Is it ever too late...., to apologize? |
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 Oct 3 2006, 11:44 PM
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 Trinie loves you  Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831  |
have you ever had a fight with a bestfriend, friends or boyfriend?? and you guys were so mad each other , that you havent talked to them for a long time?? but then is it ever too late to apologize for what happened?
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Oct 4 2006, 12:10 AM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
it's never too late to apologize. as long as both of you can admit the wrong and forget about the stupidity of it, then it's all good.
my best friend and i have been friends for so long. our first fight was in fifth grade. this girl told us lies to get us to fight. eventually, we realized that she was lying and just kicked her ass. yeeep. then we apologized and became closer. |
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Oct 4 2006, 12:14 AM
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Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
awww thats awesome! i wish me and my friend were like that. we were bestfriends for 6 years, and yes it went down the drain. both of us didnt want to admit how wrong we both were. and here we are living in different states, always saying to each other how much we want our friendship back. but none of us still apologized. we havent talked about our problems yet, and this happened 6 years ago. *sigh* i miss having a really close girl bestfriend.
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Oct 4 2006, 12:29 AM
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 cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 |
i bet if you give her a donut she'll be fine.
trina fawhking apologize already damn. lol "you get me ten feet off the ground, im hearin what you say but i just cant make a sound ooooOO yea its too late to apologize its toooo lateeee." ahah im sure she will be fine shes just a little shy of talking to you cause you havent talked for so long. |
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Oct 4 2006, 03:15 AM
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 Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
Never too late.
An apologize can change everything again, or not.. you should at least try though. |
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Oct 4 2006, 11:19 AM
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 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
That happened to me and my best friend. Both of us didn't want to apologize because we were stubborn, I guess you could say. Thank goodness we both realized that we didn't want to lose a great friendship over something stupid, so we apologized to each other at the same time. =P hehe..
It's never too late, and even if your friendship doesn't go back to the way it was, at least you gave it a try, right? =] Good luck! |
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Oct 4 2006, 11:39 AM
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 here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
no i think it never to late but i don't think your relationship with that guy/ girl will ever be the same as it was before.
That happened to me with my friend, we were so close, I guess we got sick with each other and started picking at things that we don't like about each other. Now we are ok but not as close as before. 
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| ***Lucy** |
Oct 4 2006, 12:15 PM
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QUOTE(pandamonium @ Oct 4 2006, 6:29 AM)  i bet if you give her a donut she'll be fine. LOL!  Anyway....i think it's never too late to apologise..  If your friendship is strong then everything's gonna be ok. You should give it a try cos then in case you never talk to her u will always think: but if i had apologised?? So i think u should at least try. 
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Oct 5 2006, 06:34 AM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933 |
Hey Girl... I agree, it's never too late to apologize, as long as the both of you realize what you did wrong and admit that you were wrong... It's never to late....
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Oct 5 2006, 07:28 AM
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Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
thanks for the advice guys! :) i appreciate it.
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| *Zatanna* |
Oct 5 2006, 07:40 AM
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Don't throw things at me *ducks* but I think it's subjective. There are certain things that happen (lies, for example) that if not apologized for immediately (or soon after) it festers and that breach in a relationship just cannot be repaired. Not even by time.
As a whole though, there shouldn't be time constraints on apologies. |
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Oct 5 2006, 08:27 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
That's happening right now.
In one of my classes I kicked my friend under the table (we sit in tables of fours) and she got mad at me and didnt talk to me ever since. In fact, whatever happenned was four weeks ago. I thought she's really stupid for not talking to me just because I kick her so I don't talk to her. I wonder whatever got into her... |
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Oct 7 2006, 02:09 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,426 |
firstly, it depends how bad the fight was.
but usually, if you can both admit what you did wrong. put it behind you and move on, it's never too late. but if it's been a while, things will be a bit rocky at first . goodluck :) |
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| *Uronacid* |
Oct 7 2006, 10:06 AM
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I don't know. I have a strange feeling that this is abotu to happen to me, and when it does I'll be sure to tell you.
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