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friend of princess2113.........
im 23...sister is 14..she isnt a virgin....she lives with me....n im not real happy about it....i rant and rave quite a bit at her...but i think she is too young. i am still a virgin, im 23. i think she should be married....or at least older....i don't know what to do....is being upset to harsh? is it really ok for her to have sex....she has done i 2 times now she says....when i was 14 that was NOT ok |
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May 31 2004, 07:42 PM
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okay....what's the point ... Please make createblog clean ang PG-13!
AS YOU SAID: QUOTE she should be married....or at least older....i don't know what to do....is being upset to harsh? is it really ok for her to have sex....she has done i 2 times now she says....when i was 14 that was NOT ok
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May 31 2004, 07:43 PM
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I guess it's normal to show concern but do you believe you have envy torwards your sister? I agree on having her wait till she's older but I guess what's done is done...
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May 31 2004, 08:00 PM
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QUOTE(PinoyOtaku @ May 31 2004, 7:43 PM) I guess it's normal to show concern but do you believe you have envy torwards your sister? I agree on having her wait till she's older but I guess what's done is done... no she is planning to do it friday n i cant stop her |
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May 31 2004, 08:03 PM
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QUOTE(azn_pnoy_boi @ May 31 2004, 7:42 PM) okay....what's the point ... Please make createblog clean ang PG-13! AS YOU SAID: the point was asking for opinions b/c iono what to do....its not like im forcing u to read it so chill out |
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May 31 2004, 08:16 PM
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Just let her be, if she makes a mistake it'll be her fault but try to talk to her about stuff... like wearing a condom and yeah...
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May 31 2004, 08:31 PM
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moved to relationships.
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May 31 2004, 09:10 PM
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QUOTE(princess2113 @ May 31 2004, 5:00 PM) no she is planning to do it friday n i cant stop her Well if you feel strongly against it, give it all you got to prevent it. If all else fails and you're religious, pray... |
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May 31 2004, 09:44 PM
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well talk to the gaurdian. ima be the adult type person reapeating what we all hear all the time " its not safe. there s diseases and etc blah blah.." tell her its not healthy to be doing that.
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May 31 2004, 10:30 PM
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 what if she catches that HIV or STD or all that Aids crap. i dont know what im saying nvm.
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May 31 2004, 10:56 PM
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theres no point being harse on her, its done she's not a virgin anymore all u can do is tell her to not do it anymore...
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May 31 2004, 11:54 PM
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If we could just make a time machine and rewind time...
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Jun 1 2004, 01:03 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
well it's her choice to do it. whether you like it or not you won't have much bearing on if she does or doesn't have sex. you can try to protect her and warn her of the consequences but ultimately it's her choice. although you may still be a virgin and it doesn't seem right to YOU that she be doing such things you have to keep in mind that she is not YOU .. let her do what's best for her as long as she isn't careless and doesn't get herself into a huge irreversible problem you shouldn't have to worry so much. everybody has their own preference. it would be nice to be able to save yourself for the person you marry but life isn't that easy. sometimes when you think you're in love with someone and you want to share that special experience with them you'll do it with no regrets. so let her breathe and do her thing .. you can still be concerned and watch out for her because that's normal but there's only so much you can say and do.
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