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 Dec 4 2006, 01:25 PM
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......you want to break up with a guy...and you do....then you regret it because you have adapted to the way you were then the ring(or somthing he gave you) reminds you of him every time you look at it, and when you ask him if you should or not keep the ring he sais that you can...and when you say ok and is that sure he gives you a hug and you just want to staty there for a while and he goes then you start crying....you find out realy quickly that you still love him and he still loves you.....both of you are crying yourself to sleep because you don't have the guts to ask each other back out but you are the one that broke up with him....you seem so shallow because of what you did.......you just want hom back...
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Dec 4 2006, 01:49 PM
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 And in that moment...I swear we were infinite Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 407,922 |
my boyfriend & i used to be like that. if you guys still love each other like you say you do, it shouldn't matter who broke up with who. talk to him about it & ask him back out. that's what i did. our relationship ended up being a disaster but that's a different story.
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Dec 4 2006, 02:28 PM
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 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
Wow does your situation sound familiar to me or what?.. I would say don't do nothing and regret it later. If you both still care for each other, and what's even more great is that you both still love each other, talk it out. Don't just wonder about what's going to happen. I'm sure that if you guys took the time to clear things up, you'll end up a lot happier than crying yourself to sleep. Trust me. =]
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Dec 4 2006, 02:37 PM
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i think you should try going back out with him again.
i mean what can go wrong if you still feel the same way you did when you dumped him then talk it out and figure out why you feel that way. |
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Dec 5 2006, 08:00 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
maybe u shouldnt have broke up wit him in the first place...
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Dec 5 2006, 09:56 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^agreed.
you still really like him right? ask him out again |
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Dec 10 2006, 04:26 AM
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Talk to him. Ask him about how he feels about you. You should definitely let him know that you miss him & everything.
You could also ask him to start over & then reintroduce yourself. Then do what the people above me said and ask him out! Start fresh. |
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Dec 10 2006, 07:15 AM
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look for the stars as the sun goes down Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 453,963 |
this reminds me of sisterhood of the travelling pants. like Lena she got up the courgage to ask the dude out again after breaking up with im. actualyl she didn't ask him out. she just talked to him honestly about missing him and stuff. why don't you do that?
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Dec 10 2006, 09:35 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Oh my god, what a dilemma. If both of you still like each other, what's the problem? Call and say you're sorry. Jeez. Not rocket science :)
Good luck. |
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Dec 10 2006, 11:21 AM
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You should give it another try if you feel that you still want to go out with him. But you could just be feeling that way because you are getting used to not being in a relationship. Everyone feels "relationship withdrawal" at first because there's no longer the phone calls and physical contact with their significant other.
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Dec 10 2006, 01:44 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Get over yourself and ask him back out.
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Dec 10 2006, 01:49 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Don't be scared.
It's obvious what you need to do. Please call him up, or better yet go see him in person. and simply say you miss him and love him, and want to get back together. |
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Dec 10 2006, 02:14 PM
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QUOTE(a painefull euphoria @ Dec 4 2006, 11:37 AM)  i think you should try going back out with him again. i mean what can go wrong if you still feel the same way you did when you dumped him then talk it out and figure out why you feel that way. agreed. get him before some other girl gets him and steal him away from you. good luck  :]
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Dec 10 2006, 02:50 PM
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You don't know what you got till it's gone.
Think before you act my friend. It helps in the end. |
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Dec 10 2006, 06:01 PM
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QUOTE(oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo @ Dec 10 2006, 11:50 AM) You don't know what you got till it's gone. Think before you act my friend. It helps in the end. agree. if you still love him, why did you break up with him in the first place? 
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