Mm so getting fingered..., is this abnormal?? |
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 Dec 25 2006, 09:41 PM
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Okay so ive been fingered three times now and every time it has hurt. Right now I have a UTI but I think its just a new soap. Well anyway is it weird that it hurts, like i figured it would the first..maybe second time but yea...
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Dec 25 2006, 10:14 PM
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It's not normal for something to not feel good. You have to be careful if you let someone touch you or you touch yourself and it's not in a clean enviroment or their not hygenically clean. It's really easy for germs to spread from someones had (fingers rather) to you. I hate to sound like a mom or something, but it's just true. It might have had something to with the UTI (urinary tract infection, right). I'm assuming you're on medication and things like bladder infections can make that area sensative. Depending on when you got the infection it could just be a side effect of it. You usually feel things before they get diagnosed. It could just be a side effect from the medication.
EDIT: It might be an actual vaginal type infection and not a UTI. I'm assuming and hoping you went to the doctor to get that diagnosed but this might help: http://aolsvc.health.webmd.aol.com/content...10/2953_500.htm |
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Dec 26 2006, 12:18 AM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
I'm assuming you didnt ave the infection all three times, so I wouldn't attribute the pain to that, but it's definately a possibility that you got the infection from the guy's hand. It can be painful if he's not doing it right... if it hurts, let him know. It's not supposed to. Make sure he cuts his nails, and you guys go slow. If you both don't know how to do it...make it a learning experience, all the more sensual/romantic.
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Dec 26 2006, 01:39 AM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
QUOTE(WHIMSICAL 0NE @ Dec 25 2006, 9:14 PM)  It's not normal for something to not feel good. Really? See, I thought it was okay the first few times..cause I thought it takes a while for that area down there to stretch out enough for it to be completely comfortable. My friend's been sexually active for quite some time & it still sort of hurts her, & I mean, that's dealing with the penis too, which makes it worse. & She doesn't have a UTI.
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Dec 26 2006, 11:33 AM
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Daydreamer Group: Member Posts: 28 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 159,195 |
Well yea thank you for the responses, and yea I didnt have a UTI all three times, just this time. But I'm going to go to the doctors tonight and get a perscription for it.
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Dec 26 2006, 11:34 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
ick i hate UTIs...but as for the fingering. its not supposed to hurt, though it can get a lil sore after but try askin them to go softer next time. maybe use less fingers...?
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Dec 27 2006, 12:17 AM
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QUOTE Make sure he cuts his nails, and you guys go slow. If you both don't know how to do it...make it a learning experience, all the more sensual/romantic. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD PLEASE MAKE SURE YOUR LOVE TRIMS HIS f**king NAILS!!!!!! you have no idea what it feels like to have a angry cat claw playing with you. 
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Dec 27 2006, 01:31 AM
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QUOTE(earthangel64 @ Dec 26 2006, 10:33 AM) Well yea thank you for the responses, and yea I didnt have a UTI all three times, just this time. But I'm going to go to the doctors tonight and get a perscription for it. Yeah like a lot of other people said take it easy. Make sure you go slow and if it hurts let him know otherwise he'll keep doin' what he's doin'. It's good that you're getting medication because a UTI is worse than a bladder infection and it can leave perminant damage to the Kidneys. fcuk. - I meant like being in complete pain. Discomfort is a different thing. |
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Jan 26 2007, 11:04 PM
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its perfectly normal! just make sure that he trims his ingernails like someone already said...cuz....ouch!
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