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 Oct 17 2006, 05:21 PM
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 Because i said so  Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,144  |
There's this boy in my lunch period that i think is cute, but i don't know how to start a conversation with him. He's not in any of my other classes and he sits on the other side of the caffeteria. I talked to him once, you know, introducing myself, but i said something stupid and i think i annoyed him. How am i supposed to talk to him without creeping him out or anything? I just want to be friends and see where it goes.
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Oct 17 2006, 05:32 PM
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 swoosha Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 359,804 |
are any of your friends that are in your lunch friends with him?
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Oct 17 2006, 05:39 PM
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Because i said so Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,144 |
One of my friends randomly danced with him at Homecoming, but that's all.
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Oct 17 2006, 05:40 PM
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swoosha Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 359,804 |
well.
do u know any of his friends at all? |
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Oct 17 2006, 05:43 PM
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Because i said so Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,144 |
Yeah, two are in some of my classes, but they're kind of...losers. People you wouldn't usually want to be caught talking to.
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Oct 17 2006, 05:45 PM
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swoosha Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 359,804 |
well.
you could occasionally talk to them when no one is looking Oo. and then eventually talk to them at lunch, but stand closer to the guy you like, and bring him into the conversation and then gradually stop talking to the 'losers' and focus on him Oo. |
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Oct 17 2006, 05:46 PM
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. Group: Member Posts: 3,264 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 761 |
If he's in of your classes, maybe you can ask him help for homework or something.
Or when you're buying food, ask him if you can borrow some money. Or be like, "This food is sh*t." or "The (insert food here) looks really nasty." or something like that. |
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Oct 17 2006, 05:49 PM
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Because i said so Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,144 |
Maybe it could work, all i have to think of something to talk about, my biggest problem.
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Oct 17 2006, 05:50 PM
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"Hey, you're cute. Lets kiss."
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Oct 17 2006, 05:50 PM
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swoosha Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 359,804 |
QUOTE(rawr SOCK @ Oct 17 2006, 6:46 PM)  Or be like, "This food is sh*t." or "The (insert food here) looks really nasty." or something like that. thats a good idea. like ask your friends and stuff if u can move where you sit at lunch, and sit kind of close to him, close enough for him to hear your conversation or something, and then casual bring up that subject about the food, or like ask him for a dollar. or something. |
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Oct 17 2006, 05:55 PM
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Because i said so Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,144 |
I'd love to move to a table closer to him, sadly i can't. Everyone has this "we sit here all the time, get out of our table" attitude going on. The dollar thing would probably work, but i can't be sure.
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Oct 17 2006, 05:57 PM
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swoosha Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 359,804 |
oh. well. the whole table thing is gay.
stupid people. its a table. they should get over it. anyway. yeah. i think the dollar would work. *i use that. alot. :]]]* cuz then be all. i'll pay you back. then the next day. be all. 'crap i 4got' then bring it the next day. and apologize for giving it late. yeah. starts conversation :]]. Oo. |
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Oct 18 2006, 03:17 PM
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Because i said so Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,144 |
Okay, i tried that 'dollar' thing, didn't work. He didn't have one so i had to leave. Anything else that can help me talk to him?
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Oct 18 2006, 03:31 PM
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 that's what she said Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 |
QUOTE(sofakinglazy @ Oct 17 2006, 6:50 PM) "Hey, you're cute. Lets kiss."
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Oct 18 2006, 03:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 |
ah you should have like a biggg party for something and invite him...ehh, idk.
Do you know if he has a myspace or sn or something... if he does it might be easier to get to know him online then you might have something to talk to him about in school. There was this one guy that I liked last year and I started talking to him online and stuff.. and now he's like my best guy friend. sooo.. that might work. |
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Oct 18 2006, 03:38 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 472 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,840 |
QUOTE(sofakinglazy @ Oct 17 2006, 5:50 PM) "Hey, you're cute. Lets kiss." "Hey, I like you. Let's sex." |
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Oct 18 2006, 03:40 PM
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that's what she said Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 |
QUOTE(funk.this @ Oct 18 2006, 4:38 PM) "Hey, I like you. Let's sex." Anyways, that'd also work. Oh you can also try doing his loser friends & possibly can join him in a 3some. 
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Oct 18 2006, 03:40 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 472 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,840 |
No. I meant it the way I wrote it.
"Let's sex." |
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Oct 18 2006, 03:41 PM
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that's what she said Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 |
^ Fine, let's sex it'll be.
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Oct 18 2006, 05:42 PM
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 CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
when u see ur friend talking to him just go up nd say hi to ur friend that way you can start a conversation and he will like you and eventually you guys will go out and then for a while you will have a good relationship, but then you guys will break up and you will come onto cB - Relationships and complain
AMIRITE?? uh... i need to say something on-topic otherwise i'll be ban again -.- soo just talk to him with one of ur friends =] not that hard |
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Oct 18 2006, 08:02 PM
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 recycle, please. Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,476 |
i think that if you do everything everyone's said he'll think you're stalking him. :]
if you see him, say hi. if he's that far away from you, then i wouldn't make it a huge deal to get closer. but if you really have the urge to talk to him, then just talk to him. about anything.. that's not completely loserish of you. :] |
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Oct 20 2006, 05:32 PM
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 I be Deea. Group: Member Posts: 102 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 471,373 |
"nice shoes!/watch/etc. I want to buy such a present for a male friend, any suggestions?"
And that's how it allll starts :)) |
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Oct 20 2006, 05:44 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 472 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,840 |
Wait, do you even KNOW this guy? You just saw him across the cafeteria and found him attractive and now you're trying to figure out how to talk to him? Way to creep him out.
If you keep trying to get his attention when you really don't have any basis to form even an "acquaintance" relationship... you'll probably end up scaring him. |
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Oct 25 2006, 09:36 AM
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look for the stars as the sun goes down Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 453,963 |
I used to have that problem. getting nervous and shit around boys. haha. now i'm not. i'm confortable. i jsut look and think as if they're a freind.
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Oct 25 2006, 02:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 201 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 426,792 |
QUOTE(kewl loser kid @ Oct 17 2006, 5:45 PM) well. you could occasionally talk to them when no one is looking Oo. and then eventually talk to them at lunch, but stand closer to the guy you like, and bring him into the conversation and then gradually stop talking to the 'losers' and focus on him Oo. word. |
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Oct 25 2006, 06:44 PM
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Because i said so Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,144 |
QUOTE(funk.this @ Oct 20 2006, 6:44 PM) Wait, do you even KNOW this guy? You just saw him across the cafeteria and found him attractive and now you're trying to figure out how to talk to him? Way to creep him out. If you keep trying to get his attention when you really don't have any basis to form even an "acquaintance" relationship... you'll probably end up scaring him. Here's the story: Well, in Back to School Night, my parents met his parents. They found out that my dad and his dad worked in the same building so they became friends. You know, talking and eating lunch together sometimes. Also, my sister who's a grade lower than me is good friends with that boy's younger brother. I hear them mentioning him being in my grade and so i decided i wanted to be friends with him. After asking my friends if they knew him, one of them showed me who he was and then i thought he was cute which made me nervous. (im a filipino and so is he, there's this thing about filipinos being really eager to meet others like ourselves. that's how my parents and his parents met each other in the first place) So, that's basically it. The guy knows me, he's heard about me from his family so it's not like talking to a stranger. |
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Oct 27 2006, 02:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 463,960 |
well just wait i mean every guy wont just come out of the blue and say will u go out wit meeh at least say or else he will think ur creepy likesay hey/hi/hello to him once a while and then he might find u cute or something i mean boys are sometimes dumb (no offense) cuz they are more shy then girls.so yeah
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Oct 31 2006, 10:52 AM
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 stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(: Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985 |
you should try to get to know him first,before having a face to face conver with him. i think it would be awkward if you just start a conver with him out of the blue. try getting to know him online or through text msgin? text msgin works wonders in this part of the world. hahas maybe you guys should try it at america or where ever you are at lol
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Oct 31 2006, 10:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 |
QUOTE(dododiva @ Oct 17 2006, 5:21 PM) There's this boy in my lunch period that i think is cute, but i don't know how to start a conversation with him. He's not in any of my other classes and he sits on the other side of the caffeteria. I talked to him once, you know, introducing myself, but i said something stupid and i think i annoyed him. How am i supposed to talk to him without creeping him out or anything? I just want to be friends and see where it goes. I feel you. This is one of the situations I have not yet found a total solution for. This is not the same as going up to a stranger you find attractive, cause to me thats easy. He and you already know eachother exist and see eachother every now and then, right? So hmm. I guess the buddy system is the best way to go. Get to know his friends, and soon you'll be in his circle. Best I can offer for now :-/ |
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Nov 2 2006, 12:42 AM
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just try to start a conversation with him by saying "hey! i haven't talked to you for a long time! let's catch up!" or something like that [: try to get to know him better & you can also talk to his friends (while no one's looking? o___O?) or pass a note during class to them & tell them about the boy you like & stuff like that. :] good luck. :)
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Dec 30 2008, 05:14 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Dec 2008 Member No: 706,314 |
QUOTE(dododiva @ Oct 17 2006, 05:21 PM) There's this boy in my lunch period that i think is cute, but i don't know how to start a conversation with him. He's not in any of my other classes and he sits on the other side of the caffeteria. I talked to him once, you know, introducing myself, but i said something stupid and i think i annoyed him. How am i supposed to talk to him without creeping him out or anything? I just want to be friends and see where it goes. Look, try to get to know him. things will turn up, k? |
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Dec 30 2008, 05:27 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,938 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 667,832 |
oh this is kindof tough when you really think of the pro's and con's
i never really had trouble talking to a boy i was so "comfortable" i just go up to them and be like "hey" just be really comfortable talking to him like talk to him like you were talking to one of your girl friends i dont know this sounds like shitty advice to me >___< |
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