We Werent Official but he cheated |
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 Aug 19 2006, 10:42 PM
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ok here is the deal. me and this guy have been "talkin: since like the whole summer. we would talk at least 2 times a day no matter what and he had a rule that he didnt date girls durin the summer but he liked me so much he wanted to change that n i told him dont . but then one day we went a lil far and i told him he moved to fast so he stopped talkin 2 me for a while cuz he wanted space. we still liked each other and stuff. so i find out he went to ATL for the summa and his cousin told me n my brotha that the guy was havin sex with his best friend who walked into the shower with him. they liked each other but he lives here in my city NOT in ATL so there wasnt much hope there. any way the only thing that stopped them b4 was there frinedship. KNOWING that i still like him and he never offically told me no. Isnt he wrong for that. i still like him but i dont date cheaters...if he comes back 2 VA and he wants to be with me i dont no what 2 do. i no we werent official but it still felts like he cheated.. HELP[font=Comic Sans Ms]
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Aug 19 2006, 10:50 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
Lyke he wuz neva wit chu so he neva cheated on you. N how are u so sure of his cuzin`? He culd b lyin` y`know. If u really lyke diz guy den tell hym. U guyz weren`t offishul so he can do wutever duh hell he wants.
ROFL. Oh god that took forever.. |
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Aug 19 2006, 10:55 PM
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^ Aw, don't be mean.
well imo, i think its just a summer crush. |
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Aug 19 2006, 10:58 PM
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Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
QUOTE(nineteen80three @ Aug 19 2006, 8:55 PM)  ^ Aw, don't be mean. well imo, i think its just a summer crush. Sorry, sorry.  Tina isn't in a good mood. D:And, it could be a summer crush, too. 
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Aug 19 2006, 11:12 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Really, if it wasn't official, then he didn't do anything wrong. He was claimed. But like Tina said, if you like him and you DO want a relationship with him, then, tell him.
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Aug 19 2006, 11:26 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
yeah...if he never asked you out, and you were never his gf, he didn't do anything wrong. But if it bothers you...go talk to him about it?
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Aug 19 2006, 11:32 PM
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 What side was that Prvt Pile? Group: Member Posts: 131 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,960 |
you are to young to worry about this crap!
Move on I am sure you can find another guy and do not worry so much ok..life is to short! |
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Aug 20 2006, 09:08 AM
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Honestly I agree wtih Satch.
How old are you anyway? How do you really know it happend if it didn't come from him anyway. The person may just want to make you think of something different and just lie to you. If your really concerned about it and he does ask you out then talk to him about before you get in a relationship with him if you want to be in a relationship with him anyway. Sounds like you and the other girl were just some part of this guys summer fun. If you don't want that to happen then continue to talk to him, but if you just want to forget about him and believe that happened. Then next time he calls you tell him you can't talk to him anymore. |
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Aug 20 2006, 10:42 AM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
if yall werent official then he didnt cheat. but he did do something grimy...do you really want to be with someone who acted like they wanted to be with you then screwed someone else?
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Aug 20 2006, 10:45 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 |
QUOTE(tic tac. @ Aug 19 2006, 11:50 PM) Lyke he wuz neva wit chu so he neva cheated on you. N how are u so sure of his cuzin`? He culd b lyin` y`know. If u really lyke diz guy den tell hym. U guyz weren`t offishul so he can do wutever duh hell he wants. ROFL. Oh god that took forever.. Omg, I love you Tina! <33  Talk to him about it? |
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Aug 20 2006, 09:59 PM
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 yawn :) Group: Official Member Posts: 2,926 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,041 |
QUOTE(tic tac. @ Aug 19 2006, 11:50 PM) Lyke he wuz neva wit chu so he neva cheated on you. N how are u so sure of his cuzin`? He culd b lyin` y`know. If u really lyke diz guy den tell hym. U guyz weren`t offishul so he can do wutever duh hell he wants. ROFL. Oh god that took forever..  but is was just probably just a summer fling..just get on with you life |
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Aug 20 2006, 11:26 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
don't make a big deal about it, i mean it was only a summer crush/fling.
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