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 Oct 26 2006, 11:55 PM
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 oh baby!  Group: Member Posts: 210 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 404,785  |
I say.. who cares.
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| *mipadi* |
Oct 27 2006, 12:24 AM
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"I before E, except after C, unless sounding 'eigh', as in 'neighbor' and 'weigh'."
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| *StanleyThePanda* |
Oct 27 2006, 12:47 AM
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^
 Michael, you are awesome.Anyways, I said no. |
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Oct 27 2006, 01:32 AM
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oh baby! Group: Member Posts: 210 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 404,785 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 27 2006, 12:24 AM)  "I before E, except after C, unless sounding 'eigh', as in 'neighbor' and 'weigh'." LMAO. Lol. HAHAHAAHHHAHAHAHAAH, it sounds funny. But I don't get it. 
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Oct 27 2006, 06:09 AM
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^ you spelled friend wrong.
and i think the whole concept is ridiculous. someone always gets attached and hurt in the end. |
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| *Infinite.* |
Oct 27 2006, 08:47 AM
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I didn't really get the poll
Friends with Benefits supposedly means to be physically active with a person thats only a friend. I find it wrong in many ways, and I highly doubt most people can keep it all at a friend level. Eventually one person is going to move on and the other is going to feel bad because they fell for the other person. |
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Oct 27 2006, 02:53 PM
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 Nikkie Group: Member Posts: 2,336 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,991 |
eh i don't really care, but in a way no because someone will get attached eventually and then mess things up and then the friendship will be lost. and someone will move on and then blah.
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Oct 27 2006, 03:02 PM
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Unless you can guarantee that you will never develop feelings for that person it's a bad idea.
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Oct 27 2006, 04:01 PM
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um.. their was this point that me and my boyfriend were not going out.. "Break" and we were still making out and what not.. but then we got back together after a few weeks.. it was really confusing. Oh well. We are still together. :-)
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Oct 27 2006, 05:57 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(Gypsy Eyes @ Oct 27 2006, 4:02 PM) Unless you can guarantee that you will never develop feelings for that person it's a bad idea. I agree but nothing is guaranteed (besides death but let's not be morbid) so I think it's always a bad idea...but that doesn't mean that it always has a terrible outcome. That's how the relationship with me and my significant other started...we've been together for more than a year. |
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| *sofakinglazy* |
Oct 27 2006, 06:17 PM
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It can work for certain people.
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Oct 27 2006, 09:41 PM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
It's kind of weird to become physically attracted to your friend...to me it is.
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Oct 27 2006, 10:11 PM
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Shiiit I wouldn't having that title with a certain somebody right now
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Oct 27 2006, 11:58 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 472 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,840 |
Anytime you get into something physical with someone, SOMEBODY's going to get attached.
It might be fun at the time, but someone's gonna be hurt. |
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Oct 28 2006, 11:33 AM
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I don't think that FWB is a good idea. Eventually one of the people involved is going to mistake their physical activities for love/attraction and start to like the other person, and the other person won't since the point of FWB is to not like them. You will just end up getting hurt.
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Oct 28 2006, 01:47 PM
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 it's what i believe in. Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,523 |
if you don't want anything serious, then go for it.
if you're not a type of person to be playing around, then don't. simple as that. it's called intuition. |
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Oct 28 2006, 09:29 PM
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DOES NOT WORK!!!!!!!
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Oct 28 2006, 09:40 PM
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*looks for a friend with benefits*
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Oct 29 2006, 01:38 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Well...it doesn't ALWAYS have a bad ending like Chii said. But 90% of the time it does, so you have to be careful if you're going to play around with FWB.
But then again, that's sort of how me and my bf got together. We weren't quite what you'd call FWB...but we held hands and essentially did everything that a couple would do minus kissing. And we got together because things just seemed too weird. |
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Oct 30 2006, 12:24 PM
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Senior Member Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 |
Friends with benefits. It's an option. Some think its wrong, some think its alright.
Who ever gets attached knew the risk when they started. |
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| *x1227x* |
Nov 2 2006, 12:35 AM
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like someone said,
it can work for some people. but it just wont ever work for me because i would feel weird when someone asks me "is that your boyfriend?" "oh no, we're just friends with benefits" so i guess it pretty much depends on if you really want to have benefits with that person. :) so i say, maybe so/who cares =] |
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| *sofakinglazy* |
Nov 3 2006, 02:14 AM
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IN NEED OF FWB. Type 69 IF YOU WANNA HOLLA. ASL!!
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Nov 3 2006, 01:09 PM
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 You say you eat fucking hearts for breakfast. Group: Member Posts: 662 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,026 |
QUOTE(sofakinglazy @ Nov 3 2006, 1:14 AM) IN NEED OF FWB. Type 69 IF YOU WANNA HOLLA. ASL!! I didn't know people still use "ASL" Friends with benefits doesn't work. But it happens anyway |
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Nov 3 2006, 01:43 PM
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i had one and it was cool but we just broke up i guess lol. and neither of us got attached probebly because we didn't like each other at all.
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Nov 4 2006, 02:08 PM
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not really.
i hug guys a lot. but who cares? 
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Nov 4 2006, 02:46 PM
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 Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
I dont know,
i think you should seperate your friends and your lovers. if you go to bed with your friend, its pretty much not just a 'friend' anymore... |
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Nov 4 2006, 03:11 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(funk.this @ Oct 27 2006, 9:58 PM) Anytime you get into something physical with someone, SOMEBODY's going to get attached. It might be fun at the time, but someone's gonna be hurt. Agreed. I've tried it a few times and it just doesn't work. Someones feelings develope into more and thrn it just gets messy. |
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Nov 4 2006, 05:23 PM
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 Starving Artist Group: Official Designer Posts: 444 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,344 |
I've done it, and ended up getting hurt, so it's probably not the best thing in the world.
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Nov 5 2006, 01:26 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
gahhh i hate fwb
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| *LaStiNg4EtErNiTy* |
Nov 5 2006, 01:54 PM
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i know this girl and this guy who are friends w/ benefits. when the guy started to like another girl, she got hurt.
it's not good for you. period. |
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Jan 1 2007, 12:34 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 489,321 |
anybody in it? i personally never have. unless anyone here wants to be in one with me?
 im serious.
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| *suddenly she* |
Jan 1 2007, 12:37 AM
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I'd rather be in a relationship. Also, I think Createblog isn't a great place to look for buckfuddies.
Unless you mean business partners, and then I'm completely sorry I took that the wrong way? |
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Jan 1 2007, 12:38 AM
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I'd rather be in a relationship, but I wouldn't care.
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Jan 1 2007, 01:26 AM
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Jan 1 2007, 12:16 PM
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i'd rather be in a steady relationship.
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Jan 1 2007, 01:00 PM
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 i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
i kinda had one before but it was a while ago. friends with benefits are just a tease
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Jan 1 2007, 09:22 PM
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 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
I think benefriends are hard to maintain. Doesn't one usually end up liking the other or whatnot? *shrugs* I can't really say cuz I think I'm in one, but whatever.
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Jan 1 2007, 11:10 PM
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at least one person ends up liking the other, and wants more, or a real relationship, but that one doesnt feel the same cause they have commitment issues, and then the other person ends up getting hurt. I hope that made sense
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Jan 1 2007, 11:23 PM
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No I find it a bit immature. Eventually the relationship is going to go downhill because eventually someones going to fall for the other more than just being a friend.
Perhaps search around for other similar topics  http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...s+with+benefits |
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Jan 1 2007, 11:35 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Yeah I have a few, so what? It's fun, especially at parties :)
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Jan 1 2007, 11:58 PM
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No I don't have one. I prefer to be in a relationship.
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Jan 2 2007, 05:34 PM
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 ¤ The Fatal Virus ¤ Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 488,115 |
Any "benefits" should be kept between two people who actually love each other. There is not love in a sexual relationship and it actually hurts people the most when they breakup. This is because they feel like they have given up a huge part of themselves.
So, I wouldnt recommend a "friends with benefits" type of relationship. ♥ ALEX
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Jan 2 2007, 07:12 PM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
I'm finding it gross seeing my female friend let my ex grope her in my computer class. He had this sick-perverted "I'm getting some" smirk on his face and she was just laughing away doing nothing not even saying anything about his hands being all over her breasts. I was so bothered I looked away while it happened. Didn't say anything to them about it until I went online. But once I was able to talk to them in private, man did I lecture them out. We talked about it the next day as well and I sure-darn hope they felt so ashamed they wouldn't even think about doing it in front of my eyes at least. My female friend's behavior disgusted me the most. Guys.. Some are like that in general but it is only because she put'd herself out like a sex doll they treat her like my ex did. I wonder sometimes whether she likes looking like a hot whore giving out freebies during school hours. I hope she grows out of it soon. I don't blame her for wanting to be attractive and wanted but even the innocent need to feel attractive has its limits. By the way, FWB doesn't get my approval. /mom-ish rant |
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Jan 2 2007, 08:42 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
i say..booty call.
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Jan 2 2007, 10:42 PM
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AIDS AINT NO BENEFIT
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Jan 2 2007, 11:49 PM
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Nopers... I guess I see my friends do it, and someone always gets the shaft.
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Jan 2 2007, 11:51 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
I've got a few :)
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Jan 2 2007, 11:52 PM
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 that heaven is overrated Group: Member Posts: 5,096 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,124 |
Ehh it kinda just happened to me.. it's not so cool.
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Jan 5 2007, 05:02 AM
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QUOTE(xcaitlinx @ Oct 27 2006, 5:09 AM) ^ you spelled friend wrong. and i think the whole concept is ridiculous. someone always gets attached and hurt in the end. i agree 32097532759869876 percent i hate the concept of fwb and i dont understand how people can just do stuff eachother with out any sence of emotional attachment |
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Jan 5 2007, 08:41 PM
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 my michelle. Group: Member Posts: 792 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,094 |
Eh, i'm whatever with it.
Not yes, not no. |
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Jan 6 2007, 01:59 AM
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i dunt like it! as sumwun said wun usually gits attached and ends up gittin hurt in the end i dunt like it at all
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Jan 6 2007, 05:39 AM
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 what do you think it says....if so obvious. Group: Member Posts: 1,838 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,420 |
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Jan 6 2007, 06:30 AM
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Two topics merged. :P
QUOTE(suddenly she) Unless you mean business partners, and then I'm completely sorry I took that the wrong way? LOL. XD I've never done this before and never wanted to. I much prefer the feeling of being in a meaningful relationship to the idea of this alternative - for me, the physical part of a relationship is empty and not enjoyable without strong feelings backing it. |
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Jan 6 2007, 11:31 AM
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i've had a fwb thing before. yeah, usually someone falls for the other who is just all intimate.
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Jan 6 2007, 05:19 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
doesn't matter to me
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Jan 16 2007, 08:42 AM
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I said yes because say you were both single. Just because you both were single doesn't mean you have to be lonely. No strings attached, one night stands whenver, no feelings.
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Jan 18 2007, 02:08 AM
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Who cares anyway? its all a question about how you feel and how the other person feels. Of course, if you like to play around well.....anyways who cares!
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Jan 18 2007, 05:02 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
I guess if it doesn't bother either person and they just want some "action," whatever. It really depends.
I had a make-out session with one of my friends. Yeah, alright, so we both wanted some "action," but gosh, did I feel "whore-ible" afterwards. (That was TOO TEMPTING, haha.) Never again. I don't even think I want to see him ever again because it will be so incredibly awkward for me. I don't even like him. I think that was my thing, the fact that it didn't mean anything. So yeah. But if you're comfortable with it, whatever. |
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Jan 27 2007, 11:47 AM
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 MorCANcan Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 492,937 |
Friends with benefits aren't that great.
Aren't they supposed to be like...just normal friends? No actual liking towards each other, anyway? xD Haha. This year I kinda had something like that. It wasn't like...extreme or anything. Just after lunch we'd be like, "AWW. BOYFRIEND. I LOVE YOU." then a kiss on the cheek. xD It was more of a pretend thing than friends with benefits. |
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Feb 2 2007, 05:49 PM
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Heres a simile...... Friends with benefits are like 2 pieces of paper and super glue.... If super glue the 2 pieces of paper together and try to take them apart.... what happens? The paper rips and one piece takes some of the other. Basically FWB's take away part of each other prior to marriage thus leaving their future husband/wife deprived b/c of stupid mistakes made in the past.
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Feb 7 2007, 09:12 PM
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 we roll mad deep yo! Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 501,326 |
i'm with the who gives a s**t. you get some you get some you don't you don't.
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