna have like a nice conversation with her. Plus someday I hope to ask her out and she will say yes but I guess I got to slowly work my way up. Thanks for posting Aw, you sound like a sweet guy that cares about this girl. I'm sorry that 1st girl laughed at you when you asked her out. Don't go thinking we're all bad okay-haha she was prob. shallow in the first place. Anyways, I don't know what advice you need because you seem to be good at trying to talk to her in class and hanging w/ her in class. And that does take effort and I wish guys would do that now these days. So kudos to you, but ya know..Valentine's day is coming up..so find some creative way or a simple sweet message of asking her out. This would show her how much you gone out of your way to do so, because nobody's creative anymore..so find some way. I'm sure you'll find it, plus every girl wants a valentine..even though we hate to admit it but it will def. make her smile. |
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Jan 17 2007, 01:02 PM
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 The Official Romanista Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,222 |
I'm just gonna say this once, DON'T ACT LIKE YOU JUST WANNA BE FREINDS! That's a bad idea. It's happened to me, and it sucks. You feel defeated when you really haven't been.
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| *slammin shelby* |
Jan 17 2007, 02:21 PM
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QUOTE(CLYDE @ Jan 16 2007, 9:44 PM) LOL! HAHAHA! Hey, maybe he's Filipino.... Go easy. - You gotta be honest with her. Better to try and fail than not try and don't know what could've happened. hahaha flip. yeah i agree with robbi 
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Jan 17 2007, 02:38 PM
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Genin Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 471,009 |
QUOTE(CLYDE @ Jan 16 2007, 6:44 PM) Hey, maybe he's Filipino.... Go easy. Wow, you people must no a lot of short Filipinos. Although many of them are short, I know a lot who are fricken tall. But hey, I'm just a Junior in a mainly Filipino school...perhaps I'll see more of the shorter ones once I leave. Anyway Mr. 18 Year Old, I think whatever height you are shouldn't be the point of this topic. Like everyone else said, being friends with her may not be the best idea. ALTHOUGH, some chicks say they would rather start off as friends/get to know a guy better before going out with them. I'm sure you've heard that before. So I say, find out if she would rather be friends first or just start flirting here and there. I'm really no good at this, just listen to everyone else then =/ |
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