I searched this forum for an insightful topic. Options

[alienshards]

I searched this forum for an insightful topic. One that had meaning. I came up blank. Therefore I take it upon myself to perhaps inject some ammount of thought into your minds.

I ask: What would you do for a girl you loved?

Now, think carefully. This is not a girl you casually said you loved in order to have sex with on prom night. This is a girl you truely love. Those of you who have not yet experienced love, please use your imagination.

I do not want answers, as they will most certainly be such bollocks as, "I would die for her".

Put some thought into it, that is all I ask. Answers will not come easily, and should not. They will, however, serve to keep this topic in your minds, so please do reply if you read this. It would be a nice guesture.

[*Kathleen*]

I'm sorry, but if you searched for an insightful topic and found none, what kind of replies are you expecting?

[alienshards]

None. I merely wish to provoke thought.

[Ington]

I think you're preaching to the wrong audience.

[AngryBaby]

hasnt this topic been done before?

[alienshards]

It is quite useless to preach to the devout.

This topic may have been done before, but I doubt it was done in a serious sense. The answers probably entail "I would die for her" half the time and "nothing screw her" the other half.

[marzipan]

maybe you should read the rules of createblog. if there's a duplicate topic (and evan, i didn't find one), post your opinions there. even if you think your opinion may be superior to ours. ;)

[alienshards]

I apoligize. I do not intend to make my opinion seem superior. I do believe well thought out answers are better than simple, quick answers, but merely when compared with those of the same person.

This topic does seem the type that would have already been asked. If it has, I again apoligize. However, I do request that this topic remain, as I am not asking for specific answers per say, but rather contemplation. If you would be so kind.

[dispn0ygonekrazy]

hmmm well how about you answer this..to the girl I loved. I did everything you can think of doing..I sacrificed my time to be with her.. I turned down some of my friends to be with her..I got into useless fights to be with her..I did whatever she said to be with her..I've stayed up everynight to be with her..I've waited untill she sleeps..so I can sleep..Ive faked enough smiles..just for her sake..Ive cried enough tears..just to feel her pain..I've suffered enough to be with her..and in the end what does it take to be with someone you love..

so what kind of answer are you looking for..be specific with your question.."what would you do for a girl you loved?" its almost like saying what would do for a cookie..if your desperate sure what the hell not..ya dig?

[demolished]

I apoligize. I do not intend to make my opinion seem superior. I do believe well thought out answers are better than simple, quick answers, but merely when compared with those of the same person.

This topic does seem the type that would have already been asked. If it has, I again apoligize. However, I do request that this topic remain, as I am not asking for specific answers per say, but rather contemplation. If you would be so kind.

You're scaring me.

how old are you?

[*Uronacid*]

I wud die for her

[alienshards]

My age is inconsequential. Suffice it to say that age is just another label. Dispn0ygonekrazy, the purpose of this topic is for you to think. Think for yourself, what would you do for a girl you loved?

Imagine senarios. For instance, if she needed a kidney, would you give it? Or, perhaps, a harder one: if she needed you to go away and never see her again, would you do it?

[*mona lisa*]

Guys... just stop picking on him... or her. Answer the question if you have something useful to contribute.

[*Kathleen*]

hmmm well how about you answer this..to the girl I loved. I did everything you can think of doing..I sacrificed my time to be with her.. I turned down some of my friends to be with her..I got into useless fights to be with her..I did whatever she said to be with her..I've stayed up everynight to be with her..I've waited untill she sleeps..so I can sleep..Ive faked enough smiles..just for her sake..Ive cried enough tears..just to feel her pain..I've suffered enough to be with her..and in the end what does it take to be with someone you love..

so what kind of answer are you looking for..be specific with your question.."what would you do for a girl you loved?" its almost like saying what would do for a cookie..if your desperate sure what the hell not..ya dig?

You're a dude? And 'Guy Fawkes' - your age is actually pretty consequential. I hope you realize the average age group around here ranges from 10 year-olds to early twenties. You're not going to squeeze many enlightening thoughts and posts here from us. Why should we spill our thoughts to you when we know squat about you.

[alienshards]

To paraphrase, they will rise to your expectations. As for my age, I shall enlighten you some. I am not ten, nor am I twenty, but somewhere in between. Shall this satisfy?

I do not require you to spill your thoughts: merely to have them. Post what answers you may here. You do not need to post the inner workings of your heart. But do try to glimpse them for yourself.

[AngryBaby]

since you seem to wanna act intelligent, you should be intelligent enough to know not to judge a forum that you've been on for only a few days.

also i thought this was gonna be a deep topic the way you were talking, but its actually not =/ just a relationships topic.
the topics in debate have more intelligent discussion than this would ever bring. sorry.

[alienshards]

I am not judging the entire section, only the one titled "Boys' Locker". I render this judgement because I went through five pages in search of a semi-meaningful topic.

This topic is not meant to stimulate meaningful discussion. It is meant to stimulate meaningful thought, which would not be reflected in this topic, unfortunately.

[*Kathleen*]

To paraphrase, they will rise to your expectations. As for my age, I shall enlighten you some. I am not ten, nor am I twenty, but somewhere in between. Shall this satisfy?

I do not require you to spill your thoughts: merely to have them. Post what answers you may here. You do not need to post the inner workings of your heart. But do try to glimpse them for yourself.

You want my thoughts? WELL YOU CAN'T HAVE 'EM.

[dispn0ygonekrazy]

You're a dude? And 'Guy Fawkes' - your age is actually pretty consequential. I hope you realize the average age group around here ranges from 10 year-olds to early twenties. You're not going to squeeze many enlightening thoughts and posts here from us. Why should we spill our thoughts to you when we know squat about you.

haha If you were truly a FLIP!! you would've have noticed the PNOY in my name gyea ima dude...do I really talk like a girl?

[*Kathleen*]

haha If you were truly a FLIP!! you would've have noticed the PNOY in my name gyea ima dude...do I really talk like a girl?

It didn't really register. Sorry. But no I don't know why I thought that.. Sorry!

[dispn0ygonekrazy]

well GUY_FAWKES ... you want people to think beyond common answers?
well....I mean surely enough people here aren't that stupid..and I dont think you are neither..so to say "What would do for a girl you loved" its either your looking for answer you might have not thought yourself..or you must be really bored and throwing random topics XD I dont know where that came from..but anyways..I think most of us guys here would do alot for a girl we cherish..so to answer your question

"What if she told you to go away and never see her again,would you do it?"

Nope, cuz you know why I'd love her too much to be outkasted in some DESSERTED ISLAND..all by myself and what not..but then you might ask..what if she threaten to kill herself if you dont do as she wishes....then my answer is .. she's one dumb F**K lol..

[yoshi71089]

I would do as much as I could to keep her from feeling pain, sadness, or regret, because that is one of the duties of a male in a relationship. If she asked me to go away, I would, just because she asked. I would do anything short of killing myself or others for no reason. I would fling myself in front of a car to save her, or kill a man if she was attacked.

[dispn0ygonekrazy]

I would do as much as I could to keep her from feeling pain, sadness, or regret, because that is one of the duties of a male in a relationship. If she asked me to go away, I would, just because she asked. I would do anything short of killing myself or others for no reason. I would fling myself in front of a car to save her, or kill a man if she was attacked.

You would go so far to do those things? Because it's the duties in a male Relationship?? don't get me wrong but your answers sound like your the B**** in the relationship and she controls you and to act without reason so if she told you to F*** a Goat and have babies would you do it? there should at least be some equal value of happiness amongst both Persons..

srry...when I read something that seems to disagree with me I tend to throw in my Opinions..No hard feelings..bro..so dont hate me..

[vn_cuti3]

I'm sorry, but if you searched for an insightful topic and found none, what kind of replies are you expecting?

sorry but that makes me laugh i know i'm weird

[ima_fake_]

You would go so far to do those things? Because it's the duties in a male Relationship?? don't get me wrong but your answers sound like your the B**** in the relationship and she controls you and to act without reason so if she told you to F*** a Goat and have babies would you do it? there should at least be some equal value of happiness amongst both Persons..

srry...when I read something that seems to disagree with me I tend to throw in my Opinions..No hard feelings..bro..so dont hate me..

if you really loved someone you would do anything for them cuz when you love someone you care more about them than anyone else. he doesnt sound like the "b****" in the relationship he just sounds like if he really loved someone he knows that he would do anything to keep that person happy... its not like ur spoliing her becuase most people dont have to jump in front of cars everyday to save the person they love but hes just saying if it had to be done he would do it in a heartbeat becuase he loves her. stupid things like fukcing a goat... yah most g/f wouldnt actually (unless there kidding around) ask there b/f to do that? i mean theres no point to that... it wouldnt do anything for the girl... unless shes fcking weird... but newyas oo and the "equal value of happiness amongst both Persons.." well then if the girl really loves him the same as he loves her then she would say the same things... she would jump in front of a car to save him as much as he wouldnt want her to do that... just my opinon too...

[femmefatale4160]

I think that in order for this question to be properly answered, those answering it would have had to experience true love. I tried to think this through, but my answer remains: I don't know. Anything doesn't seem like enough. I would want to do EVERYTHING in my power to show my undying affection.

For a guy, of course.

[dispn0ygonekrazy]

if you really loved someone you would do anything for them cuz when you love someone you care more about them than anyone else. he doesnt sound like the "b****" in the relationship he just sounds like if he really loved someone he knows that he would do anything to keep that person happy... its not like ur spoliing her becuase most people dont have to jump in front of cars everyday to save the person they love but hes just saying if it had to be done he would do it in a heartbeat becuase he loves her. stupid things like fukcing a goat... yah most g/f wouldnt actually (unless there kidding around) ask there b/f to do that? i mean theres no point to that... it wouldnt do anything for the girl... unless shes fcking weird... but newyas oo and the "equal value of happiness amongst both Persons.." well then if the girl really loves him the same as he loves her then she would say the same things... she would jump in front of a car to save him as much as he wouldnt want her to do that... just my opinon too...

naw your right doode I kinda lost my mind there cuz well, I've been having girl problems so I started doubting myself and the question being told, yoshi doode sorry if I offended you man .. No hard feelings..Ima_fake Good points after reading what you wrote it kinda set my mind back to where it should be you rock doode

[ima_fake_]

naw your right doode I kinda lost my mind there cuz well, I've been having girl problems so I started doubting myself and the question being told, yoshi doode sorry if I offended you man .. No hard feelings..Ima_fake Good points after reading what you wrote it kinda set my mind back to where it should be you rock doode

yahh ik

lol jk thanks

[*Uronacid*]

You can't explain what you would do if you loved someone there are so many senarios in witch you could show love here I'll name a few in witch I showed love:

*I am reffeing to specific people in these statments, but over the course of 4 relationships*

-I bought her cloths becuase she was poor and couldn't afford to purchase new cloths on her own...
-I made her a card, and it took me four hours
-I listened to things that made me breakinside
-I made sure I said good night every day even if she didn't hear me
-I listened to her and laughed at her funny jokes and antics
-I stuck by her even when she was the most embarrassing thing in the world
-I hugged her when she was sad
-I let her know that I care
-I told her how I felt
-I told her what I was scared of...
-I cried becuase I missed her so much
-I didn't have sex with her... even though she wanted to have sex with me
-I spent time with her
-I looked at all the little things she did, and wanted to understand why she did them...
-I made effort to understand her
-I shared with her my deepest thoughts
-I told her my dreams
-I told her when I did something stupid
-I let her love me back
-I loved her
-I love her
-I wrote her poems to make her feel better
-I appologized when I made mistakes
-I forgave her when she made mistakes


This is me... things that I have done...

[dispn0ygonekrazy]

OOOHHH Guy Fawkes made a spelling error!! he said imagine senarios <<< thats not how you spell it!! it's spelled scenarios you forgot the "C" and I was starting to believe guy fawkes can have no errors in his spelling yay!!

[alienshards]

Ahh yes. So it is an error. Do not fear, it shall not happen again.

[*mipadi*]

Questions are easy to ask. True answers are hard to give. But one does not learn by asking questions without giving and receiving answers.

[*Kathleen*]

Ahh yes. So it is an error. Do not fear, it shall not happen again.

He spelled "intelligent" incorrectly in his Introductions thread.

Yes, Holly, I am afraid I do not seem very open. But maybe it is because you are asking the wrong questions. I am sorry if it sounds like I am trying to appear intellegent. However, I do not think I shall be changing the way I write anytime soon.

femme_fatale4160, most likely it is what is highly unusual about me that intrigues you.

[alienshards]

Certainly. However, I do not intend to learn from this topic. I have asked myself this question and answered it myself, and have thus learned something about myself. It is my hopes others shall do the same.

[femmefatale4160]

So what is your answer?

[alienshards]

I suppose I do make mistakes. I shall try not to make anymore in the future.

As for my answer. I suppose it depends on the conditions. For instance, does she love me back? I suppose would trade my life for her's, but it would be because I would not be able to live without her, if she were someone I really loved. I would reject her, curse her, and drive her away if I believed it the best for her. I would leave her, no matter what pain it may cause, if it helped her.

That is the best I can tell you. The rest is an indescribable feeling.

[dispn0ygonekrazy]

well I guess I'll answer your question with a serious one since I've grown to like your personality a bit

Well me Im a believer, I hope, I dream, and I wish. As for me, I don't think I'd care for the circumstance of the situation. In everyway I can help her, to relieve her pain, and to stop the tears I'd do all I can. Even if I need to sacrifice a life for her to live, I'd sacrifice. Even if she needed a part of my organs for her to survive, I'll give it to her not because I love her, it's because I know instinctively it's the right thing to do. Though I may be scared at times that I may end up losing her. I wouldn't think any less of her because I know she keeps me strong. I wouldn't need to keep fighting on for her because theres not 1 in the relationship it's both of us, instead of me holding everything on my shoulders, she would be there to support me, I wouldn't need to ask myself what needs to be done for someone you love, her enough is alone to tell me that I shouldn't doubt the love that ties the bond between us, but as I said I know it instinctively.