So there's this guy.., eeck. Options

[OhMyAnniee]

so there's this guy and me&him are really close. like, we're best friends. and the thing is, i don't really like him and he has a girlfriend. but everytime me&him and other people are hanging out, they always think that we're a couple when we're not. people always tell us that we cute but we're just best friends. so what should i do to make people not think these things? because if i go into detail about our friendship, people seem to think that i like him when i don't!

[cassjamminx]

hmm.. just think about how it is that you act around him, because obviously people are getting the wrong idea. it's probably not anything you're doing, it's just them. tell them they're taking things the wrong way. or if it really does look like you guys are a couple (by whatever you're doing) tame it down a notch to best friend level.

[*This Confession*]

well, I know how you feel
For 3 years i had the same thing happen,

There was this guy named Justin and we hanged out constantly in 7th grade, and in 6th grade we only had band so we use to walk with each other and talk. And then in 7th grade we had homeroom, band, science, lunch. etc. together. And we were always by each other. Everyday in 7th grade we got asked if we were going out or if we were brother or sister. And then if we said no to the going out, these people would freak out and go on and on about how we should be together and how cute we are and so on so on.

lol me and him use to just laugh about it pretty much, we use to joke around. I pushed him in to the girls bathroom and all kinds of stuff. Oh how i miss him. </3

But like a ton of other girls liked him so yea..
He didn't have a girlfriend like your friend has..

So i can't really tell you what to do. If its the same person then just tell them to quit it. because its rude if they know he has a girlfriend and then them go on about it. Your not doing anything wrong though, as long as your being yourself, don't worry about how your acting. Make sure you tell them the truth, or they'll be confused and think what they want.

[vn_cuti3]

o.m.g this is the same exact thing that happen to my friend well wat she did is tell the peepz straight foward that there's only a friendship thing btween them n nothing more

[*Uronacid*]

I know how you feel too... I sleep over my friend graces house all the time... people think we are a couple and shit, btu we aren't... not even close... we haven't kissed in... um, lets see... about 5 years (she was my ex)... but people still think we are together. I basically tell people that we aren't.... i don't know, it's not really annoying any more. I have gotten used to people doing it, and I just don't care....

[*baby_in_blue*]

or simply try not to be around him
as often around people. i know he`s your
best friend and all and its hard, but it seems
like you guys go everywhere with eachother.

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

wellll i would suggest to tone it down a bit so your friends dont have to think that you guys might be a couple. i mean to be friends with a guy you dont have to be like soooo close to them you can be like cool friends i have been friends with this dude for like 6 years and nobody has ever said anything about us going out because we dont do anything that gives people the wrong idea.you can ask your friends why they would think you two were a couple maybe they can see something that seems suspicious and you see at as innocent fun. if in the end you think they are just wrong jus ignore them. =]

[PrincessAda]

Uhh..well he is sort of your best friend and he is taken..so when people say you guys make a cute couple..tell him he already has a girlfriend and you guys are just friends.

[spongebobs1nonly]

u are in denial , you know u like this guy theres a perfectly good reason why people think u 2 are together. and who gives a shit wat other people think bout

[AzNxBaBi]

Maybe give a different view of things? Like hey he's your bestfriend who cares, it's if his GF comes up to you and say that then you have nothing to worry about. & if you stand by your words not likeing him then do the things you do. There isn't really a way to make people stop thinking the way they do. People are born to be nosey and if you two stop hanging out together well they`ll jsut keep asking why :) so what i'm saying is IGNORE THE WORLD if you still want to be friends.

[blacknailpolish]

Who cares if you have to keep reminding people that you guys are best friends only and dont want to go out. You either suck it up or you stop hanging out with him so much. If he's your best friend, I figure you'll want to hang out with him, right?

[mytangerine]

in friendships, you are attracted to that person in some way whether you like it or not. that's just the way it is, guy friends or girl friends. you don't have to deny it.