Told my best friend i liked her-, whats next Options

[ReggieM]

well im not sure what i should expect tommoro should i still hang out with her or distance my self from her.im really confused on how i should approach her and all that stuff. And now when she looks at me its would be wierd for both of us.

[31miracles]

i was in the same position

from experience:
DO NOT DISTANCE
never works
talk to her express your feelings
ask her if she likes you
if not, ask to be friends and give her time
you might be coming on too strong

if you become distant...
you lose any chance at her
you lose a friend
things will get more akward
you'll think about it a lot and it will drive you crazy

[elaboratedream]

just act the same way you always would around her. if she likes you, she'll most likely let you know. if not, just continue with the friendship as always.

[*krnxswat*]

It's awkward as it already is, even if she doesn't show it. No need to make it worse. Just act the way you did around her before you told her how you felt, and she'll feel comfortable telling you her feelings.

[OhMyAnniee]

Oh man, this happens to my friends so much.
You should talk to her like normal & be even sweeter to her.
Because if you start ignoring her, you guys will drift and she be like "He doesn't even talk to me anymore..."

Just go up to her and say hi and make conversation.
If she tells you that she doesn't like you, you'd probably be bummed out but you need to be her best friend at that moment. Not her boyfriend.

& she might realize that she likes you too, one day.

[evaleen]

Act casual and talk to her like you would any other time. I know it's be weird and all, espacially after she replies which may seem different than what you're used to, but try not to let it show that you're feeling akward. If you do, then you or her will try to make an excuse and leave.

Just be prepared for her to say something like "I like you too, but only as a friend." I am NOT saying she WILL say that. She may feel the same towards and that's a good thing. But in case she doesn't, don't act upset. Play it off so that there's still a chance things could go back to the way they were before.

[*T0rmented_Soul*]

yeah just act yourself, you told her how you feel why should anything change. Even if it doesn't work out the way you hope it would be, just talk to her.

[*a painefull euphoria*]

just act normal and see how it all unfolds.
if its not for the best.
still try to be friends

[DORKalicious]

one of my guy friends told me they liked me once, things didnt get weird...it was pretty normal actually lol just dont distance yourself from her and act normal and she'll probably do the same.

[tokyo-rose]

It depends on how she reacted to you. If she took it well and wasn't weirded out, then act like normal. But if she needs space, give it to her and try to return to normal after a few days. Good luck with her.

[fall3n_s0ul]

To my experiences, falling for a best friend always failed. It'll ruin the relationship and things won't be the same ever again. And then you'll be stuck with regret.

[SimplicityGirl]

^ not necessarily. Me and my bf were best friends before we got together....and neither of us have any regrets =]

As for the situation...never ever pretend that nothing happened. Talk to her about how she feels about your confessions.

[ReggieM]

Well i have YET to ask her how she feels but its just like before its not even awkward at all for me talking to her. I really dont want to ask her how she feels cuz THAT will be awkward the reason why i asked her cuz i thought she liked me also which might still be true. I cant help but to talk to other girls and she sees me would that affect anything?Her and her friends dont like really much other girls they like guys better lol so would it be the same thing her friends have more guy FRIENDS than girl so there alway hanging out near thier. Oh yea it doesnt really help that i have a couple of friends that are close to me that are also girls

I'll guess ill just wait for her to tell me how she feel...