The youngest age where itz wrong to lose it... Options

[lili29]

Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ???

[shortiiex]

i think it depends on your mental state of mind. Some people are more mature and have knowledge on sex and are ready, if you know everything there is need to know and you are in love with that person, then you're ready.

[*WHIMSICAL 0NE*]

Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ???

Deffinately not when you type like that...

[voguelove]

um, personally..i think anything before the age of 17 is just..sick. you may be mentally ready, but that doesnt mean that your body has matured yet.

[lovescream]

uhhhhh there is no specific age.. it just depends who you're talking to. i think that any age under 15 is definitely too early. a lot of people lose their virginity during teen years anyway.. not like i give a crap what they do.. but i think by the time you're 15 or 16, you've had enough of sex education to know to use some damn protection so it isn't really that young.

[AngelinaTaylor]

When your parents still treat you like a kid and don't give you independence. That's when you should not :)

[mickybeans]

Definitely agree with WHIMSICAL 0NE on this one.

[xforgottenlove]

Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ???

Deffinately not when you type like that...

i definetly agree with WHIMSICAL 0NE

[showstopper!]

i think it depends on your mental state of mind. Some people are more mature and have knowledge on sex and are ready, if you know everything there is need to know and you are in love with that person, then you're ready.

I have to agree with you on this one.

[*a painefull euphoria*]

Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ???

first of all the term is "done the deed"

you shouldent have sex if you cant get sleek & classy terms for saying "ive had sex ".

im just saying:mellow:

[AngelinaTaylor]

Aw, come on. "Done the do" always sounded classy to me.

[datass]

Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ???

What are you talking about? I can't read a thing!

[datass]

Ok fine, I lied.
But I did have trouble reading it.

Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ???

Hey just wondering what is the age where it is way too young to lose it 'cause I already had sex and I know some goody goody people are like that's way too young and others think it's fine so yeah. And I know people will say it's like against God and you should wait till marriage well yeah I know all of those but trust me I tried and I wanted it that way but it didn't happen so yeah.



















You type funny.

[iDecay]

ii h@b t0 ag33 wiif Angelina Taylor.

[pic]

What age is it, as you put it, "z wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it". Well, I could tell you age seven and it would answer your question.

How old are you?

And why would it matter if you already, "done the do."

[cheri_pi]

If you have to ask, you're not ready.
I'd say that most people aren't ready for it when they're 16 or younger. That's why most people don't do it until they're in their twenties...
But it's too late now, isn't it? So I don't want to say anything discouraging.
How's this:
GREAT JOB! YOU HAD SEX WHEN YOU WERE'NT READY!
What do you *want* people to say to you?? Bad idea coming to this forum for this...

[hannahwiththemys...]

i was 20 - and i was appauling lol. now i know i'm a lesbian

[*suddenly she*]

Suzzette. Why are you such a damn genius. Or at least, more eloquent than most. Sorry if you feel like I'm sucking up to you; it's unintentional.

[lili29]

ok sorry about the way i wrote i have perfet grammar skills believe it or not... it was just way faster to write it like that anyways... im 18 now & i lost it when i was 17 & im still with the same guy that i lost it to... i love him and all and personally my mind was mature, i knew what i was doing... so yea but some of my friends were talking about that one day ;not talking about my case in particular just about that same topic ;were saying that even 17 was way to young ... i just stayed out of it ...personally i didn't think so to me if you want it and you love that one speical person and you think that you will last, then it's fine at any age as long as you're not a child ... and about the done the do and done the deed you know what i meant to me that's a perfect way to describe it and just because i didn't say it right doesn't mean im not ready and the way anyone writes has nothing to do with if your are ready or not i just wanted to see what you guys all thought about the ages but thanks

[*suddenly she*]

^Hey, maybe you were mentally mature. But you have to keep in mind everything that would or could happen, not just that you wanted him.

Lots of people think they're going to last. I personally know someone who got pregnant at fifteen... she had the baby and married her boyfriend. They stayed together for six years, then got a divorce.

Just out of curiosity, what do you mean by being mentally mature?

[miiichellley]

Deffinately not when you type like that...

I could barely read that

Personally, i don't think a certain age should really stress this factor (?) I just think like, whenever you're ready and you love e/o, etc etc. A friend supposedly tells me that he knows some 8th graders who have done it already. that sort of scares me

[lili29]

by mentallly i mean that i know everything that could happen to you he lost it to me i lost it to him but before that just to make sure i had him get a test to see if he had an std in case he wasnt telling me the truth i trusted him thought but you know not just beacuse i love him i had to be smart and its better to make sure you know? ... i mean i am an adult now... 18 i lost it at 17 then i knew to use protection and at the same time birth control and all i was ready to take care of a child if i was to get pregnant and all and he was too. and about the 8th graders i've heard that too this girl that used to go to my church ended up pregnant at age 13 had the baby gurl at 14 and she said that she had lost it at 12 to some 18 year old and after him had done 14 other guys .... now that is what i call not ready and immature!!!

by mentallly i mean that i know everything that could happen to you he lost it to me i lost it to him but before that just to make sure i had him get a test to see if he had an std in case he wasnt telling me the truth i trusted him thought but you know not just beacuse i love him i had to be smart and its better to make sure you know? ... i mean i am an adult now... 18 i lost it at 17 then i knew to use protection and at the same time birth control and all i was ready to take care of a child if i was to get pregnant and all and he was too. and about the 8th graders i've heard that too this girl that used to go to my church ended up pregnant at age 13 had the baby gurl at 14 and she said that she had lost it at 12 to some 18 year old and after him had done 14 other guys .... now that is what i call not ready and immature!!!

[miiichellley]

It's good to know that you seemed pretty ready and all when you lost it and that's a good thing.

^ and yeah, that is absolutely immature. And she goes to church? that's all the wrong combination.

[lili29]

yea she went to church that's the sad thing but then again i cant say much im a pastor's daughter(but then they do say oreachers kids are the worst ;p) anyways she only went because her parents made her go she hasn't been back in like a year

[Mschamgirl]

i definetly agree with WHIMSICAL 0NE

i tottallyy agree

[coconutter]

how long did it take you to write all that

and what the hell is "ik"

i can't read a word you say

[Intercourselyts]

I think its pretty understandable to wait til' your married, although I personally think if your around 14 or under its a bit to young to have sex. Although it also goes along with how mature you are as well, and what kind of relationship you have with the person you choose to lose it too.

[Stefanny]

abstinence, my friend. (wait till marriage)
mike calls me a nun for that, but w/e.

by the way, do you have to type like that? haha, just saying.
agreed with the below.

[Anna-x-chan]

Deffinately not when you type like that...

Agreed, haha.

[vash1530]

girls make such a big deal abt sex....the reason girls r afraid to hav sex iz that there is so much pressure created by religion, view of self in society, friends, etc., that, once u finally have sex, u realize how much of a waste of time worrying abt it was. 3 simple rules:
use protection
dont be
use protection

besides stds, sex isnt that big of a deal...society just makes it out to be.

[Stefanny]

^ your parents would get mad if they found out

[laurie_]

Well, that's very nice.

In my eyes, you shouldn't have sex until you are married. That's something you should give to your husband, and once it's gone it can never be replaced. I think teens spread their legs too damn easily. There isn't a really a "youngest age". Like age 1 is too young, but age 14 is too young too. So until you are in a bond that will last a life time don't make decisions that come attached with responsibilities and consequences you can't handle.

I've had two friends that have gotten pregnant and honestly, I felt bad for them yeah..but in a way I didn't. If you can't handle adult responsibilities then don't do adult things. "Ohhh I'm wearing a condom". You can be on birth control, your guy could be wearing a condom, be on the pill, the patch whatever---and still get pregnant. Because they are not 100% effective, and the only thing that is 100% effective against STD's and pregnancy is abstinence.

Just look at your life in a timeline with the average human life expectancy.

<------5------10------15------20--------------------------------------------------------------------------------70--->

Teens are losing their virginity around 15 these days. Why would you want to f**k up so early in the timeline and catch an STD or get pregnant? I know we're not gonna all live 'till 70, but I want to. So I'm not gonna make big decisions too early in my life when I'm too young to understand them.
SO, to answer your question you are too young when you can't handle the consequences of what you're doing.

that is awesome. i am so printing it out.

[Rachel]

Yes you can.

I bet you all can read what she's saying/know what she means.

Hahah.



Anyway, I think anyone under 16 should really not be having sex, and those who are under 16, most likely aren't mature enough. Hell, most people who are having sex aren't ready.

[miiichellley]

^ It's because people (teens) are so pressured.
And really curious, especially

[multifaceted]

it depends

any age is appropriate as long as you are responsible enough to deal with the consequences

[ldyxluvable]

i cant really understand you but hmm when you are mature enough i guess

[*slammin shelby*]

Deffinately not when you type like that...

HAHAHAHAHA OMG.


yeah like. 14. haha.
i'd wait til your married.

[Imlearning]

okay. first. please stop typing like that. it would be really helpful

secondly, i myself and waiting until married.

i think thats the best choice.

[synthase]

ehh..first of all; its hard to read what your saying

second of all, i think junior high years are too young to "do it"
but thats just my opinion

[*Duchess of Dork*]

The youngest age that is wrong to "lose it" is the age you are when you are still unready to "lose it".

I have no idea why I'm putting "lose it" in quotes either.

[miceylulu]

I think you should wait until you are married. That way you know you really love this person and are willing to make a commitment to them, instead of just feeling a bit frisky. I definitely don't agree with today's teens having sex just because they're curious. Curiosity killed the cat! And having sex is not safe - pregnancy, STDs, and the possibility of complete mental breakdown when they up and leave.

[iDecay]

This doesen't really only apply to girls..

Moved to the lounge.

Mods, if you disagree, feel free to re-move this.

[*Sephora.*]

i think it depends on your mental state of mind. Some people are more mature and have knowledge on sex and are ready, if you know everything there is need to know and you are in love with that person, then you're ready.

Agreed. But really.... It just depends.

[emazing]

Excluding rape, anywhere from 1 to 17.

[*kryogenix*]

IF THERE'S GRASS ON THE FIELD IT'S TIME TO PLAY BALL IF NOT YOU CAN PLAY IN THE MUD

[mocassinsx29]

IF THERE'S GRASS ON THE FIELD IT'S TIME TO PLAY BALL IF NOT YOU CAN PLAY IN THE MUD

Haha I get it. That's a good one. I give it 3.5/5 stars.

Anywho! I think it is wrong to lose it if you're below 18.

[*Intercourse.*]

When your questioning it still then its not the right time. You should be 100% ready to do it, with no questions to go along with it either. I say when your under 16 its still a bit young, maybe even waiting til your 18 or older or even married.

[*mzkandi*]

We have similar topics like this in Relationships so I will move this there.

[*Uronacid*]

Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ???

Man, I hate reading this... learn to talk to people on the internet...

I think that sex should be a mutual thing, and people shouldn't have sex unless it's mutual.

[Bunnybandit]

14.
Thats when I gave it up.
Guess it just depends on who
you are.

[eboarder2020]

I think the only appropriate age to lose it is when your able to support your worst case scenario. If you cant live with the consequence you shouldn't be taking the risk.

[priyas]

You should not have sex without being educated in uses of condoms and birth control .
Any age 15 and up. Personally, I would wait until the age of 18.

[mochafrescato]

Well, that's very nice.

In my eyes, you shouldn't have sex until you are married. That's something you should give to your husband, and once it's gone it can never be replaced. I think teens spread their legs too damn easily. There isn't a really a "youngest age". Like age 1 is too young, but age 14 is too young too. So until you are in a bond that will last a life time don't make decisions that come attached with responsibilities and consequences you can't handle.

I've had two friends that have gotten pregnant and honestly, I felt bad for them yeah..but in a way I didn't. If you can't handle adult responsibilities then don't do adult things. "Ohhh I'm wearing a condom". You can be on birth control, your guy could be wearing a condom, be on the pill, the patch whatever---and still get pregnant. Because they are not 100% effective, and the only thing that is 100% effective against STD's and pregnancy is abstinence.

Just look at your life in a timeline with the average human life expectancy.

<------5------10------15------20--------------------------------------------------------------------------------70--->

Teens are losing their virginity around 15 these days. Why would you want to f**k up so early in the timeline and catch an STD or get pregnant? I know we're not gonna all live 'till 70, but I want to. So I'm not gonna make big decisions too early in my life when I'm too young to understand them.
SO, to answer your question you are too young when you can't handle the consequences of what you're doing.

i totally agree. Thats the sensible thing to do.
Suzette. genious. (<not sure if i spelled that right, but oh well ;x)

[pinacoolada]

Losing your virginity as a skanky and immature 15 year old is totally different from losing your virginity as a mature and ready 15 year old...so it depends on the person's level of maturity.
...But I would say 12 is a terrible time to lose your virginity regardless of your maturity level; I think it would just mess you up..so I guess that's the exception for me.

[MarcoDeSanctis]

"The youngest age where itz wrong to lose it..."

15

[troublemaker36]

honestly..i think anything under 16 is too young..but theres some immature 16 year olds out there too..so it all depends on you. i lost mine two weeks ago and im 16. i dont regret it at all because i know i love him..and i plan on staying with him. i know anything can happen to change that but i felt ready.

and just because you know the facts about what can happen doesnt mean anything either. things happen to married couples that they aren't ready for either. accidents can happen whether your married or not.

the only reason your wondering if you were ready or not is because of what people are going to say. thats stupid. it's your personal decision..other people's opinions shouldn't matter. you love him..you stayed with him..and you still seem happy about it.

if this topic was written by a 13 year old then yeah..theres a problem. in my opinion they dont even know what dating is like. eating lunch together at school doesnt count as being in love. so i think only you know when your ready..coming to cb to ask a question like this usually just brings criticism..by some people.

[helloxtine]

i think you should do it when you KNOW you're readyy.
i know someone who lost in in 4th grade.

[gita]

it obviously depends on the maturity of the individuals and the depth of the relationship, but honestly: how many 15- or 16- year olds that you know would be ready to handle pregnancy? if you're going to have sex, you MUST be able to deal with the repercussions. whether or not you're using contraception, let's face it - pregnancy can still occur. i, personally, am going to wait until marriage - but for anyone who isn't, 18 seems the best age, considering that anyone younger would most likely have an extremely difficult time raising a child.

[princess*missy]

Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ???

Where in the hell did you learn to spell? and May I say English please!

Oh yeah, and I say it depends on if your mature enough or not. and by judging your spelling... it seems to me your like in, what, 2nd grade? lol!

[*mishyerr*]

i think it depends on your mental state of mind. Some people are more mature and have knowledge on sex and are ready, if you know everything there is need to know and you are in love with that person, then you're ready.

Exactly ^_^

But I think the EARLIEST anyone "should" have sex is highschool. At least your slightly more mature, and the boys aren't as openly sexual.

The most important thing would be to know EVERYTHING you can possibly know about sex and its consequences.

[xoForbidden_Love...]

that took me forever to readd well i agree with mango.peach on this onee