late period and paranoid mother, what should i do?! Options

[kokonut kookies]

okso yesterday i posted a topic about period symptoms and i guess this isnt really realted however i still havent gotten my period and im taking a pregnancy test tomorrow however i can't tell my mother i had sex but she keeps nagging me about how its not normal for a grl my age in 16 to be late by a week yet i have been late before... and everyone i have spoken to hasbeen late by a week or more. im just really freaking out how can i get her off my back... i thought about faking my period but how can i do that?.... im freaking out please help....

[*Kathleen*]

You're fcuked. DEAL WITH IT. I already told you that in the other thread.

[kokonut kookies]

What if you ARE pregnant?

i have tat coveredmy mom just cant find out so i have to fake my period or sumthing please help!

[*I Shot JFK*]

^she may notice when you give birth.

that is ALWAYS such a giveaway

[*Kathleen*]

^she may notice when you give birth.

that is ALWAYS such a giveaway

HAHA. You can always kill yourself.

[SarahxJoy]

^x2 Ah yes, damn those membrane ruptures.

[RCcola]

Kathleen!!! be nice

may i suggest keeping red dye in your panties? lawls.

[Zachy-Poo]

don't stress? heard that makes it more...late.
just back track. where did he go, what did you use, etc.

[kokonut kookies]

Kathleen!!! be nice

may i suggest keeping red dye in your panties? lawls.

haha i wish tat was conviencing but i was thinikin bout preparein a few pads wit pork bloodn not actully wearin them either tat or kut my self bt i mite pass out kus i need a lot of blood..... ahhhh help!?

[Looow]

Your mom keeps track of your period? Mine doesn't .. Shit for all I know .. I could get pregant & she wouldn't know ..

ANYWAY, CALM DOWN.

Cut yourself? Pork blood? Are you f**king stupid?

Just tell you mom to chill out. Periods are late. It's not like she knows you're having sex. Print out an article about periods or something off the internet to convince her ..

& if you ARE pregnant .. that's AN0THER story.


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[Paradox of Life]

You're fcuked. DEAL WITH IT. I already told you that in the other thread.

Agreed. You screwed up. Tell your mom about it. There's no reason to hide it any longer.

Kathleen, I LOVE YOUR AVATAR. Kyo's so hot in that video (the little of his face you can see), lol.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Next time, don't have sex and you won't be so paranoid :) Voila. As Kathleen said, you're f**ked. I hope more young teens read this thread..

[SarahxJoy]

haha i wish tat was conviencing but i was thinikin bout preparein a few pads wit pork bloodn not actully wearin them either tat or kut my self bt i mite pass out kus i need a lot of blood..... ahhhh help!?

Just a question, how old are you anyway?

[*This Confession*]

Sheesh Kathleen you could try not to be so rude to the girl.


I don't know what to tell you, if your pregnant then you are. And you eventually have to tell her, because you just holding a lie from your mother is eventually going to eat you up inside and your going to tell her and your going to be in more trouble then what you would have been if you would have just told her in the first place. She will quit nagging you, just tell her what your thinking.

You need to take a pregnancy test and find out if you are or not.



yea hold old are you?

also if you are pregnant are you going to keep it, abortion, or adoption?
You should already know these things I think, because if you chose to have sex then you should have talked it over and all these things that could happen if you have sex.

[*Kathleen*]

IT WAS A JOKE. LIGHTEN UP.
And Holly - dont' give me that "rude" bit. Need I remind you of you and your puerile boyfriend's bashing on Stefan's layout? I'm utterly not serious, unlike you guys in that thread.

[kokonut kookies]

yea hold old are you?

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im 16 right now i am just worried about fakeing my period to get my mom off my back im taking a pregnacy test tomorrow... and i dont know about that whole show my mother and article she nevers believes me i also worried about the fact that she might take me to see a gyno and that causes other porblems for now how can i fake my period in a conviencing way?

[dancingkait]

you can't really fake your period...as for the pork blood and cutting yourself?? don't! does she go through your trash or something? just talk to her, there must be a way for her understand

[femmefatale4160]

Cutting yourself? Pork blood? Are you serious? What is wrong with you?
Anyway, talk to your mother. And if you're not pregnant, then stop having sex. Then you won't have to worry about this anymore, will you?

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

Whoah.. ask one of your friends to bleed on a tampon and go up to your mom and be like " HEY MOM, I GOT IT! "

O_O Good luck.

[febek]

whoa. and ur mom keeps track?does she ask u like every start of the month.." did you have your period yet?"...

[AngelinaTaylor]

And Holly - dont' give me that "rude" bit. Need I remind you of you and your puerile boyfriend's bashing on Stefan's layout? I'm utterly not serious, unlike you guys in that thread.

Meh.. I didn't see anything wrong with your comment.

[we were infinite]

well if you go to your gyno. then she can't tell your mother anything its completely confidental.

don't fake your period you'll end up getting caught

[troublemaker36]

why cant u just tell her your on your period..? i doubt shes actually gunna check..at least i hope not..

[kokonut kookies]

well if you go to your gyno. then she can't tell your mother anything its completely confidental.

don't fake your period you'll end up getting caught

knowingmy mother she will make the gynoperson tell her and what do you mean get caught?
shes on my ass and i have to get her to back off and if i fake it now she'll back off i just don't know how ima pull it off

[troublemaker36]

knowingmy mother she will make the gynoperson tell her and what do you mean get caught?
shes on my ass and i have to get her to back off and if i fake it now she'll back off i just don't know how ima pull it off

they cant do that..everything is supposed to be private..but if ur mom knows theres something the doctor cant tell her thats gunna look even more suspicious

[lalalaLANUH]

whoa. and ur mom keeps track?does she ask u like every start of the month.." did you have your period yet?"...

Actually mine does. Maybe I should start doing my own trash...

I say come clean with your mother. If you ARE pregnant it'd be better for her to know. And if you've had irregular periods before maybe it would be best to see a gyno.

[clarity]

if one of your friends have their period right now, tell them to stay over and make sure they throw their pads in your garbage.

hmm or you could tell her the truth?
or you could say you never had sex.
but eventually she'd find out.
or if you are pregnant, she'll probably be even more on your back.

[*Kathleen*]

Whoah.. ask one of your friends to bleed on a tampon and go up to your mom and be like " HEY MOM, I GOT IT! "

O_O Good luck.

HAHA. That's my favorite post of the day. And uhm.. to the person that posted this.. sorry if anything that I've said in your thread actually offended you. I don't have real good advice since I have no knowledge or experience on pregnancy scares.

[*Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg*]

i don't even know what to say to this thread.
you're f**king rediculous.
tell your mother and stop being an idiot... you're 16 for crying out loud!
besides, you're the one who decided to have sex.

[kokonut kookies]

if i tell her she will kick me out of the house... do u think fake blood will work?

[tasha28]

You know you could just be late, stress, diet, and illness can make you late or even skip your period. It's pretty normal, happens to me all the time and I'm sixteen.

[kokonut kookies]

if im preg im gettin an abortion n since itll b less tan 9 weeks i kan take the pill my b/fn i have enuff money together.. now my period.... ugg im freakin out how kan i pull thisn off?

[marzipan]

I think you should just tell your mother the truth. She's going to find out eventually, if you're pregnant.

[sw33t_rouge]

wow. when i was 16 i had a month late periods you mom sounds paranoid. well i hear u can always eat lot's of fatty sdtuff...i heard that make's ur period come..

[*Azarel*]

Go to your pharmacy and get the morning after pill. It's supposed to start your menstrual cycle so that the egg is dislodged from your body, ensuring that it is not fertilized and shit, so if you take it, you'll get your period. My friend's abortion was a grand, so good freaking luck.

Now then, shut up and stop being stupid, k?

[oxbeautifultruth...]

Idk if this was mentioned..but stress can cause delayed peirods. Mine was later than I thought it was gonna be..but I also reminded myself I was pretty stressed out with things going on. It depends how long you've been on your period. I got my first one at 10 years old..so at 16..it wouldn't be normal for me to really have a screwy period..some girls though don't really get regulated...even after having their periods for a long time.
Also it could be switching cycles??

[*Kathleen*]

Idk if this was mentioned..but stress can cause delayed peirods.

Dude. It was about five posts up from yours. Reading is good.

You know you could just be late, stress, diet, and illness can make you late or even skip your period. It's pretty normal, happens to me all the time and I'm sixteen.

[oxbeautifultruth...]

Sorry. -.-

[*Kathleen*]

It's okay. I forgive pretty easily. I merely ask for a sacrifice of some sort.

[PrincessAda]

Well you can`t hide it for long.Mind as well let it out if you are pregnant.

[jenniiiii]

OH MY GOD. This is ridiculous. You seem awfully calm about the possibility that you are pregnant. Stop focusing on your period for 5 seconds. What will you do if you are pregnant? Get an abortion?

Just put tampon wrappers in the trash can for crying out loud. Your mother can't expect you to SHOW her the actual tampon, so it doesn't matter if you use fake blood or not.

put tampon wrappers in the bin!

where do you live?

[Joss-eh-lime]

haha i wish tat was conviencing but i was thinikin bout preparein a few pads wit pork bloodn not actully wearin them either tat or kut my self bt i mite pass out kus i need a lot of blood..... ahhhh help!?

um.. WHATT? does your mom check the trash for used pads?
you need to build a more trusting relationship with her.
cuz then you could just tell her you had sex. w/o all this nonsense.




and, its too late for this. but you obviuosly werent ready to have sex if you cant tell your mom, visit an OBGYN, or know if your skipped period is normal or not. Ive skipped periods before b/c of stress.

[*I Shot JFK*]

bumped so nicki can read it. and laugh

[*digital.fragrance*]

It's not actually that unusual... to have a late period. If you're doing lots of athletic events, not eating enough... But it's even normal to miss one occasionally - rarely.. but it's normal and it happens. I missed one when I was 15.

[*yrrnotelekktric*]

Go to sleep.