scared of lovin..., wat to do... |
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 May 30 2004, 03:30 PM
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i've been with my boi for like a month now and i'm gettin this feeling that i'm falling for him, but every time i think of it i wtart to want to cry or i do cry cause of my last relationship then i try and convince my self to the point where i say i only like him, .............so ......... i wanna be fair to my boi but i'm just too scared from all the pain i got last time (told me he loved me but didn't really, was just a rebound girl
 )...............any advice for one scared lil person? 
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May 30 2004, 03:44 PM
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love is a scary thing the only thing that you can really do is close your eyes and tap you little red shoes three times and pray you don't meet the wicked witch. Cause Dorthy, your not in Kansas anymore. Love is wonderful, tho.. And the only thing you can hope is that you can learn from it.. I am not saying that you may not get hurt again but you can hope that you won't. I am afriad that hurt comes with the territory. You know?
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May 30 2004, 05:45 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
if you wer enot really to love another i don't think you should of have gotten into a new relationship anyways...
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May 30 2004, 05:52 PM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
dont let a relationship in the past get int the way for your future (that was kinda chessy) or better yet dont live iun the past. Da last guy yu were with and this guy are totally different
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May 30 2004, 06:49 PM
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*marie* Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,051 |
i've been there before. the feels sucks. my first real boyfriend i fell hard. and yeah, he cheated on me. i convinced myself it was because we went to different schools and its just a strain on the whole "relationship." so after him, i think i fell in love with love. and i went out with some other dude. but then i realized that i still thought about and loved my first boyfriend. so i broke up with my "rebound" guy.
i think you should just let ur current boyfriend go if ur still in love or like with another person. you're just lying to yourself and ur current boyfriend by staying in a dead relationship. i hope that all made sense. hope everything works out okay. 
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May 30 2004, 06:59 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
Love is a scary thing to go through, and you never know where it'll take ya. The ony reason why you should stop yourself form loving someone is because you do not trust him. Do you trust him? Otherwise, just let things flow and don't hold back.
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Jun 9 2004, 07:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,234 |
you cant let past relationships but a hault to new ones, or the new one will end like the old...
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Jun 12 2004, 07:55 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
QUOTE(XxKrNqTcUiTyxX @ May 30 2004, 5:52 PM) dont let a relationship in the past get int the way for your future (that was kinda chessy) or better yet dont live iun the past. Da last guy yu were with and this guy are totally different exactly!. the last guy in your relationship hurt you, you should learn from that experience than to just cry about it. Thinking about the past could ruin the future.. |
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Jun 12 2004, 08:05 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
love is a scary experience... you just dont know when it will appear or when it will come out of sight. but for me, i handle it well... even tho it was hard if i was reallie in love. so yeah it's also scary cus if u love him...he might dump u... and that will hurt u like crazie. like getting stabbed to ur heart all the way. so yeah...it's reallie hard to keep from loving a guy... but u know tell him wat u think about it...and wat he think about it. there might be a solution by talking with him about it.
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