how?, how do i get my ex back?? Options

[cute808chiq@yaho...]

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ok look mi && my boyfriend well ex now went out for seven months and he broke up with mii && its been like month now since we broke up but everytime i see him i cry when i get home??we dont talk at al he ignores mii && i just dont noe what todo i love him to death && i thought it was meant to be but i guess not like we have so much in common && i just cant believe he would just throw 7 months down the drain?? all my friends say that i could od better && he just puts up with is it my fault that we broke up or his?? because theres this girl that they talk all the time && like he took a picture of him then his computer saying guess who i was talking too with her piture in the backgournd? the girl says that they dont go out but i dont noe who to believe any more or trust do i just let him og or keep fighting to get him back?? im just so grr..i want him in my arms agian!!they say if you brake up then keep going back to the same person then there meant for each other is that true because we broke up on && off like 3 times but now i think its official over!!! heeeelllpp i need advice someone tell mii what to do or say to him i love him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!like no other

[Ington]

...What the hell are you talking about.

Lets start over, who broke up with who? Why?

[cute808chiq@yaho...]

he broke up with mii why? because he thought o said i love you to another boy

[Ington]

And did you?

If you did, then face it, you screwed up. Beg him for forgiveness or give up.
If you didn't, then try to explain you didn't.
If you didn't and its him covering up for something he did, give up.

[cute808chiq@yaho...]

umm no i didnt say i love you to some other boy?? ive tried ot explain to him that i didnt ssay i love you to some other boy maybe i should just give up! =[[

[Ington]

If you're thinking about giving up, then you don't love him anyway.

[cute808chiq@yaho...]

i do love him but i mean if hes not gonna reply to any of my messages or voice mail what else am i suppse to do???i love him to death i will never love anyone the way i loved him<33

[Ington]

He's being a baby.
And people like that need to be forced.

Find a way to meet up with him. Get creative.

[cute808chiq@yaho...]

thank you..lol

[lyin_in_wait]

i hope that was sarcasm...

he obviously doesnt want to be with you. so you need to move on and should he come back, the balls in your court now so you make the decisions. just stop tryin to be with him before you get repped as a stalker....

[SemiErotic]

Eh, you're young...You'll live. Stuff like that happens to everyone. One other thing, annoying by calling him and sending him tons of messages isn't going to make him like you again...Try telling him what you need to tell him in a mature manner and giving him some space and time to think things over. If he likes you, then he'll come back to you.

[*This Confession*]

Yea, if your young. It was young love. Theres plenty more people out there, just move on and get over your feelings for the guy. Soon enough if you have some patience and new guy will come your way and he'll be better than the last

[xchrystizzle]

don't try to get him back. try to forget about him, even if that means going out of your way to avoid him for a while.

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

don't try to get him back. try to forget about him, even if that means going out of your way to avoid him for a while.

Agreed. I think you should for get about him and start over fresh new with a new person. W00t!

[pinacoolada]

That's how I felt at the beginning but believe me it feels so much better once you're over him. You just have to realize that you guys just aren't meant to be and that it was for the best.

Move on. There are so many guys out there. It may seem like it's hard to and that he is the only guy who could ever make you happy but you're still young and you will find someone who can make you happier.

i love him to death i will never love anyone the way i loved him<33

I swear that you'll find someone you'd love more. Besides, break-ups are learning experiences just think of how much better your next relationship will be.

[ilovemychick]

YEAH, MOVE THE HELL ON. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Gain some self-esteem, honey.

[*Freaky Krazer*]

okay I didn't even read your post because I felt the urge to tell you this.

You should not force an ex back into a relationship

If your significant other loses his/her feelings for you, then it's over. Unless she/he broke up with you because of problems with parents or school or any case of forbidden love, then maybe you can work things out.

Pushing someone to love you will only push them away.

[msladyliberty]

Go tell him to eff-himself.

but that's just me.

-If he really loves you, he'd trust you and believe you.
-He'd take your side.

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

okay I didn't even read your post because I felt the urge to tell you this.

You should not force an ex back into a relationship

If your significant other loses his/her feelings for you, then it's over. Unless she/he broke up with you because of problems with parents or school or any case of forbidden love, then maybe you can work things out.

Pushing someone to love you will only push them away.

agreed i dont know how many posts i have read that (mostly are girls actually all of them) that say they will do anything do get there ex back and most all the time the ex absolutly ignores them, cheats or calls them a stalker. girl you dont have to humilate your self or degrade yourself over the love of some guy especially a guy that you have been going out with 7 months! NO GIRL should have to beg a guy to take her back because if a guy truly loved them then there would be no reason to beg.

i dont mean to be rude but you really need to give your self some dignity no matter how much it kills you inside you need to move on and if he truly loves you he will come back to you but by himself not by you stalking him or leaving him tons of messages online and on his phone.

[Gypsy Eyes]

I've experienced a very similar situation, in fact almost exact (with a few more complications) and lets say trying to get him back didn't exactly work. We haven't talked in two years, even though we work together.

Don't push anyone back into a relationship. Let things cool off and see how it works out.

[tooeffingcrazy]

GRAMMAR. GRAMMAR. GRAMMAR.
God, it was hell to read all that.

Okay, he's obviously over you. There is nothing you can do about it. You just have to get over it, and move on. It will take some time for you to sob and eat and stuff, but you will get through this. Being more clingly may seem annoying, just a FYI.

[Ington]

okay I didn't even read your post because I felt the urge to tell you this.

You should not force an ex back into a relationship

If your significant other loses his/her feelings for you, then it's over. Unless she/he broke up with you because of problems with parents or school or any case of forbidden love, then maybe you can work things out.

Pushing someone to love you will only push them away.

Just for the record, when I said to force him, I meant to force him to listen to her, not to force him back into the relationship. :x

[AngelinaTaylor]

Um.. move on.

[KaricDesign]

maybe hes using what you did, as an excuse to stay out of the relationship because he doesnt like you anymore.. or he likes someone else

if he really liked you.. then he wouldnt be making a big deal of it.. because its really not that huge =)

[PrincessAda]

Move on because if a guy who you truely want to be with can`t trust you..theres no point.