he said he needs me in his life but he doesn`t love me |
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 Dec 30 2006, 01:04 AM
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 fo`shizzLe  Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 422,719  |
i have a friend. and she`s confused to what`s going on with her. she had a best friend and she has feelings for the guy and good thing the guy knows about it. HOWEVER... the guy told her that he doesn`t like her. but then, one day the guy confront my friend and told her that HE NEEDS HER IN HIS LIFE AND HE CAN`T LIVE WITHOUT HER. do you think what he said was for a friendship thing or somehow he felt the way how my friend does to him? i don`t know i`m confused too. so i`m asking for help to everybody.
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Dec 30 2006, 02:40 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
Maybe he just doesn't understand his feelings.
Or, he might "need" that girl in his life because she makes him feel wanted, or special or something, but nothing that's actual love. If he doesn't love her, but "needs" her, he's really self centered. |
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Dec 30 2006, 02:48 AM
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 Always [Hopeless] Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,316 |
He probably means as a friend, he needs her to be a good friend. I would assume that, because he never mentioned needing her as anything more than a friend. She could ask him, so there isn't any worrying. What ever the case, he sounds like he needs her as a friend at least. |
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Dec 30 2006, 03:06 AM
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Dec 30 2006, 03:30 AM
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Always [Hopeless] Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,316 |
If that were the case then why didn't he just say "I need you", instead of "I need you in my life"?
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Dec 30 2006, 04:27 AM
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Dec 30 2006, 05:29 AM
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1TRIPZ FUCC UP Group: Member Posts: 311 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 482,242 |
^ Yes. Well not w/ a guy
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Dec 30 2006, 02:35 PM
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It could go both ways. Basically, he needs her there for him to know that everything's okay.
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Dec 30 2006, 03:04 PM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
Wait for more signs! One just isn't enough!
 If he's truely interested in your friend something similar if not more noticable(is that a word? o.o;) should occur again. His true motive will reveal itself with time! 
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Dec 30 2006, 10:15 PM
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maybe he's starting to feel something for her, or he's jsut afraid. why dont you ask him, sinc eyoure just the friend. it owuld probably be abit awckward if your friend asked him
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Dec 30 2006, 10:21 PM
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It sounds a lot like at this point he needs her as a friend. As in he couldnt live without her, even though he doesnt have a romantic interest in her. But for the sake of not sending or getting mixed messages, she should talk to him about. Tell him that its confusing to hear "I dont like you that way" and then " i need you in my life." That shes not really sure where he stands with their friendship/relationship...and just wants to know what he means by needs her.
Becuase in the end, only he really knows what he meant by it. |
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Dec 31 2006, 02:03 AM
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hhmm, well wait a little longer see what happens because it's just too vague to understand, maybe talk to him about it or ask one of his friends or something
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