WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE!?, and it's not teenagers for once. Options

[*slammin shelby*]

Okay. So let me tell you.
Some of you know where I work. If you don't, I work at a bowling alley. We'll for about the past year everyone has pretty much called me the whore of T-Bowl. And not a joke. I was never cool with it, but I blew it off.

They started calling me that because New Years 2005 some really drunk guy pushed me into the bathroom and wanted me to go down on him. And I didn't want to but my friend Alex walked in and got me out of there. Well. Even tho I didn't do anything at all with him. He told all his little friends that I did give him head.

Well, after that all these guys were like 'Yeah come on I want a BJ' and I was like wtf. Then all the girls were like 'Jesus she's a whore'.

Yes I will admit I hooked up with a co-worker. But that was it. Besides that the honest to God last time I hooked up with anyone was 5 months ago. And that was with my boyfriend of 7 months. Who I DID NOT cheat on.

So yesterday at work, this guy comes up to me, I forget his name, but everyone calls him by his last name, Minski. He's cool I guess, I know him though Alex, and thats about it. I don't think he's hot or anything, but whatever.

So we are talking at work and he is like 'Oh lemme get your number and we can just hang out and stuff or whatev'. Idc. I gave it to him.

Later that night he IMs me and starts talking about how hott he thinks I am and how much he wanted to hook up with me after work and blah blah blah. I was like. Wtf is wrong with you. I don't do that. He said 'thats not what I hear' I asked him what he was talking about and he said, 'Oh from what people tell me you get around and are pretty easy.'

Well. Make a already long story short. One of my supervisors (whos in her late 40's and I work with her whore daughter) and all my co-workers and people I DONT EVEN KNOW are telling their guy friends how many guys I have f**ked and how I'll sleep with anyone.

Yeah thats um. Not true. Honestly. I have had sex with one person, one time. And I regret it and have decided not to have sex again until I'm married. Anyway, I got really upset. It's one thing for the kids there to be like 'You are such a whore'. With them I can blow it off, but with adults? It's f**ked the hell up.


Whatever. Anyone have anything like this happen?

[*yrrnotelekktric*]

wow. that`s a f**ked up story. but no. nothing like this has ever happened to me. f**k them all. that`s rude.

[Intercourselyts]

Woah, those people. I remember at my old school I had some name going around that I did stuff with people. And so I ended being homeschooled the next year anyway and people started IMing from the school and played this joke on me in which they printed out the whole conversations and sent copies around the schoool Atleast I'm pretty much smart enough not to tell people on aim anything.

It kind of made them look stupid in some ways, but sometimes not so much.

I'm sorry for what happened to you, I can't believe people step to that level sometimes.

[HakunaMatata]

No, but I would quit. That's the most ridiculous environment to be in, and it's not safe.

[***Lucy**]

Actuallly yes.
But after some weeks they stopped it.
Anyway, it still happens sometimes.

These people are stupid. Just try to ignore them.

[Intercourselyts]

No, but I would quit. That's the most ridiculous environment to be in, and it's not safe.

I 150% agree, I bet you could get a ton better job somewhere else were they respect you.

[*My Cinderella.*]

I'm sorry to hear that. Wow...that is unbelievable. I hate when false rumors go around. Eh, that kinda happened to me last year. When my boyfriend broke up with me, people thought it was because I was cheating on him...it wasnt even true. People gave me mean looks in school.

[show_me]

Maybe you're not really a whore, but theres really reason why they're under the impression you're one.
From past chat conversations, I think you're a whore too. I guess its pretty easy to get things mixed up huh?
Well thanks for the story, I'll be sure not to fool around with coworkers in the future!

[freeflow]

If it is possible I would seriously think about finding a new job, but its not so easy . That is seriously f-ed up and you really should have to deal with that at all under any circumstances. If its possible you should really think about finding a new job. Unless there are alot of "pros" to working there. I would say ignore them, but after a while stuff gets really hard to ignore. I hope things change for the better soon.

[*x1227x*]

Awww.. Shelby!!

Wtf.. One kind of people are they? Hell, They should all get a head smacking. That never happened to me. That's pretty f**king harsh. I would suggest you quit that job. That guy should be slapped across the face. Confront him, and be like "Wtf is your problem!?"

[*slammin shelby*]

No, but I would quit. That's the most ridiculous environment to be in, and it's not safe.

I am quitting. It's like. How can an adult do that to a kid? Thats so wrong. I've been nice to everyone there since I started working there over a year ago. And this is what I get. Esssh.

Maybe you're not really a whore, but theres really reason why they're under the impression you're one.
From past chat conversations, I think you're a whore too. I guess its pretty easy to get things mixed up huh?

Haha wow. Yeah I like to joke around alot online. But in person I'm actually pretty tame. My parents raised me right

Awww.. Shelby!!

Wtf.. One kind of people are they? Hell, They should all get a head smacking. That never happened to me. That's pretty f**king harsh. I would suggest you quit that job. I don't think that you'll consider Alex one of your "friends" since he just made your situation worse. Maybe you should confront him, and if he's being a little bitch, go off on him. That's unacceptable.

Alex is a girl btw ;x No she didn't do anything wrong. She actually got me out of the New Years situation.

[Jeng]

Jeez, wow, I hate when those rumors go around.

[moninja]

wow, i'm sorry shelby.
you should just quit..

[technicolour]

I'd make a dramatic exit. Way dramatic. Plot something reaalllyyyy evil to get back at them. Throw the bowling balls at them or something.



And then leave.


Mwahaha.

But really, that is freaking messed up.

[*x1227x*]

Alex is a girl btw ;x No she didn't do anything wrong. She actually got me out of the New Years situation.

Misunderstanding, sorry. I editted it.

[HakunaMatata]

I'd make a dramatic exit. Way dramatic. Plot something reaalllyyyy evil to get back at them. Throw the bowling balls at them or something.
And then leave.
Mwahaha.

But really, that is freaking messed up.

Shelby, if you do that, take pictures, 'kay?

[*WHIMSICAL 0NE*]

Yeah, I agree you should quit. People have no right to treat you that way. It's gotten to a point of where it's more than them just talking crap about... I mean people are trying to get with you because they think you're "easy".

I'd make a dramatic exit. Way dramatic. Plot something reaalllyyyy evil to get back at them. Throw the bowling balls at them or something.
And then leave.
Mwahaha.

But really, that is freaking messed up.

LOL, hey if you're quitting why not =P

[*a painefull euphoria*]

I something similar happend to me at this pub i was working at earlyer this year.
what happened was that legaly in dublin the pubs must stop serving any alcholic beverage by 2 am the lastest 2:05 am.and when we say "final drink call" they have the final opertunity to buy one last drink. and then we alow them to stay a little while to try and sober up and we serve them coffee and such
so anyhoot occasionaly you get the one guy who loves to drink [irish duh] adn wants to keep drink past the time limit and we have to nicefully say "im sorry sir but its closing time" well this one arse comes up to me asking for a drink and im like "we are closed for the night" so he trys arguing with me and finaly his drunkass pushes me over climbs over the bar and f**king starts drinking out of the taps. one of my male co-workers tried getting him out of there and he did but the drunk comes up in my face drunkenly telling me that i had a exotic face and body and that he wanted to get to know me better with him being on top.when he starts grabing me and he starts undoing my shirt
i of course start screaming now for me when i have to scream for help thats degrading beacuse im usualy the one to get out of shit on my own but this guy was just too strong for me so eventualy the same male co-worker comes to bash this guys head in with a tequila bottle. and of course my shirt is undone and he stands there and askes me if allright.
im like yeah im fine so he told me to go home take a shower and rest and that hell close up for me and tell the boss what happened.

i come back the next day and my boss aproaches me and yells at me calling me a dirty mexican girl beacuse i apparently was trying to hook up with patrons in the public. whick wasnt true beacuse i was nearly raped!! it turns out the guy who helped me out told my boss that so he would fire me and hed be the only bartender there that way he wouldent have to compeat with a pretty face :tounge: for tips.

so now i look like chicana whore and my whole work enviorment was soo akward and even though i made alot of money working there i realized that one thered be a high risk of this happening again and maybe i wont be so lucky next time.
and two if im going to be a chef i should really get a more constructive job like working in a resteraunt as a seux chef.

so i left peacefully left but you all knowing my nature should know i didnt leave without kicking somesort of ass.
so while my former co-worker was working i went into the employee parking lot and rear ended his car with mine. and im soo lucky my baby lovebug beetle didnt get a dent or scratch beacuse i did one hell of a job to his car.
then i took out a can of pink spray paint and wrote " I LOOK AT CHILD PORNOGRAPHY EVERYNIGHT BEFORE I SLEEP"

and left and never came back again.
make my story plain and simple
i think you should leave and find a better place to work.

[show_me]

I am quitting. It's like. How can an adult do that to a kid? Thats so wrong. I've been nice to everyone there since I started working there over a year ago. And this is what I get. Esssh.
Haha wow. Yeah I like to joke around alot online. But in person I'm actually pretty tame. My parents raised me right
Alex is a girl btw ;x No she didn't do anything wrong. She actually got me out of the New Years situation.

Find a lawyer honestly, and have him write a letter to your employers alerting them on the seriousness of the situation. Then just drop nice hints in the letter about how you're going to sue on slander or something even more. Usually if you find a good lawyer he'll write the letter for you for free as a prospective client. 200-500$ from there

[miiichellley]

so i left peacefully left but you all knowing my nature should know i didnt leave without kicking somesort of ass.
so while my former co-worker was working i went into the employee parking lot and rear ended his car with mine. and im soo lucky my baby lovebug beetle didnt get a dent or scratch beacuse i did one hell of a job to his car.
then i took out a can of pink spray paint and wrote " I LOOK AT CHILD PORNOGRAPHY EVERYNIGHT BEFORE I SLEEP"

you have a lot of nerve.

Anyway, i suggest you just quit your job and find a place where people don't treat you like dirt and actually have some respect for you. Those people have no life if they're going to spend their time talking trash about you.

[KissMe2408]

Jeez......that's some story.
I can't believe that, that's really horrible actually.
And especially for adults to be like that.
Honestly, I don't know how you stand working there.
I would of quit already if I were going through that.
Unless you get payed like. . .$15 an hour, i'd leave right away.

Fortunately, I've never gone through something of that extreme,
were even the adults are saying stuff like that.
But that's horrible, i'm sorry.
If I were you, i'd get out of there.

[Stefanny]

Whatever. Anyone have anything like this happen?

not me. i'm only 13.

[pandamonium]

i would like tear up the place. i would throw BOWLING BALLS EVERYWHERE lol. and then quit. that would be some sweet revenge.

[malimars]

Wow some people really do have no lifes eh... anyways , just ignore them I know its really hard too but when they talk about you just say " thanks for making me the centre of your world " or " glad to know people are thinking of me" why else do people talk sh*t? its cause of jealousy you got something they dont got!

[Advent_Child]

wow. that`s a f**ked up story. but no. nothing like this has ever happened to me. f**k them all. that`s rude.

Agreed

[ParanoidAndroid]

I find getting mercilessly picked on for things you actually do, worse than being made fun of for a lie.

[unconfirmed_exis...]

Oh gosh, I wouldn't know how to handle it.
I would most certainly do horribly with others talking smack about me.

Hrmmm but if I was in your situation I
would walk up to the manager of the place,
and say loud and clear that you're tired of working at a place
with co-workers that act like children.
If you can you should try to say this when those
people that said such idiotic assumptions.

You should tell them whatever's on your mind,
get your point out and end it with a nice and juicy I quit.

[fameONE]

I've been known to embrace my sexuality a bit. And if I'm single and responsible about it, I don't see a problem with having a little fun. it's consensual and I'm not leading anyone on. Well, if you're within a given community, whether it be high school, college, military or hanging out at the same spot night in and night out, word travels fast. We all know that given that CB is the same way. The downside of this is that if someone has an idea, no matter how twisted, of what you're doing, they're going to discuss it amongst those that they know. So when it comes down to digressing and not doing all the wild things that you (err, I, in this case) once did, you're going to get heat for it and people will run their mouths.

I don't have any regrets about what I've done in my life. I don't see a reason to regret that which I cannot change because those experiences and happenings have helped mold me into who I am today. Am I going to jump the gun and tell my kids that I've done an adult video or that I partied so hard that I couldn't remember what happened the entire weekend? Not off the bat, but the conversation will eventually come up because I'm not ashamed of anything in my past. The best way to handle it, in my opinion, is to surround yourself with people who know and understand you. Then make a conscious effort not to let those acquaintances that are only around you when things are going well into your inner circle.

When you do this, it's a lot easier to blow people off. Moving three times a year doesn't hurt, either.

[mmhmichelle]

Whatever. Anyone have anything like this happen?

not for me,and i would effin hate it if it did,but that really sucks. Seriously,if it gets any worse,quit the job or better yet - just quit now !

[*slammin shelby*]

hah. thanks guys. i am quitting.
i hate it there. the people who work there are all just white trash werid people.

this one a-hole who said he was my uh 'friend' said to me.
"well since everyone says it. its hard to believe you."

wtf?

[yeah toast]

Dude, I'd be pissed. I'd probably smack them in the head and say "Excuse me, but do you have any names of these people I have supposedly "done stuff" with? Because if not, could please shut the hell up and go stick your head in a blender."

If this fails approach plan B.

Plan B: mess with their car.


..best of wishes!

[*a painefull euphoria*]

Plan B: mess with their car.

thats what i did and i left my old bartending job really really happy

[voguelove]

one of my friends moms went wacko and started telling everyone that i stole money from peoples homes.

i didnt get invited to anyone's house for years.

[multifaceted]

they are just being childish. try to ignore them.