PLEASE DON`T PLAY AROUND WITH ME, AND MY FEELINGS... |
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 Oct 4 2006, 06:45 PM
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 the name is ada.  Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608  |
Alright..there`s this guy..
Knew him for like 3 years ? Never thought of him as boyfriend material right. I mean I even hooked him up with my friend before..and they were together for almost 1 1/2 years.Then they broke up before summer.He was always a nice person..he`s mature..nice..knows a lot of people..friendly..cute..athletic..just never thought of him as boyfriend material until this school year..I noticed a lot of good details about him..then I told my friends I liked him..and they called him..and was asking him stuff like "Who do you like ? " "Would You ever go with (me)?" And he was like I don`t know..yeah maybe..and he just kept saying that..but then I don`t know if he said that forreals or he`s saying that cuz he don`t wanna be mean..but I don`t wanna be outta pocket and just all of a sudden talk to him a lot..I don`t know what to do..should i get to know him more? as call him and talk to him more? or should I just wait for him to get at me ? I`M CONFUSED..I don`t even know how to tell him I like him..or nothing.. advice please.... |
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Oct 4 2006, 07:07 PM
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well, there is really only one way to find out how you feel about him right? Spend some time with him. Take the time to really get to know one another. Ask him out to dinner and a movie or something. If he really likes you, you'll find out soon enough. If not, at least you don't have to go through life wondering "what if" right? And you will have the satisfaction of knowing.
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Oct 5 2006, 05:32 PM
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the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
^but i`m scared to do it infront of everyone..i don`t wanna call him outta no where as well.
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Oct 5 2006, 05:39 PM
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 CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
call him and be like hey sexyyy
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Oct 5 2006, 05:44 PM
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the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
^you funny...hahaha
i`m just soo SCARED ! |
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Oct 5 2006, 05:51 PM
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If you have classes with him, you can call him and ask him for help on homework. If not, & if you eat lunch with him.. like in the same place with the same people, ask him to buy you lunch
 and maybe like say hi to him more in between classes or something?
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Oct 5 2006, 05:53 PM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(hardxcoreL0VER @ Oct 5 2006, 5:51 PM)  ask him to buy you lunch If some random chick asked me to buy her lunch I think I might throw up on her.  Advice? Honesty is the best policy. Just let him know that you're interested in getting to know him better, maybe become closer. You're looking for a friend, and maybe something more. However you tell him, don't complicate the issue, just let him know. In perfect honesty, a quick stop in the halls and a few words wouldn't be out of line at all. Ask him what he's up to in the next couple days, ask him if he wouldn't mind spending some time with you. What do you really have to lose? Grab a hold of life now, f**k, you won't have the time tomorrow. |
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Oct 5 2006, 06:08 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129 |
QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ Oct 5 2006, 3:53 PM) If some random chick asked me to buy her lunch I think I might throw up on her. Lol but she already knows him as a friend. & I meant that she could give him money to buy her lunch for her to like.. talk to him more, you know? |
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Oct 5 2006, 06:11 PM
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the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
^we don`t eat lunch
hahaha well when i do..i just buy a snack or whatever. well i see him like every lunch i have no classes with him not even the same gym period i don`t know how to start a convo..he`s always with someone..i don`t know what to say. |
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Oct 5 2006, 06:12 PM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(hardxcoreL0VER @ Oct 5 2006, 6:08 PM) Lol but she already knows him as a friend. & I meant that she could give him money to buy her lunch for her to like.. talk to him more, you know? Yeah, I don't know. I'm a poor piece of shit.  Vomit. |
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| ***Lucy** |
Oct 6 2006, 10:52 AM
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I understand that if he's always w/ somebody u don't feel comfortambly..
U could IM him? Or try to talk w/ him when he's speaking w/ a person u know. I mean you could go and talk to the person he's talking to and then talk to him. I totally understand you.. You could try to approach one of his friends and then also try to bacome friends with him  Oh, and lemme tell you something: putting your friends to ask him if he would go out w/ u.. err.. don't do this i mean it never helps and the only results are these: making you wondering if he really meant what he said etc. But you're still young so don't worry..Sth else u could do: if he's very good at a school subject ex:maths etc. , ask him to tutore u..Pretend that u are bad and after some weeks u could be like "wow u r such agood tutor, i think i'm good at maths now  " or sth like that. In the meanwhile u will have become friends, i guess You could also invite some of your friends to the movie and tell to one of your friends(a guy friend) to invite him too. hope i helped a tiny bit..  Good luck sweetie and don'tbe scared!! 
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