selfishness and jealousy, a friend in need... |
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 Jun 5 2004, 08:48 PM
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 x mar muffins *yuuuum  Group: Member Posts: 874 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,620  |
of help, okay, well i have this friend, shes a few months younger than me, and shes been in "love" with this so called guy, lets call him "c" and ever since 6th grade, she has liked him, he liked her for a short period of time, but got over her, he broke her heart. now my friend met all these other guys, "J"& "a" and now theres a "k" shes currently cheating on "a" with "k" and its pissing me off, shes hurting all these guys, plus, now one of our close friends "kris" likes "c" and "c" likes "kris" back, my friend finds out and trips about this, shes jealous, and being selfish, she wants THREE guys at the same time, how the heck do I help her? I dont want her to be hurt, but she has to learn her lesson, i mean, what if ALL of these guys find out what shes up to, and she ends up with NO ONE, ugh, help me please?
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Jun 5 2004, 09:04 PM
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 AzN PrYde WoRLdWiDe ^.^ GoT RiCe? Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,187 |
...dat.. is just.. wrong..
..im a guy and if i find my girl is cheating on me.. id end up being hurt.. especially if i love her very much.. and worse i might even end up fighting with those other guys... ..not to be rude or mean.. but..something's wrong wid her.. and its not right to cheat on 3 guys because the guy she had a crush on SIXTH grade SO CALLED broke her heart... cmont its SIXTH grade.. i bet she didnt even know wut LOVE means.. nor she knows wut LOVE means right now.. because as far as i can tell.. she doesnt know how to love if she cheats on 3 guys and trips bkuz her friend likes da guy and da guy she likes likes her friend.. ...ionno wut to do.. but talk to her continously.. tell her that it was SIXTH grade.. and people move on..tell her to get over it.. tell her its wrong wut she's doing.. ask her how would she feel if guyz ever played her.. just help her out.. daz all i can say.. ..but deng.. dats gotta stop... and she should be happy that 1 of her friends is having a good relationship.. instead of being selfish and jelous.. she has 3 guys.. |
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Jun 5 2004, 11:17 PM
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x mar muffins *yuuuum Group: Member Posts: 874 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,620 |
she was just cheating on ONE, they didnt really go out or anything, but they liked each other for a few months... then he gave up on her..she has lotsa problems, her mom left her when she was a lil girl, so she doesnt have that mom figure to tell her stuff, so im liek the sub, ehh guess im not helping much. i agree about the friend thing that she shouldnt be selfish and jealous about it.. its not right, other people need to have their happiness as well.
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Jun 5 2004, 11:25 PM
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 BOO! Group: Member Posts: 139 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,660 |
dang.. if the guy or is it guy (sorta confused) finds out that your friend is cheating.. i dont think your friend would want to stick around anymore...
tell her that this isnt the right way to approach things.. maybe because her mom left her when she was a lil girl... explains why she needs a lot of guys. shes afraid that one will leave.. thus if one does she'll have the other two or whatnot.. as a friend and as her "substitute mom" you have to show that you're always there for her.. even if you dont want to be.. and i mean its not impossible to fall in love when you're young.. my friend's parents went out in the 5th grade and eventually got married..but i suggest you talk things out with your friend.. not all at once.. but one step at a time.. hopefully things will turn out aiite.. |
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Jun 6 2004, 12:57 AM
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x mar muffins *yuuuum Group: Member Posts: 874 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,620 |
wow thats great advice, thanks a bunch, ill try to help her, once i get to talk to her
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Jun 6 2004, 12:59 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,989 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,691 |
How can she want 3 guys at once? That is a lot to me. 1 is enough.
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Jun 6 2004, 03:13 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
holy crap. she shouldn't be doing this. 1 is enough for me too ^.
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Jun 6 2004, 03:37 PM
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x mar muffins *yuuuum Group: Member Posts: 874 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,620 |
YEAH i KNOW, ONE iS ENOUGH FOR ME TOO, BUT i GUESS SHE JUST FEELS SECURE THAT WAY, i DiDNT GET THE CHANCE TO TALK TO HER YET, MAYBE TOMORROW.
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