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 Oct 15 2006, 06:33 PM
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ok so, ive known this guy since6th grade, and over the years we've became REALLY close. like he knows pretty much anything about me...
and i [size=1]really[/size=1] like him because of his personality and everything.. he's always there for me, and just pretty much love him... but he's not the cutest person out there.. but hes not super ugly either.. and i know looks aren't everything but for some reason (i don't know) why it's stopping me.  
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Oct 15 2006, 06:42 PM
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haha, as corny as this may sound, "follow your heart." okay, see, if something is stopping you, then you know.. all you have to do is ask yourself how much do i want him? do i need him?
yeah that does sound corny. i'd really have to say if you like him so much.. and you guys are so close, you should maybe go for it. then again, it might ruin your friendship. ask yourself another question, would i risk messing up my friendship for this once in a lifetime chance when i don't know if we're gonna end up happily as a couple, or two friends who won't ever speak to each other again? |
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Oct 15 2006, 11:04 PM
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Maybe you don't want to lose that friendship? Or maybe you just don't really see him in that way.
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Oct 15 2006, 11:49 PM
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Wow! dont let his looks stop u honestly! If you actually love him like you say you'd be with him for him and his personality not his looks ...I bet he is cute in his own little ways he must be if your attracted to him and "love him" and plus he knows everything about you before you guys are even in a relationship thats awesome ! sometimes it takes forever to get to know someone when your in a relationship...I say go for it and if your still not feeling his whole " looks thing " guess it aint really love more of lust!
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Oct 16 2006, 11:27 PM
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thanks :D
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Oct 16 2006, 11:40 PM
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 wut wut in the butt? Group: Human Posts: 2,108 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,723 |
The fact that you had to point out his looks at all makes it seem like that's the very thing holding you back.
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Oct 17 2006, 04:25 PM
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QUOTE(Tribal J_Rome @ Oct 17 2006, 12:40 AM)  The fact that you had to point out his looks at all makes it seem like that's the very thing holding you back. the guy in ur signature is a real capital g, how can i meet him |
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Oct 17 2006, 06:46 PM
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maybe it's not his looks that is stopping you, it might be something else but you think it's his looks.
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