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AimeeLynn
post Sep 26 2006, 01:07 PM
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this guy who is a friend told me that he likes me and i think of him as a friend. Im very confused on to go out with him or not. He is the sweetest guy but not my type. I really have mixed feelings for him. I like Filipino guys and asian guys and he is (no offence to irish people) irish, red hair and etc.
filipina+irish= Gossip (I hate Drama)
I think i don't want to go out with him is because im waiting for this other guy (my crush) to ask me out or at least recongize me as more than a friend.

should go with the friend or keep waiting for this guy or just wait for something?
this is confusing... ermm.gif
 
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post Sep 26 2006, 01:12 PM
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if you like him just as a friend then don't because then u'd hurt him worse if u did and then ended it you know? yea i hate drama too. but deep down you really gotta do what you feel is right whether it is going with the guy or waiting. plus it sounds like you want to wait so wait even if it isn't for ur current crush.
 
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post Sep 26 2006, 07:29 PM
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follow your heart :)
 
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post Sep 29 2006, 08:12 PM
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If you aren't sure whether or not you like him, then if you DO, it's probably not strong enough to date him anyway. I think you should just wait for your crush.
 
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post Sep 29 2006, 10:02 PM
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wow even tho you said "no offence to irish people" and then you say drama about a "filipina and an irish = drama" that is extremly rude. dont be so self centered in what people have to say who cares what they say you dont HAVE TO GO OUT WITH THE SAME RACE AS YOU if you like the guy even if hes african american, mexican, indian or irish it doesnt matter and if people do say shit like that its because they are the biggest RACISTS in the world. and that is jus really racial for you to think that way and thats very unfair to him....My biggest advice would to stop caring what other people have to say YOU are the only person runing your life and other people are just nosy for trying to control it.


anyways i think that you should not go out with him because if you just like him as a friend then why break his heart later if you go out with him and still like him as a friend? just let it be and tell him you guys are friends...dont use him as a last resort if the your other crush doesnt like you.

good luck!
 
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post Sep 30 2006, 08:01 AM
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^i agree with her

well...don't just go out with him, just because he likes you..you're just gonna end up getting hurt or hurting him.
 

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