Great relationship bad upcomming..., A bit confusing for the title |
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 Dec 26 2006, 06:49 PM
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Ok I just got into a relationship with my friend who I've know and hung out with since preactially my whole life. Just to get this out of the way I'm 15 and he's 18. We've been together for a week now and I found out (from him) that after graduation in June, he's going to San Antonio texas for basic training because he's in the JROTC program at his school and he's training to be in the Air Force. Anyways, he's only going to be gone for six weeks over the summer but I don't know if it's worth it to stay together. Gosh that sounds bad. Umm I really like him and I feel comfortable around him and my parents love him his dad loves me and everything but it's going to be hard being so far away from him for so long because last summer, before we got together, I'd see him like every weekend or so since he lives about 30 minutes away and I'd have to take the bus over or something but yeah. And I wont be able to see him unless he brings his laptop and camera but webcams aren't the same as seeing him in real life. He said he wants me to go see his graduation but I'm not going to be able to afford round trip tickets to San Antonio. So I was wondering, should I just spend as much time with him as possuble now and then do emails and phones calls while he's there or just give up now before we get serious?
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Dec 26 2006, 06:54 PM
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 my michelle. Group: Member Posts: 792 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,094 |
This is in June, as in June 2007?
That's a bit of time, stop worrying completely, breathe in, breathe out, and give some time to think about. Since you two are so comfortable together, it shouldn't hurt to ask him how to deal with this situation, right? Maybe you two can work something out together..he could help you afford tickets to see his grad, for the meantime and then you could try to pull something up about the whole six week thing. |
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Dec 26 2006, 06:55 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
You're 15. Don't worry about it. Besides, hes 18, which makes YOU jailbait. If you two have sex, it means he will go to jail if he gets caught. Which, I swear to God, if you two have sex I will inform your parents.
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Dec 26 2006, 07:05 PM
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QUOTE You're 15. Don't worry about it. Besides, hes 18, which makes YOU jailbait. If you two have sex, it means he will go to jail if he gets caught. Which, I swear to God, if you two have sex I will inform your parents. Oh gosh no... I'm comfortable around him but not THAT comfortable... |
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Dec 26 2006, 07:05 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
I bet you would be really comfortable in bed with him. But it doesn't mean you should be in bed with him.
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Dec 26 2006, 07:38 PM
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QUOTE(th5418 @ Dec 27 2006, 9:55 AM)  You're 15. Don't worry about it. Besides, hes 18, which makes YOU jailbait. If you two have sex, it means he will go to jail if he gets caught. Which, I swear to God, if you two have sex I will inform your parents. What does that have to do with anything?? Its her business. I think you should take it one step at a time. 6 weeks is a long time but if you're seeing him every weekend it doesn't sound so bad. Not all long distance relationships turn bad. Why give up something so special? |
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Dec 27 2006, 05:43 PM
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 i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
well hey, you're 15. he's 18. the age difference doesn't really mean anything, but it's showing you that while he's gone living his life after college, you can be having a totally different life too. hmm, thats sound bad, but i think you get what im saying lol. what i mean is that, if youre contemplating things, then chances are, you shouldnt be together at that time because youre having doubts. and if you love him and your family and everything is great with him, then it could last, it really can, it'll just be a matter of getting used to. or if you want break it off for the time being thats fine too and you guys can get back together when he comes back since you guys really love each other right? its just a matter of what you want to do, if you cant be without him for that time, breaking up would mean youre without him, too right?
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Dec 27 2006, 10:09 PM
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see where things go.. If he means something to you, then staying in the relationship is worth it.
It will be hard though. My boyfriend lives about 2 hours from me.. we met over the summer and I've only got to see him like twice since then. We talk on the phone everyday. =/ long distance sucks... but I think he's worth it. |
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