point of a boyfriend Options

[Jinny]

since im only a freshman, if you have a boyfriend you cant really go on a "date". we cant drive and actually have a "date". so if you ask somebody out, you just label them as your boyfriend and thats all?

+ also, how would you ask somebody out?

[iDecay]

Umm.. I know people in middle school who can actually "date." It's called sneaking out or lying.

And I usually ask someone out along the lines of "You. Me. Bed. Now. "

[JenxCrazii]

i had friends from other middle school who dated and went out. im pretty sure they lied.

[vn_cuti3]

that's true you just label them as your bf/gf but some of my friends i know they actually like go to each other's house and hang out and stuff so i guess you can count that as a date


oh yah to ask someone out you can do that by sending them a note or some people have their friends ask the person for you or the best way to do it is to just ask them straight up

[*icecreamisyummy*]

yea i never really went on "dates" in middle school. it was more of a, "so you wann be my gf/bf??" and tahts it.

[moninja]

i really don't get the 'dating business' in middle school (i'm in middle school ) because they don't even do anything but some people hang out, go to movies and stuff.

&i don't ask people out.

[mmhmichelle]

I think that middle school kids are just desperate for a bf/gf,so they just..yeah.( i'm in middle school but whatever. ) And plus, have a bf or gf makes you "cool" because then you can say "i love you" to them and not mean it at all ! :O

[*Uronacid*]

Yeah, it's more of just a small scale relationship.

[miceylulu]

I really don't think a middle schooler should date because dating is for high schoolers, not little preteens who have no idea what dating could be.

[pinacoolada]

it's possible.
my ex and I took the bus to the movies..etc.

[-sincerely]

I'm in high school. But my middle school friend is 'going out' with someone. you're right. they can't drive, they don't go out, they just use each other as a label. so f**king retarded.

I really don't think a middle schooler should date because dating is for high schoolers, not little preteens who have no idea what dating could be.

totally agree. i mean, wtf, now-a-days, it's like, 'oh, yeah i have a boyfriend.' 'that's nice. how old are you?' '11.' WTF?!

[miiichellley]

Yeah, it's more of just a small scale relationship.

i agree.
you can't do much. middle schoolers are limited to places like the mall and the movies not fancy restaurants.

[Intercourselyts]

Well yea you have that tittle and of course I would hope you guys have parents that would be supportive of you being in a relationship to take you guys to the movies or go on walks or something. How old are you guys? If your younger than 13-14 I think you still need a bit more time before getting in a dating relationship. You may want to make sure they can date so your not just a couple at school...a lot of people are not allowed to date until their 15-16. So maybe waiting til' high school would be the best because you do get a bit more freedom. Anyway to ask someone out is your own choice in the words you choose. You could ask them if they would like to go to the movies with you sometime, or just blunt and ask them if they would like to be your girlfriend/boyfriend.

[voguelove]

why cant you go on a date? ask your parents or his parents to drop you off somewhere.

and if you want to ask someone out, just ask them!

[AngelinaTaylor]

... Why? ...

[MarcoDeSanctis]

Idk, plan something where you can watch a movie and there are restaurants around walking distance. Also, it's better if it's a nice night, and not raining.

That's what I did back in my middle school days, then again, everything is central in Rome..

[Cujiine]

Well you don't have to drive to a date. You could make like sandwiches or something and walk to a park and just hang out. If someone asked my out, it would take more than once for me to label them as my boyfriend...

[lovescream]

well, I know people who have their parents drive them. Or they walk to places together, or walk over to each other's house. Or they just "hang out" behind their parent's back (at a friend's house, lying to their parents). I'm not sure if any of the relationships at my school (Im in Junior High too) actually involve them labelling as bf/gf. Well, I don't pay attention to that crap. Not like I care. My last bf, we didn't just 'label' each other. Well, kind of, we did actually "go out" but we only did twice out of our 4-month relationship. It was kind of hard seeing how my mother won't let me go over ANYONE'S HOUSE, so it was hard to sneak, and not like she'd drive me if she knew I had a bf.

[Kontroll]

The way you ask some one out is actually quite simple. 'Will you go out with me?' At least that's how it's done here, or at least how I do it. haha. At this point in your life, you don't need to be going on dates. Hanging out is your best bet. I mean, the purpose of a date is to get to know some one. Right? Well, considering you don't drive and you're in middle school you should just hang out with him. I never took any of my girlfriends on dates. Wait. I took one of them on a date, but we were already going out and it was wierd. So, don't think so much. Haha. Just go with the flow. When problems arise with either of you, then you should start thinking about it. But you have something good. Keep it that way.

[Just_Dream]

Umm.. I know people in middle school who can actually "date." It's called sneaking out or lying.

And I usually ask someone out along the lines of "You. Me. Bed. Now. "

Hahahhahahahha. <3 I don't know you, but you're really funny.


My friends sometimes had boyfriends that lived near them, therefore they went to each other's houses or they went to the park. Sometimes, my friends told their parents about it and they went to dates, like to the movies and such.


Pssshhh, even in highschool I sneaked out and lied in order to be with my boyfriend. But when we first dated, basically we just said we were boyfriend and girlfriend.... The first date came a while after we started going out.