masturbating with other guys doesn' t mean you are GAY Options

[bobby james]

Why do people put gay on everything?!
My father is sure not gay because my mom and him are married and they had me of course, and ALSO to the people that said he is sick and I am sick, you are sick for thinking of it that way.
Anyways, masturbating with other guys is just that. I used to do that with my old friend in the room BEFORE i was gay. People who say it is gay have probably done it before, most guys will eventually do this in their lifetime.

[*Intoxiique*]

Hi, can you change your avatar, stop posting posts or topics, delete your topics & posts, ask a mod to delete your account & block your ip so you can never come back? kthx.

[XaZnX07]

wtf????? ummm masturbating is a private matter haha i dont think its right for two guys to masturbate in the same room........ lol the question is why???

and by your words did you do it with your dad?

ermm so whats your point? you trying to say people use gay for everything now or the fact that you dont considered jacking off with another guy gay?

.:Tony:.

[satch]

Well lets see Hmmm nope never have that is something I would do with my wife and hey if you are gay and want to do it with your " FRIEND" but with your dad??? that is sick sorry!

Hi, can you change your avatar, stop posting posts or topics, delete your topics & posts, ask a mod to delete your account & block your ip so you can never come back? kthx.

I agree 100%

[bobby james]

Hi, can you change your avatar, stop posting posts or topics, delete your topics & posts, ask a mod to delete your account & block your ip so you can never come back? kthx.

Umm, let me guess...no.
How about you do it? I have no problem with me darling. Nothing wrong with being gay, sweetie.

[*RiC3xBoy*]

So I guess this takes "beating the geezer" to a whole new level eh?

[*Intoxiique*]

How about you do it? I have no problem with me darling. Nothing wrong with being gay, sweetie.

How about I not do it? I don't have a problem with gays. Darling I am just highly disturbed that you masturbate with - your dad.

[satch]

How about I not do it? I don't have a problem with gays. Darling I am just highly disturbed that you masturbate with - your dad.

Again I have to agree I do not have a problem with gays it is the dad thing that is just wrong...real wrong...

I am still hoping that this is all BS and you are going to say haha just joking...

[*Kathleen*]

Ew. I'm trying to imagine masturbating with my mom.. and wow.. I'm sure I'd have the same feeling on the subject if I were a guy. By the way - according to his profile, he has submitted forty-three layouts. I'm sure the Design Staff don't want us banning him for his topics.

[goodcharlotte]

First of all I don't think these replys have anything about you being gay you are making this into you being gay. Second of all if you decide to get all defensive about everything then just don't post. This is made for people's opinions. They don't care that you are gay they dislike you because of your standards. I find what you do quite akward. I will leave it at that. I am not trying to be mean but objective.

[*Uronacid*]

*edited*

[tooeffingcrazy]

You're gay. We get it. I have nothing against it, except when people post 120984901283 of gay-related topics that has no significance.

Go ahead and masturbate with your friends.
Dad? Kind of sick.
Watch Happiness, I'm just scared your dad is one of THOSE dads.

[bobby james]

How about I not do it? I don't have a problem with gays. Darling I am just highly disturbed that you masturbate with - your dad.

Well there is nothing you can do about it, and deleting my topics, post, or having the moderator ban me just as you requested is not going to change that. You're just gonna have to be one disturbed person aren't you? Get over it, please. Thank you.

[bobby james]

well i know a lotta guys would masterbate with each other in the same room, but theyd prbly be friends.

im sorry i find that guys masterbating with their own fathers next to them is creepy and just disturbing.

i mean...comon.

i know there is nothing wrong with being gay, but im not saying there is.
its almost like incest to me, is what im saying that you would do that and actually share your story about it.

and you must know, that normally men who jerk off, dont do it with their fathers.

but you know what, maybe thats just my opinion, maybe you were raised wrong, maybe you are mental. who knows.
///alright whatever.
you need to get laid. thats all. really. like. stop sharing these really disgusting stories and stuff, because you need to keep those things to yourself if you know its wrong to post up.

stop masterbating with your relatives.

and if you EVER plan on adopting,
i STRONGLY suggest that you dont
because you will probably mess up that kid, that was probably already messed up.
because if you did have a son...oh god. i dont even know where to start.

Maybe it's just your opinion?? How about it IS. I find it crazy though that you're telling me to stop doing this and suggesting that I do that when I'm not gonna consider it...I mean...I really hope you knew that! Go cry somewhere else little girl.

[datass]

^anyways, please dont double post.

Most people just think masterbating with relatives are a little disturbing, you can't stop them from thinking that way. And if it's more than one person saying it's disturbing, maybe it's not their own opinion.

Ew. I'm trying to imagine masturbating with my mom.. and wow.. I'm sure I'd have the same feeling on the subject if I were a guy. By the way - according to his profile, he has submitted forty-three layouts. I'm sure the Design Staff don't want us banning him for his topics.

^actually...he has 43 favourite layouts, he didn't contribute to layouts or anything.

[satch]

I am shocked that you think that jerking off with your dad is ok..

[bobby james]

That's life sweetie. You're gonna be shocked at certain things, not everything is all goody-goody or however you people think it's supposed to be. "icy wonderland", you're saying since everyone thinks I should stop doing a certain thing then I should?

More than one person could tell me that they don't think my name is Bobby, does that make it fact? Get off of that icy wonderland of yours and snap into reality.
Sorry girl, but I could care less how many people think I should do what, that stuff doesn't really matter.

[datass]

^That was rude. And my name is Julia.

[bobby james]

Hmmm...rude. No, it wasn't rude, it was me telling the truth. The world doesn't revolve around you and for me to not care about your feelings isn't really rude at all. Like I said before...get off of that icy wonderland of yours and this time...be reasonable. I didn't ask for your name though. :) Oh yea...drop it, case closed.

[*Uronacid*]

I rally don't see why you are so offened by this... I don't find it offensive at all.. Julia, i'm not trying to be a jerk or anything, but your in the guys locker room. If your going to get offended in here don't bother to post about it. You are reading these topics of your own free will. Look at the title for the forum: "Boys' Locker. Forum for the guys. Talk about all the manly guy stuff." It clearly states that this forum is for guys, and if you can't handle the heat... get out of the kitchen. I suggest that if you think it's gross you should make a topic in the girls locker room, and get heated in there. I'm sure that bobby james will join in if you request him to.

-Some guys mastubate with eachother, and some don't...

-Masturbating with your family... well, um... I just don't like it because I feel that it's as close to incest as it gets with out accually being incestual... You're comming close when you do things like that, and for me personaly I don't even like to come close...

[satch]

It is not so much that you are doing this, it is that you are doing this with your DAD, as alot of you know I am a father and have 2 boys and NO WAY IN HELL would I be doing this with them. And I can not remember a time that I did it with my friends but I do not think that would be wrong. And I would go as far to say that if DHS or whatever the child protection service is there found out, I would say that your dad would be investagated (that is if you are under age).....

Dude jerk it, do it with your buddies do it by yourself but with your dad Hmmm....

Masturbating with your family... well, um... I just don't like it because I feel that it's as close to incest as it gets with out accually being incestual... You're comming close when you do things like that, and for me personaly I don't even like to come close...

I agree 100% with this, what you are doing is real close to that and that my friend is aginst the law.....

[Mr. Slowjamz]

you should just change your title people have preferances ....i don`t masturbate in front my guys friends or my dad or my bro ....i find it sick ...i just masturbate alone .

[*Uronacid*]

what the fck?

i said you need to get laid you sad fck so you dont have to fckin jerk off with your father anymore.

god u know what
do whatever you want

people are stating their opinions, and saying it is wrong about what you do, im saying i agree.
do your gay buddies also jerk off with their parents?
or do you know any guys that jerk off with their parents?

the thing is.
it bothers me because, for girls, you always hear stories about their fathers sexually abusing their daughters, and to me, YOU jerking off with your father, is sort of like that, only you...encourage it for some reason, and im sure you are a grown man...and beside from that reason, i still think its wrong.

and i know that whatever i say will not stop you from doing...stuff...with your father, and you should know that im not gonna change my opinions on how i think its wrong.

and i hope you accept that.

so im just stating my opinon, and trying not to TELL you what to do.
because i know you wouldnt listen to a 15 year old girl.
so dont all be defensive about how im telling you to do sht.

and im not necessarily offended, im more disgusted.
and now i have reason to suspect you must have had a bad childhood.
id feel bad for you
if you werent such an jackass
oh yeah and im sure no one will agree with anyone who eats their own deoderant.

LMAO, look... um... you still shouldn't get offended by him. I know why you feel the way you do, but I don't htink you two will ever see eye to eye on this subject. I don't think that what he does is considered incestual.Although it is questionable I believe that for him it's just a normal thing that he and his father may enjoy doing... I still think it's pretty gross

[tooeffingcrazy]

i know its not incest.
but its pretty close isnt it?

...
i say too much

It's not even close to being called incest.

Are they touching each other? Are they having sex? Are they helping each other masturbate? HOPEFULLY NOT. If so, that would be considered incest.

Though I still find it disturbing to masturbate infront of your dad, but maybe that's their male bonding. Some fish, hike, play sports, but I guess they masturbate.

it bothers me because, for girls, you always hear stories about their fathers sexually abusing their daughters, and to me, YOU jerking off with your father, is sort of like that,

Again, they arn't touching each other. I don't think you know what you're talking about. You're just pasting random facts to make it seem worse.

[*Kathleen*]

Please stick to the topic; if not, there's always private messages.

Yeah.. I'm kind of agreeing with the whole.. changing the topic title. I think we've established that it isn't "gay" when masturbating with other guys. It's just.. odd that one would do so with their father.

[Nymphetamine]

I read every post and I have to agree with the majority; masturbating with a parent is SICK. For the love of God, how embarrassing is that?

I don't care if you don't like my 'opinion', I find what you're doing to be a SICK act. I have NOTHING against homosexuals, my brother IS gay. Besides, this topic has got nothing to do with gays.

I'm utterly disgusted.

[femmefatale4160]

Everyone here is entitled to their opinions. And although it would seem that all of us find it disturbing that you jack off with your dad, you should have expected this sort of response before you posted such a provocative topic.

[jumpropeforheart]

okay, ill stick to the original point. why if you're straight would you want to jack off in front of another male? if you were straight, id think thatd be close to the last thing on your mind. besides which, how do you ask? "hey bob, wanna come sit on my couch and jack off with me because we are soooooooo straight?"

[*Zatanna*]

ENOUGH!

Obviously a great deal of you find this disturbing. That's fine and to each his own. But enough with the flaming. I'm sorry, but the majority of the responses here are just that. Say what you want about the topic, but please leave it at that.

//edit
Just realized a couple of people have already summed up what I've said here.

[satch]

Well I do not think that saying it is sick or wrong to jerk off with your dad is flamming if it is I am sorry did not mean to make it seem that way. But I do still think that it is way wrong and I am sure it is not healthy thing to do....

But the subject is masturbating with other guys doesn' t mean you are GAY


Ok so no I do not think that it is, as a young kid I am sure alot of guys have. And Ihave herd alot of people say so who are not gay.

But he threw in the shock of doing it with his dad he should have left it at maybe a friend or whatever. He also says he is gay, so why should he worry one way or the other?

[*liquid.*]

Hi, can you change your avatar, stop posting posts or topics, delete your topics & posts, ask a mod to delete your account & block your ip so you can never come back? kthx.

YAY! Eva saved us, i am against gay marriages. lets burn the gays alive! Liz suggested this idea though so get intoxicaed

[*nightmare4taki*]

Why do people put gay on everything?!
My father is sure not gay because my mom and him are married and they had me of course, and ALSO to the people that said he is sick and I am sick, you are sick for thinking of it that way.

He might be gay. He could be on the down low.

Anyways, masturbating with other guys is just that. I used to do that with my old friend in the room BEFORE i was gay.

Are you sure you were straight a the time.

People who say it is gay have probably done it before, most guys will eventually do this in their lifetime.

Hell No

[oka_yonip]

do we really need to know this?? =/

[Selv]

If it doesnt make you gay then why are you...?
(Just out of curiosity)[not to bash]

[CrazyJellyBean]

Im sorry, this disturbs me

[Relentless]

Who cares? Let people do whatever they want, it's not gonna affect you.

Well, I had a friend of told me he was masturbating with this friend and both of them were watching porn. lol.

I don't care what people do, cuz it's the way they want/do it. I don't mind & I don't find this topic disturbing. It's just people expressing their opinions. & No, I'm not gay.

[bobby james]

If it doesnt make you gay then why are you...?
(Just out of curiosity)[not to bash]

So do you really want a story on how it started because I will give it to you.
No..but why am I? Because I am sexually attracted to men. It was kind of always inside of me but I held back for a minute, and when I was masturbating in room with a guy I really didn't look at him that way. I was just focusing on me. So that really didn't contribute to it, at least I don't think so. It's just something that was there, got tired of hiding <--that is how I was looking.

okay, ill stick to the original point. why if you're straight would you want to jack off in front of another male? if you were straight, id think thatd be close to the last thing on your mind. besides which, how do you ask? "hey bob, wanna come sit on my couch and jack off with me because we are soooooooo straight?"

Well, it really wasn't a want it was something that just happened. Not like we we touched eachother. But my father? He is not gay like people were saying.

Im sorry, this disturbs me

Don't be sorry. For yourself yes. You're the one that wanted to read believe it or not, or else you wouldn't have come in.
People keep putting this yet coming INSIDE the topic and REPLYING...hmm. Can't be that disturbed people if you knew that it was going to be a disturbing topic just by the subject. Then you read it. That makes sense. We all like to play with fire, I do, but do not complain when it burns you, you decided to put your hand in.

[*Uronacid*]

So do you really want a story on how it started because I will give it to you.
No..but why am I? Because I am sexually attracted to men. It was kind of always inside of me but I held back for a minute, and when I was masturbating in room with a guy I really didn't look at him that way. I was just focusing on me. So that really didn't contribute to it, at least I don't think so. It's just something that was there, got tired of hiding <--that is how I was looking.
Well, it really wasn't a want it was something that just happened. Not like we we touched eachother. But my father? He is not gay like people were saying.
Don't be sorry. For yourself yes. You're the one that wanted to read believe it or not, or else you wouldn't have come in.
People keep putting this yet coming INSIDE the topic and REPLYING...hmm. Can't be that disturbed people if you knew that it was going to be a disturbing topic just by the subject. Then you read it. That makes sense. We all like to play with fire, I do, but do not complain when it burns you, you decided to put your hand in.

this is all true... you guys know that this topic is disturbing... if it disturbs you than why do you kee comming in here and looking?

[jumpropeforheart]

Who cares? Let people do whatever they want, it's not gonna affect you.

it's not the fact we care that he does it, it's the fact that he makes 10 topics flaunting that it happens. of course, like rebecca said, each his own, but the reason people are getting so into it and bashing is because of the reoccuring topics. honestly, we don't care what he does in his spare time, but he acts as if we should know and should accept it... that is what is getting people upset. let's all just let it go and pretend like we care... at least.

[Nymphetamine]

this is all true... you guys know that this topic is disturbing... if it disturbs you than why do you kee comming in here and looking?

How stupid is this statement! We find the idea of masturbating with his dad to be EXTREMELY disturbing. The topic starter made a topic and we replied; we gave our opinions. Isn't that what this topic is all about? Giving opinions?
Besides, do you really expect us to agree with him? This is a forum, we've got diverse opinions so stop bitching about other people's opinions and stick to the topic.

In my opinion, masturbating with friends is less disturbing than masturbating with a parent. I could never masturbate with my mother neither will I masturbate with my child. I don't find this to be an homosexual act, I think it is wrong. But then again, one man's meat is another man's poison.

Do as you please but don't expect everyone to concur.

[*Uronacid*]

How stupid is this statement! We find the idea of masturbating with his dad to be EXTREMELY disturbing. The topic starter made a topic and we replied; we gave our opinions. Isn't that what this topic is all about? Giving opinions?
Besides, do you really expect us to agree with him? This is a forum, we've got diversed opinions so stop bitching about other people's opinions and stick to the topic.

In my opinion, masturbating with friends is less disturbing than masturbating with a parent. I could never masturbate with my mother neither will I masturbate with my child. I don't find this to be an homosexual act, I think it is wrong. But then again, one man's meat is another man's poison.

Do as you please but don't expect everyone to concur.

Yes, it's disturbing, and I think it's gross... but why do you guys keep comming back... if you were that discusted by it then you would just avoid the topic all together. You can give your opinions without being all flamed up about it.

-Masturbating with your family... well, um... I just don't like it because I feel that it's as close to incest as it gets with out accually being incestual... You're comming close when you do things like that, and for me personaly I don't even like to come close...

This was my opinion... I didn't have to get offended by what he does. What he and his father do is their choice. They have the freedom to make those descitions for themselves. Why should you have to cuss in a non-joking or serious manner to get the piiont across... If you arn't angery and you talk like that normaly, than I appologize.

I think it's great... this guy is a really big test for most of you people... XD I have to admit, I can see where this would be very offensive, but... it doesn't effect you... why should you be offended...

[Nymphetamine]

Yes, it's disturbing, and I think it's gross... but why do you guys keep comming back... if you were that discusted by it then you would just avoid the topic all together. You can give your opinions without being all flamed up about it.
This was my opinion... I didn't have to get offended by what he does. What he and his father do is their choice. They have the freedom to make those descitions for themselves. Why should you have to cuss in a non-joking or serious manner to get the piiont across... If you arn't angery and you talk like that normaly, than I appologize.

I think it's great... this guy is a really big test for most of you people... XD I have to admit, I can see where this would be very offensive, but... it doesn't effect you... why should you be offended...

You're contradicting yourself! If you think it's disturbing AND gross, why do YOU keep coming back?
Besides, like I stated earlier on, this is a forum. I can post on whichever topic I please. I don't find his post to be offensive, but I find it to be disturbing. There's a difference.

Again, I for one keep 'coming back' because I posted here and I'm also trying to understand the topic starter's way of thinking.

[satch]

There seems to be something lost in all of this, the subject was masturbating with guys doesn't make you gay...


Here is what happen thou, he threw in doing it with his dad. That is where the shock comes in. So maybe we should focus on just the topic and forget about the dad part huh? we can almost all agree that doing that with your parent is just not right ok....

So for the topic like I said I do not think that it makes you gay, not my thing to do but I do not think that it makes you gay.....but you say you are gay what I do not understand is why does it bother you so much to start a topic like this??

[goodcharlotte]

I think this topic has lost any meaning it was ever intended to have.

[bobby james]

it's not the fact we care that he does it, it's the fact that he makes 10 topics flaunting that it happens. of course, like rebecca said, each his own, but the reason people are getting so into it and bashing is because of the reoccuring topics. honestly, we don't care what he does in his spare time, but he acts as if we should know and should accept it... that is what is getting people upset. let's all just let it go and pretend like we care... at least.

The deoderant question wasn't flaunting anything, the other masturbation question wasn't flaunting anything, my question in the fashion section isn't. and this isn't...So, where did it come from? Or could it be that you are just looking too hard to see if I was "flaunting" something? You only see what you choose to Stop being such a drama queen and exaggerating. This is what makes some of you guys look like you care because you get all technical with it and then make unreasonable assumptions

You're contradicting yourself! If you think it's disturbing AND gross, why do YOU keep coming back?
Besides, like I stated earlier on, this is a forum. I can post on whichever topic I please. I don't find his post to be offensive, but I find it to be disturbing. There's a difference.

It's one thing to state that you think it is gross and then try to debate with me on the statement I made, good, I'm cool with that, I like debating. But MY comment and what he was agreeing on was initially to the people that would put "this is disturbing" and bashed without putting ANYTHING reasonable, OR it's the one's that acted all "disgusted, I'm gonna die if I see something like this" but still came in and still replied That doesn't neccessarily mean he was talking to you or I was talking about you sweetie And I know you were talking to URONACID, but I decided to put my 5 cents in.

Again, I for one keep 'coming back' because I posted here and I'm also trying to understand the topic starter's way of thinking.

Good luck. After you stated your opinion and stood firm by it, it's hard to think you are trying to understand.

So for the topic like I said I do not think that it makes you gay, not my thing to do but I do not think that it makes you gay.....but you say you are gay what I do not understand is why does it bother you so much to start a topic like this??

It wasn't really bothersome, just something I felt like doing. Welp, the gay label was thrown at the person I was masturbating with and I feel that he is not gay, or anyone that does that is. Some people do. But that's life.

[*Uronacid*]

The deoderant question wasn't flaunting anything, the other masturbation question wasn't flaunting anything, my question in the fashion section isn't. and this isn't...So, where did it come from? Or could it be that you are just looking too hard to see if I was "flaunting" something? You only see what you choose to Stop being such a drama queen and exaggerating. This is what makes some of you guys look like you care because you get all technical with it and then make unreasonable assumptions
It's one thing to state that you think it is gross and then try to debate with me on the statement I made, good, I'm cool with that, I like debating. But MY comment and what he was agreeing on was initially to the people that would put "this is disturbing" and bashed without putting ANYTHING reasonable, OR it's the one's that acted all "disgusted, I'm gonna die if I see something like this" but still came in and still replied That doesn't neccessarily mean he was talking to you or I was talking about you sweetie And I know you were talking to URONACID, but I decided to put my 5 cents in.
Good luck. After you stated your opinion and stood firm by it, it's hard to think you are trying to understand.

It wasn't really bothersome, just something I felt like doing. Welp, the gay label was thrown at the person I was masturbating with and I feel that he is not gay, or anyone that does that is. Some people do. But that's life.

yeah, thanks for putting in your two cents... I completely agree with you, I personally believe that you just have a very odd life style compared to most men... you and your family seem to be very open about things. I guess if your family does that... well, it's your buisness. As-long-as you're doing it behind closed doors, and its a mutual thing (neither of you are being forced to do it/being put up to the task against your will). I really don't see a problem with you doing it.... but me personally I would never do that XD

[datass]

I think this topic has lost any meaning it was ever intended to have.

Yeah I think so too. But then again, this topic was only made to convey the message that "masterbating with other guys doesn't mean you're gay"

[*T0rmented_Soul*]

wow, I just read thorugh all the posts and found this quite interesting, the whole dad and masturbation thing with the son, is probably just a way of showing how open they are. Proven the fact that yes He is gay, but before he knew he was, he was masturbating with guys in his room. But I don't think they'd actually watch each other while they Jerk it, more like happening to be in the same room watching porn and masturbating.

[satch]

Yeah I think so too. But then again, this topic was only made to convey the message that "masterbating with other guys doesn't mean you're gay"

That is right and thats the meaning of it.....

Yulp so we need to drop the dad part and comment on the part about Masturbating with other guys. I am so guilty taking it to the dad part and leaving the subject of the topic. So I think that this is still alive...

And like I said take the dad part out and I do not think that what he is doing means you are gay.

[jumpropeforheart]

The deoderant question wasn't flaunting anything, the other masturbation question wasn't flaunting anything, my question in the fashion section isn't. and this isn't...So, where did it come from? Or could it be that you are just looking too hard to see if I was "flaunting" something? You only see what you choose to Stop being such a drama queen and exaggerating. This is what makes some of you guys look like you care because you get all technical with it and then make unreasonable assumptions

if you weren't flaunting it, you wouldn't have made a topic called "masturbating with other guys doesn't mean you are gay". obviously you want us to know something. i like how i'm the drama queen though since i'm not the one trying to get everyone to side with me and agree with what im doing is right. this is the end of our convo. take it for what its worth for i wont be back in here.

[aznxdreamer]

okay, we understand that your are gay.im sure most of us dont have a problem with gay people. but then again i am sure that most of us have a problem with masturbating with their relatives. so dont get mad at us for its a little weird. geez.

[Nymphetamine]

Good luck. After you stated your opinion and stood firm by it, it's hard to think you are trying to understand.

Understanding doesn't equal agreeing. I can stand firm to my opinion but still try to understand you, sweetie.

[*Zatanna*]

Ok, I think the idea that "masturbating with other guys doesn' t mean you are GAY" has been communicated. Unfortunately, this topic evolved from masturabation with someone of the same sex, to masturbation with parents.

If this topic was intended to be soley based upon the idea of masturbation with a parent, that should have been a part of the topic title. That's just my opinion though and one thing I've definitely learned here at cB is that topic titles can be very misleading.

Having said that, this has become a source of argument and bashing. I love a good debate, I'm sure most people do but this has gone beyond that.

I apologize to Bobby for doing this, but I am closing this thread.

Also, if someone would like to post the topic of "Masturbation with Parents" in Debate, go for it. Just know that arguing, per se isn't allowed there either. Express your thoughts, opinions but do so in a respectful and intelligent manner.

-Closed-