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 Oct 20 2006, 11:38 PM
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i think that's kinda weird/wrongish if a freshman liked a sr/visa versa/they were together.
can i have opinions? i know there's been posts like this, but this is like.. in particular.. know what i mean?  anyway. opinions? like, i'm fine with a 3-4 age difference, but i think that fresh-senior is A LOT. like 25-29 is okay, etc. but yeah.. you get the idea.  ps: sorry i have not been posting lately. |
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Oct 20 2006, 11:40 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with it at all.
I just don't think that a senior would really want to go out with a freshman.. And some of the upperclassmen might think that it's weird.  I don't think that the age difference is that much.. I just think that seniors wouldn't want to go out with freshmen. |
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Oct 20 2006, 11:45 PM
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I dated a senior. He doesn't feel theres anything wrong with it.
 And I heard he still likes me, LOL.
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Oct 20 2006, 11:50 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
Well a (guy) friend once told me...
"When you're a freshman, don't date anybody older than a sophomore because they'll probably expect sex." |
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Oct 20 2006, 11:51 PM
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to be honest, i think its fine. i don't get how like 14 and 17 is weird to you. like. its like any other 3 differences between ages. ya know?
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Oct 21 2006, 12:04 AM
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 I be Deea. Group: Member Posts: 102 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 471,373 |
I don't think the difference is that big.
Actually, I find it normal. I've seen 16 year old girls with 35 year old guys, so.. yeah. |
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Oct 21 2006, 12:49 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
a lot of the seniors at my school expect sex or do stuff like drinking on the weekends so i don't think the whole situation would be ideal for a freshman. but given that the senior doesn't push the freshman to go further than she wants (assuming the freshman is a girl) i guess it could work out.
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Oct 21 2006, 12:55 AM
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I don't know what schools like for everyone else but I go to Long reach, 14-15 years old is Freshman and seniors, there the same age here.
 I guess my schools different..?
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Oct 21 2006, 12:57 AM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
I dated a freshman while I was a senior, didn't last that long though...
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Oct 21 2006, 01:00 AM
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I think everyones kind of right, but it really all depends on who you're dating. I mean, some seniors might expect sex and others might not. If you think about it, if you date a freshmen, they could expect sex too. Its all based on the person. For example, I'm dating a senior, but I'm a sophmore, so its less difference, but pretty much the same because my high school has no freshmen, so technically the sophmores are referred to as the "freshmores". LOL. But anyways, we were really good friends before so it pretty much feels like theres no age difference at all, and he doesn't pressure me into doing anything I don't want to.
Yepp, but it all depends. |
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Oct 21 2006, 01:11 AM
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 Seisuke Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523 |
QUOTE(Anna Banana =} @ Oct 21 2006, 1:55 AM)  I don't know what schools like for everyone else but I go to Long reach, 14-15 years old is Freshman and seniors, there the same age here. I guess my schools different..?which state is this :) just curious :) |
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Oct 21 2006, 01:12 AM
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QUOTE(gr00vyswordsman @ Oct 21 2006, 2:11 AM) which state is this :) just curious :) Maryland. |
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Oct 21 2006, 10:35 AM
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chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
QUOTE(QueenAkasha @ Oct 20 2006, 10:04 PM) I've seen 16 year old girls with 35 year old guys, so.. yeah. That's illegal here :] |
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| *sofakinglazy* |
Oct 21 2006, 11:47 AM
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Can't like freshmen? Damn...
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| *suddenly she* |
Oct 21 2006, 02:57 PM
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QUOTE(layli @ Oct 21 2006, 1:00 AM) I think everyones kind of right, but it really all depends on who you're dating. I mean, some seniors might expect sex and others might not. If you think about it, if you date a freshmen, they could expect sex too. Its all based on the person. For example, I'm dating a senior, but I'm a sophmore, so its less difference, but pretty much the same because my high school has no freshmen, so technically the sophmores are referred to as the "freshmores". LOL. But anyways, we were really good friends before so it pretty much feels like theres no age difference at all, and he doesn't pressure me into doing anything I don't want to. Yepp, but it all depends. huh. at our school, freshmen who repeat the grade are freshmores. but whocares |
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Oct 21 2006, 04:04 PM
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i guess i'm the only one who kinda finds it weird... i mean, one person just started their high school career, the other one is ending it and going off to college...
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Oct 21 2006, 04:11 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
that'd be odd... but there's nothing particularly wrong about it. i just wouldn't expect a senior to be attracted to someone who isn't (probably) as physically, emotionally or socially mature.
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Oct 21 2006, 04:47 PM
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i've gone out with seniros :OOOFjioajsdklfjcxzl
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Oct 21 2006, 04:57 PM
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 Home is where your rump rests! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,235 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969 |
That seems perfectly fine to me, unless you're saying a freshman in high school and a senior in college, that would be weird, but I see nothing wrong with a freshman and a senior liking each other or going out.
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| *WHIMSICAL 0NE* |
Oct 21 2006, 05:17 PM
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I think when you look at numbers it isn't a huge deal, but it's something that I've thought to be weird. I know every person is different and that 14 and 15 compared to 17 and 18 isn't that huge of an age gap, but I think maturity wise it's a pretty big gap.
I mean, Freshmen are fresh out of middle school, they're still young. I know plenty of 14 and 15 year olds and maturity wise I think they're much different than 17 and 18 year olds. In my opinion, I don't see why a senoir would want to date a Freshmen, mainly because of agendas, Freshmen are just starting their high school career and seniors are getting ready for college and being on thier own in the world.  Just my thoughts.
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Oct 21 2006, 06:00 PM
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QUOTE(WHIMSICAL 0NE @ Oct 21 2006, 6:17 PM) I think when you look at numbers it isn't a huge deal, but it's something that I've thought to be weird. I know every person is different and that 14 and 15 compared to 17 and 18 isn't that huge of an age gap, but I think maturity wise it's a pretty big gap. I mean, Freshmen are fresh out of middle school, they're still young. I know plenty of 14 and 15 year olds and maturity wise I think they're much different than 17 and 18 year olds. In my opinion, I don't see why a senoir would want to date a Freshmen, mainly because of agendas, Freshmen are just starting their high school career and seniors are getting ready for college and being on thier own in the world. Just my thoughts.thought appreciaited [sp?]. :D i love getting opinions on this, though. because my friends think that my other friends bro likes me. he's a sr. i'm a freshman. i mean, some freshman, like myself, are mature, but.. yeah. anyway. i love reading everyone's opinions on this.
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Oct 21 2006, 06:20 PM
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not a problem.
my friend is 14----freshman. her bf is 17----senior. its not a big deal. |
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Oct 21 2006, 08:40 PM
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QUOTE(priyas @ Oct 21 2006, 7:20 PM) not a problem. my friend is 14----freshman. her bf is 17----senior. its not a big deal. i'm just saying, for the freshman, wouldn't it be weird to go home to your mom/dad/whoever, and be like, "oh yeah, i'm going out with a senior."
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Oct 21 2006, 08:48 PM
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What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
well yeah, there is a good chance your parents might disapprove.
but given the guy is genuinely a "good guy" for you, i'm sure your parents would be cool with it once you bring him over to your house to meet them and let him prove himself. |
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Oct 21 2006, 08:51 PM
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QUOTE(&/degradanca. @ Oct 21 2006, 9:48 PM) well yeah, there is a good chance your parents might disapprove. but given the guy is genuinely a "good guy" for you, i'm sure your parents would be cool with it once you bring him over to your house to meet them and let him prove himself. well, he's my friends brother...  i think he's just trying to be nice, but my two other friends, who i keep updated, thinks otherwise.
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