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 Dec 23 2006, 09:36 PM
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so i like my best friend. she just broke up with her boyfriend a week after i broke up with my gf. and i liked her since the beginning of the school year. so pretty much half the years gone. we have the same schedule and sit next to each other in practically everyone of them. my gfs been jealous at her. her bfs been jealous at me since were around each other all the time. people think we like each other. and we should be together but iono. she has some feelings for i think. dont know really. she wont admit it. :[ so should i just tell her how i feel and be done with it and hope for the best or what.
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Dec 23 2006, 10:04 PM
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 peace&love, earth flower Group: Member Posts: 651 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,938 |
Firstly I think you should wait a bit until everything dies down to do anything.
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Dec 23 2006, 10:05 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I agree. Since you two pretty much just ended your previous relationships, I suggest you just be there for her as a friend and give her some time.
Then re-consider making your move. |
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Dec 24 2006, 12:14 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
thats what happened to my friend and his NOW girlfriend... i think you guys should go for it... that IF the girl you like, likes you back... just be aware your making two big sacrificies of your ex and her ex being mad at you both
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Dec 24 2006, 12:35 AM
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i'm so bored. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,261 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,614 |
Wait a while and then go for it. You don't want to make anyone seem like they're on rebound or a backstabber or anything.
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Dec 24 2006, 12:39 AM
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look for the stars as the sun goes down Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 453,963 |
yeah just tell her how you feel and get it over with. it's easier saying it than doing it right? my friends kept on telling me to ttell he guy i liked that i liked him. cuz i was leaving that school anyway. but it was really hard. and like i was so self conscience. god it was horrible. i suck at confrontations and crap.
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Dec 24 2006, 10:59 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
Yes, definitely wait until things calm down. It will be hard, but it'll be better in the end. You don't want huge fights between both your exes.
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Dec 24 2006, 12:16 PM
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 Interdimensional Cat Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,663 |
It will turn out better if you wait.
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Dec 24 2006, 01:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 432,493 |
Just wait it out. but don't try and wait till the exes get new relationships because they might be waiting for you two to get into new ones... anyways. Just kinda keep being friends with her and if it develops into more then good for you.
 But if not then don't force it or anything.
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Dec 24 2006, 06:59 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i agree with pretty much everyone here, wait til everything to cool down first then consider if you want to make a move.
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