MY life sucks Options

[AimeeLynn]

SRY ITS SOO LONG =//// im 15 years old
ok... summer vacation for me one of the favorites of friends && family. Going to the beach && all...

yep not me... this sucks, i feel i am so limited to going anywhere... i mean ANYWHERE. i am middle child of three. I am the goody-goody, i get good grades, im known in my school as the quiet girl who is smart. yay! not... my parents dont let me go anywhere w/o my family. and i look gay cuz i c 10 year olds in the mall w/ there friends... and me tagging along w/ my WHOLE family.

my sister goes out w/ her friends but gets lousy grades, my brother who is 6 goes out more than me... i ASK for freedom since [i believe] i deserve it, but i dont. all my friends [i beileve] dont talk to me over the summer because i have to always say" no i cant go".i go to a PRIVATE school that EVERYONE is rich && popular and some like me isnt
^^^^^^^^^
basically i feel:
1. i got no real friends
2. no freedom/trapped
3. depressed
4. etc..
i had to let this out and ask for help

:sad:do u think im overacting??
what should i do??

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

Hmm.. This sounds like me.

haha

Um.. Think of all that you do have not all that you dont.
It helps with the depression!

[LiSFORLiNDA]

Awww its okay :]
Well how old are you? -
Maybe your over reacting a little but then again i feel you, because thats how my parents were with me going out places..like they have to know where i am going ,who im with what time im comming back & blah..but now ther okay with it..but its kinda hard cuz i have older friends, like im more friends with highschoolers then middle schoolers [im in 8th] i have to lie to my parents about my friends because all of them have cars & my mom will be all there guys they might try soemthing on you & bleh. But your parents are just maybe worried about you ? they dont want nothing to happen ya know. Just talk to them tell them , mom can i go to the mall with a couple of friends...name everyone say what school they go to & what time ya'll are going & time ya'll are leaving. Give them all the information, so they have nothing to be worried about. i hope this help? :)

[_sarcastic_]

tell your parents how you're feeling right now
i agree with stfulinda, tell them everything they want to hear/know like where you'd be and when you'll be back and who you're going to be with. i'm sure they'll have no problems letting you go out

[*Uronacid*]

Yeah, the best you can do is tell your parents how you are feeling... I know how you feel tho... You see all those kids hanging out outside of school and it makes you freaking nuts...

[fall3n_s0ul]

you gotta talk to someone ya know? it's not good keeping it all to yourself. someday, everything will explode right out and you'll breakdown. parents who send there child to private schools just wants them to turn out good. your not over reacting, its okay to feel that way once in awhile. if you have aim or anything. you talk to me if you don't mind chatting with strangers. i know how you feel, believe me.

[*krnxswat*]

All I know is that your grammar sucks ass.

[*Uronacid*]

Instead of just saying your life sucks you should really be thankful for all that you have... I know that seems hard becuase you seem jealous of all the kids that go out and do things, but you really have to realize that you have alot. You are only 15, and you have your whole life ahead of you. Next year I suggest you try to get a job somewhere and save money for a car. As soon as you turn 18 you will be completely free, and you can just drive off.

[OhMyAnniee]

no offense to your siblings but maybe your parents don't want you to be like them. maybe they're so proud of you that they don't want to risk all of it. as for your no " real " friends, you may not notice it but you probably do have real friends. i would make a list of all the people you talk to and then narrow it down to 1 or 2 people that you really care about. and then i would talk to them and tell them about how you feel. if it helps, talk to them on AIM or myspace, it doesn't put alot of pressure on you. you should start off with small things for the freedom. like, go running around your neighborhood or something. small things that won't worry them too much! hope you feel better!

[GreatBigBallsOfF...]

CUT YOUR FUCKEN RISTS AND GET OVER IT!

REMEMEBER CUT HARD!

[*Freaky Krazer*]

goody goodies usually don't get the freedom they ask for. Mostly because the parents would think you're the anti-social one.

[GreatBigBallsOfF...]

goody goodies usually don't get the freedom they ask for. Mostly because the parents would think you're the anti-social one.

agreed.

[AimeeLynn]

All I know is that your grammar sucks ass.

yep, i know

goody goodies usually don't get the freedom they ask for. Mostly because the parents would think you're the anti-social one.

yep i know that

[xCrys]

I agree w/what Josh said, ... in both comments.

Just talk it out with your mom and dad... Seriously, sit them down, and explain how you feel, don't throw a fit or anything, just explain to them you feel like a prisoner in your own family, that it depresses you that you can't hang out with your friends, talk about your good grades, explain that you just want a teensy bit of freedom, etc.

The mall thing, don't get embarrassed! I go with my mom all the time, and I'm 17.. (18 in a few weeks) I love going with her, we get laughs out of silly things. She'd let me go alone of course, but I'd rather not.

You just have to make a stand to your parents. I did that years ago, thats why I have the freedom that I do. My mom trusts me because I've proved I'm trustworthy..

Do your parents not approve of your friends for some reason? Have them explain why you can't go anywhere.

Just really, talk it over.

[AimeeLynn]

I agree w/what Josh said, ... in both comments.

Do your parents not approve of your friends for some reason? Have them explain why you can't go anywhere.

yea they said i have bad taste in friends, they are "different" then me

[*This Confession*]

^i get the same thing.

I'm the middle child, was just the youngest. But I don't really go anywhere. Outside of public school I didn't hang out with anyone from the school. I don't really have any real friends. That actually live here. They end up finding some new crowd and well I don't see them anymore. And talk to them out of blue moon, or well until school started again, although i got taken out of public school and ended up being homeschooled
So wooo no friends. haha. Oh i'm 15 as well


I don't go to the mall with friends. I always go with the family..
Thats just how it always is, but i wouldn't be embarresed about it. Be happy you have your family by you. Some kids their parents could care less about them and just let them go off like that.

When i start being homeschooled I went through this complete depression. But for other reasons, and then not having anyone to talk to.

But Be happy you have a life. And that you get to expierence so many things. life goes on and you'll do more things when you get older. And when your 18 you can just leave and go somewhere that you've always wanted to go. Even when your 16 you'll recieve more freedom, and if you don't

Talk to your parents

Thats the only way their going to understand. If you don't talk to them about how you feel and such like you've told us then their never going to get it.

CUT YOUR FUCKEN RISTS AND GET OVER IT!

REMEMEBER CUT HARD!

yea thats called stupidity.

don't try it.

[crazeegirl411]

If it means it's harder for you to earn your freedom, it means you will probably have more freedom when you are legal. Maybe have join some school clubs or activities. That way you can do some stuff after school with your friends and you would have a reason.

[xforgottenlove]

hmm that sounds EXACTLY like my life. like i've lost contact with soo many people cuhz they don't invite me to go anywhere anymore JUST BECAUSE they that i probably won't be able to go ]:

well i guess the only thing to do is to talk to your parents. and let them meet your friends. if they know who your friends are, they might actually let you go out with them. mann if only MY parents would actually agree to meet with MY friends x__x

[vn_cuti3]

CUT YOUR FUCKEN RISTS AND GET OVER IT!

REMEMEBER CUT HARD!

lol cutting isn't the answer

[Mr. Slowjamz]

being the middle child sucks ... i definitely feel you girl....

[*baby_in_blue*]

this sound like me too. but since im a senior in highschool, my parents have to give me my freedom. or..i`ll throw a bitch fit. haha. but you should really just one day tell your parents that you are going out to the movies(when you`re really not) with a friend and then, knowing that they`ll say no, just keep quiet and act sad and say that you wouldnt want to let the "person" think of you as a flake. just have courage. if this didnt make sense..then iono.

[*Freaky Krazer*]

You know, seeking an online forum for help doesn't do anything, neither does ranting about it.

I think it would be best if you solve this yourself without having to go back here at all.. unless you're bored then you can have fun with us.

In my opinion, it's better to want real friends than to hate them. That's my case right now.

[xCrys]

^ Hey, everyone needs to rant to someone sometimes. I didn't and I just exploaded, and did the thing Hollz called stupidity... But that was when I was 16.

As I never said earlier, tell your parents to shove it! The older you get, the different crowds you're going to hang out with.

You have to grow up sometime, and being a part of a different crowd is part of growing up, considering in the outside world: people won't act the way you want them to.

As everyone else has stated (and me) talk to your parents.

I hope things get better for you soon.

[Joss-eh-lime]

wow i feel like that alot. not with that exact situation but still..limited freedom.

i think you have to talk to your parents and point out that you are responsible enough to go places without them.

[Chad_man]

That sucks, I don't know how you feal since i've always been popular
But I do know if you where me I would say f**k my parents and go hang with my freinds.

btw-even tho im popular i still get good grades :P

[parallel]

CUT YOUR FUCKEN RISTS AND GET OVER IT!

REMEMEBER CUT HARD!

You spelled "wrists" wrong dear.


Oh and, what school do you go to?

[femmefatale4160]

I don't think you're overreacting at all. That is really unfair, and you need to find a calm way of explaining your case to your parents.

[PrincessAda]

I think you should go out more.Going out doesn`t make your grades fall apart..well if you go out too much or cut school.Maybe you should hang out with your friends more during the weekends..you`ll develop better relationships.

[AimeeLynn]

You spelled "wrists" wrong dear.
Oh and, what school do you go to?

Lasalle Academy

[Joss-eh-lime]

That sucks, I don't know how you feal since i've always been popular
But I do know if you where me I would say f**k my parents and go hang with my freinds.

btw-even tho im popular i still get good grades :P

wow isnt that just great. im sure she feels a whole lot better now..

but really, you cant always control whats going on around you, so you just have to focus on the positive things about your life...

[me1issaaaa]

Your best bet is to be more social during school, make more friends of ALL different types, that way your parents won't be so picky because if they don't like a certain person or small group, you have plenty others to choose from. It's been proven that you are influenced and act like the people you hang out with, no matter how much you try and deny it, they will always affect your personality. Just try and find better people who are good friends. I don't know if that makes sense, but hopefully you know where I'm going with this.

Oh, and Chad_man, I most sincerely hope that you're not as big of a dumbass in real life as you appear to be.

[BrokenDream]

All I know is that your grammar sucks ass.

We'd all (especially the author of this post) apperciate it if you'd just help the girl, and not post a random, rude comment about her. Thanks.

That sucks, I don't know how you feal since i've always been popular
But I do know if you where me I would say f**k my parents and go hang with my freinds.

btw-even tho im popular i still get good grades :P

Wow. I agree with Melissa (xoxo_koala_kisses). I hope you aren't a dumbass as well. That doesn't really make her feel better. Besides, this isn't about you it's about her. Alright?

CUT YOUR FUCKEN RISTS AND GET OVER IT!

REMEMEBER CUT HARD!

Cutting won't help. It'll make things worse. She wants to make things better. Obvious?

Anyways, sorry.. all these people are just spamming the whole situation. Just talk to your parents. Let them know how you feel. Be more social in school, make friends of all types. Just like Melissa said .

[xCrys]

Have you talked to your parents yet?

Update us on the subject

[AimeeLynn]

i did and they let me but then my friend canceled the "get together" in the last moment... i made me upset... i feel like crap. When i had my hopes up it got shattered. feels like everyone hates me.

[AzNxBaBi]

You're sorta like telling my lfie except the whole rich private school thing lol. I go to the mall with my parents too, how sad and pathetic are we? But i mean there isn't really much we can say, except lie to ourselves and say they're doing this for our best interest. God do i hate my parents too haha! But they give me msot of the thigns i want, i go out with my friends like once in a long while. Just tell them a few friends and let them see who your friends are? I mean parents judge who you hang out with :) but im' sure thigns will change You ARE getting older so they`ll see how responsible you are but sure don't let them take it as and advantage to protect you because you are the good child :D I'm the odlest and my life is UGH. enough said hoep that helps? :O

[ecstasy313]

How do you manage to get good grades with your grammar? You "got" no friends. Well really, maybe that's because you complain to much. Suck it up. It's not a big deal to achieve something with your academic career and it's not a big deal to go to the mall with your family. Be happy that you have a family that wants to be around you. I'm sure you're not trapped -- you're probably making it out to be far worse than it actually is. So you're brainy, your friends probably are too and maybe -- just maybe -- the reason that they can't hang out with you actually is because they're busy. Maybe they can't devote time towards you because they're busy having a life.

Stop complaining. I don't understand why people care to cheer you up.

[AimeeLynn]

How do you manage to get good grades with your grammar? You "got" no friends. Well really, maybe that's because you complain to much. Suck it up. It's not a big deal to achieve something with your academic career and it's not a big deal to go to the mall with your family. Be happy that you have a family that wants to be around you. I'm sure you're not trapped -- you're probably making it out to be far worse than it actually is. So you're brainy, your friends probably are too and maybe -- just maybe -- the reason that they can't hang out with you actually is because they're busy. Maybe they can't devote time towards you because they're busy having a life.

Stop complaining. I don't understand why people care to cheer you up.

ok... yep i know they are busy and I HAVE BEEN "SUCKING IT UP" ok. for all you judge me is by this. YOU DON'T KNOW ME && YOU DONT KNOW MY LIFE, and yes i do keep good grades even though it seem MY SPELLING IS OFF. i didn't know i had to spell check in forums, so sorry for asking ADVICE!.

[*Uronacid*]

um.... so this topic is done?

How do you manage to get good grades with your grammar? You "got" no friends. Well really, maybe that's because you complain to much. Suck it up. It's not a big deal to achieve something with your academic career and it's not a big deal to go to the mall with your family. Be happy that you have a family that wants to be around you. I'm sure you're not trapped -- you're probably making it out to be far worse than it actually is. So you're brainy, your friends probably are too and maybe -- just maybe -- the reason that they can't hang out with you actually is because they're busy. Maybe they can't devote time towards you because they're busy having a life.

Stop complaining. I don't understand why people care to cheer you up.

Your alias doesn't match the way you treat people...

[Mikael]

Child of mine. Remember, 15 is not the end. When you go off to college, remember these days, and enjoy yourself emmensly. Don't go to far though. For now, dont be ashamed that you walk with your family in the mall. They love you. Act like you enjoy it. If your friends ask why youre walking with your parents, you say "Cause I f* love my folks, motha f*, and they love me, b*. Wheres your mom now huh, wheres your mom now? jail, what what?" No, dont say that. But thats what i want you to keep in mind. don't be ashamed of your parents. you only have 3 years left! You won't see them a lot when you leave for college. i'm telling you...

For now, get the good grades, and laugh at everyone while youre getting looked at by corporations and companies, and everyone else is struggling to get a job at the mall. I've seen it happen. Everytime I go home to see my parents. Yep, the 'gangstas' from school, and their gangsta jobs.. yeah.

[Aerjae]

Well, first just remember, there's always people i the world who have it worst. Forget about friends!! Just stick to school and manage to be top of the class. As for your family, just pray about it. This sounds a whole lot like me... except for the fact that I have good grades. I thought that my parents had adopted me but they didn't, we just have nothing in common.

[brimfulothe]

Your Life Doenst f**king SUCK!
You dont always have people calling you anorexic just cause your skinny
I am moving 100 miles away from all my friends all because of my moms boyfriend
After my parents got divorced my dad got remarried and is getting a divorce after 3 months!
I have 4 dieseases that casue me to be so skinny
-Acid Reflux Disease

-Hynal Hernia

-Esophagitis

-And some weird shit i cant pronounce

My esophagitis causes my esophagus to stay open

(the esophagus is supposed to close in order to keep the acid from the stomach out of it)

But my esophagus doesnt close...and to make things worse...i have acid reflux diesease

(which means your stomach produces to much acid)

SOOO...acid from my stomach comes up through my esophagus eroding the sides of my esophagus

A hynal hernia is a growth and the end of your esophagus which makes u sick when u eat

and the stuff i cant pronounce is not like anorexia or bulimia but is the reason im so thin

in conclusion...im f**ked up by chance and now im paying the price for something i dont deserve too

so do me a favor stop complaining you are all beautiful and healthy and at least you dont have to take medicine in order to eat right

at least you can wear clothes without sewing them first









My mom pretty much hates me and does what ever she can to ruin my life
We fight everyday before she goes to work and when she comes home
Theres alot more but i dont want to write it
So next time you think your life f**king sucks
think again