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 Aug 9 2006, 12:12 AM
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im back lol.. well i have another question... say you hang out w/ a dude that likes you [BUT RESPECTS THAT YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND -- like he doesnt do anything stupid like try to get w/ you or kiss or w/e] is it right for your boyfriend to be mad? i mean all you do is TALK [well duh of course] and he gets mad... what do you think?
in my situation... i told my boyfriend that i have been hanging out w/ this guy.. and since its the summer, ive seen him more than my own bf and hes mad... ^^this might be a stupid question [to be continued later] |
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Aug 9 2006, 12:34 AM
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well.. it depends how much your bf trusts you. how long have you guys been going out? if you say that you hangout with your friend more than your bf.. maybe you can balance it? trust me. your bfs mad at you is probably cuz he doesnt get to hangout with you as much. after all, guys do get jealous easily. talk to him about it. hope this helps
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Aug 9 2006, 12:55 AM
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^yeahi agree, especiallly talk to you bf about it.
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Aug 9 2006, 07:24 AM
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he's probably mad because you hang out with this guy more than you do with him.
it's not that he doesn't trust you, it's just that he probably just doesn't trust the other guy. talk it out with him |
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Aug 9 2006, 01:40 PM
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 All The Girlies Say I'm Pretty Fly For A White Guy Group: Member Posts: 1,944 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,858 |
Yes. Boyfriends tend to get jealous. If you hung out with this boy more than your boyfriend then he probably is really jealous and maybe feels insecure about it. Talk to him. It's the best thing to do.
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Aug 9 2006, 03:19 PM
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Jealousy is natural, especially when it feels as if there's someone who could be a possible threat. In your mind, your friend isn't a threat to your relationship, but to your boyfriend, he could be. Especially since you do hang out with your guy friend than your boyfriend.
I think it'd only be wrong if your boyfriend took things overboard and started to question your relationship together because of this other guy. Other than that, gain more of your boyfriend's trust, and try to ease his mind about the other guy, reassuring him that nothing will happen between you two to ruin the relationship you already have. |
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Aug 9 2006, 03:45 PM
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 i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
it's natural that your boyfriend may get jealous. let him know that even if this guy does like you, and even though you two hang out, YOU won't let anything happen. meaning, if this guy tries to make a move, you won't let him. make sure he's trusts you. and even if he does, it's natural for him to get jealous. just give him the facts, it'll click.
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