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 Aug 2 2006, 12:19 AM
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 LiLaZnGurL  Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072  |
is it me or is it when i meet some one new espessially if its a girl it is soo akward and have nothing to say to them, but if i meet a guy i am super outgoing and not shy around them at all is anyone like that too? i guess its girls hav more drama and gossip more.
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| *Kathleen* |
Aug 2 2006, 02:09 AM
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If that's how you are, don't change how you are due to the comparison of other girls. I think I'm pretty outgoing.
 No one's ever complained about it before.  Then again, I haven't had a boyfriend in over a year.
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Aug 2 2006, 02:13 AM
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 Hello My Name Is INSERT HERE Group: Member Posts: 1,372 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,903 |
i suck at talking to guys
i run out of stuff to say. and it depends on who the girl is really |
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Aug 2 2006, 12:36 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 721 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,101 |
I'm like that too. Girls are freaky.
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Aug 2 2006, 12:52 PM
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 i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
hmm well with girls i guess you talk about different things and guys you talk about the other. i guess i'm pretty good at talking to my girlfriends because i go to an all girl's school lol and i dont see guys much, i usually dont know what to say to them, other than my boyfriend of course lol
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Aug 2 2006, 01:17 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
For me, it doesn't really matter if it's a girl or a guy. It's going to be awkward unless we can find a subject that we can both talk about. That's the key, really, finding something you're both interested in.
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Aug 2 2006, 02:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
I don't see a difference, really.
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| *StanleyThePanda* |
Aug 2 2006, 02:46 PM
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Hmm.. I think Im the same meeting both genders, though I guess I do talk a little more to guys I first meet, but usually its the same
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Aug 2 2006, 02:48 PM
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 Peggy. Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025 |
Haha. That's so me.
Girls think I am guy, but guys think I am totally flirtatious (which I don't have the intention to flirt). |
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Aug 2 2006, 02:49 PM
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 fizzy and fun Group: Member Posts: 405 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,469 |
i get what you're saying. for me, it's awkward talking to girls who i just meet because in my opinion, girls are judgemental. i know that i'm judgemental.
with guys, you don't have to worry about what they're saying about you behind your back. |
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Aug 5 2006, 08:26 AM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
I suck at talking with guys... with girls it's easy. I don't know what to say to a guy in a normal conversation
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Aug 5 2006, 03:31 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i get along easier with guys then i do girls.
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Aug 5 2006, 04:29 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
I'm the same person when I meet new people, be it a guy or a girl. Except I don't flirt with the girl
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| *yrrnotelekktric* |
Aug 5 2006, 04:49 PM
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QUOTE(LiLaZnGirL122 @ Aug 1 2006, 9:19 PM)  is it me or is it when i meet some one new espessially if its a girl it is soo akward and have nothing to say to them, but if i meet a guy i am super outgoing and not shy around them at all is anyone like that too? i guess its girls hav more drama and gossip more. I am like you. WhenI meet new girls, I either like them or don`t. When I meet new guys, I`m totally not shy and completely outgoing. I think it has to do with girls just being girls. EIther you like them or not. 
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Aug 5 2006, 10:30 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Maybe you`re just relaxed around guys more.I guess you have more common things with them.Its normal,I know people like you.
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| *liquid.* |
Aug 6 2006, 03:06 AM
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I'll tell you something, If you're hot it shouldn't be a problem at all with the guy
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Aug 6 2006, 03:10 AM
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Aug 4 2007, 08:50 PM
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 forgive & forget Group: Member Posts: 176 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 551,100 |
well... me, i just don't know the real me..
haha.. coz at times i'm shy to anybody.. and then on the other day.. i'm super outgoing.. i really don't know..haha |
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Aug 4 2007, 09:10 PM
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 here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
hmm.. I'm the opposite but I have a friend whose very much like that.
Guys to me is easy to talk to since your not dealing with drama or like how ugly her outfit is. Guys actually talk to you. I have a guy friend and it's way easier because they are fun to talk about random stuff. Idk I understand what you are talking about.  Hey probably you are hott ;) (Don't worry I'm straight lol) |
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Aug 4 2007, 09:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,020 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,785 |
When Im talking to a cute guy I just met, I just kinda dont say anything and walk off.
Ya I know. Im stupid. |
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| *karmakiller* |
Aug 4 2007, 10:11 PM
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QUOTE(xcorphz @ Aug 4 2007, 08:50 PM) well... me, i just don't know the real me.. haha.. coz at times i'm shy to anybody.. and then on the other day.. i'm super outgoing.. i really don't know..haha Why do you keep bumping old topics? |
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| *Moderator* |
Aug 4 2007, 10:11 PM
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It depends on the vibe I get from them. If they're cool, I'll open up. if they're shy. I'm lost.
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Aug 4 2007, 10:46 PM
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 Communication breakdown. Group: Member Posts: 603 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,691 |
^^LOL!
Hm I'm a pretty outgoing, but if a person isn't into the conversation I just give up. It all depends on the person really. |
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Aug 5 2007, 01:02 AM
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 |[ V A L E E N ' ]| Group: Member Posts: 21 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 556,055 |
i am great when it comes to conversations.
infact,,i talk alot!  MOST TALKATiVE!
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Aug 5 2007, 01:33 AM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
eh, i'm kind of like that.
with guys, we can both just go on and on and on. haha, or if it's a more quiet sort, it's kinda like... hi, my name's ruth. hi, my name's kevin. DEEP CONVERSATIONS + THOUGHTFUL PAUSES and with girls that are.. typical girls who like talking, it's like. hi, my name's -. so what's up? and it's either like... whoosh explain all the ongoing drama, or just general generic get to know you stuff.. talk about parents, siblings, pets, schools, goals, hobbies, music, whatever. it's all cheese :) ; damn fps! |
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Aug 5 2007, 10:41 AM
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 BABESTARR Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,634 |
to me its the same a lil.
cause i can talk to a guy about anything they want to talk about. cars, girls, food, places..whatever.. but when i'm around girls...its like what to talk about? cause i dont like to talk to a girl about my secrets and gossip if i just met her, its takes a long while for that to happen. strange how i'm at ease when talking to guys...but uncomfortable around girls. |
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