moving on or holding strong, letting go of your fears and holding on to ur dreams Options

[Dabme]

[b] isnt it juss wrong when you think you've got it all figured out and then u find a flaw? like everything in your life seemed to be on track and all you had to worry about was whether or not you have homework..but then someone comes along that juss makes you look at your whole life and say wow.. am i really living? or is this juss a dream? Do you guys believe in love at first sight or true love at all? Is love worth all the pain and struggle? Is it worth killing yourself over. Because its hard to forgot someone who you gave your heart to...its hard to not wake up one day and say what could have happened? Its funny.. how everytime your actually looking for a relationship you never find the right person. And when love is the last thing on your mind, they juss seem to come at you in a way that is unnoticable..it catches you off guard.. in both good and bad ways...so is it really worth it? I know most of you are gonna say that yes love is worth fighting for but do you really think so? I just want you guys to think..ask yourself..when you look beyond everything around you..behind the little things and see the big picture..in the end we all are gonna die, no matter how hard you try. So whats the point of trying? To say the truth.. i think that love is worth all the pains and trials.. but Im juss afraid of getting hurt. Some of you are use to being in relationships that only last so long..so ur probably saying wow what a waste of a life. Maybe your right. Maybe I am wasting my life juss thinking of all the things that might go wrong. but i am trying my best. Everytime I have gotten close to anything i let it go. I dont want to hold strong anymore i juss want to let it fly away. Im not to sure why but i dont think i deserve love.

[_sarcastic_]

it is really unfair when you think everything in life is going smoothly like the way you want to then suddenly it takes a turn and everything just changes, been there expericed that. i believe in true love, i believe that there's always someone there for you, whether or not you choose to see it. i don't think love is worth the pain and struggle most of us are giong through, yes i agree that love can hurt or love is hard, but if you've found that person you should be able to trust that person, you should be able to think of it as Wow, i've met this really great person..not get paranoid and worry whether that person is cheating on you, you should be able to trust them fully. i think every relationship is worth it, you learn from it...bad or good...

the point of trying, is to push and yourself and to know that you can do whatever you set your mind/heart to. everyone deserves to love and be loved back.

[*yrrnotelekktric*]

this is deep.
but i must say
that i feel the same way.

[pinacoolada]

You do deserve love. Everyone does.

But I feel the same way. My life was too-good-to-be-true last year and I always knew there was a consequence. But I never thought that consequence would come at a time when I was so vulnerable.

[OhMyAnniee]

you know, i used to have the exact same point of view as you. and then i heard this quote from the CW show, One Tree Hill:

It's been fifty years, fifty long years since I've done this. Looking back on what I said all those years ago, all the hopes and dreams I had, I've come to the conclusion that if having things turn out the way you wanted them to is the measure of a successful life, then some would say that I'm a failure. The important thing is not to be bitter over life's disappointments. Learn to let go of the past. And recognize that every day won't be sunny, and when you find yourself lost in the darkness and despair remember it's only in the black of night you see the stars. And those stars will lead you back home. So don't be afraid to make mistakes, or stumble and fall, cause most of the time the greatest rewards come from doing the things that scare you the most. Maybe you'll get everything you wish for. Maybe you'll get more than you ever could have imagined. Who knows where life will take you. The road is long and in the end, the journey is the destination.

it made me realize that you just have to live life, no regrets. if this doesn't really help PM me or something :) maybe i could help you more?

[*x1227x*]

this is deep.
but i must say
that i feel the same way.

yeahh. i agree with you. this is pretty deep & everyone deserves love, even if you've done something bad in your life, everyone should be able to feel what it feels like to be in love.