two gurls n 1 guy, me n her has the same crush |
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 Jul 22 2006, 12:15 AM
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 live + laugh = life [[you don't need love]]  Group: Member Posts: 191 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 441,854  |
okie....me n my best friend has this huge crush on this guy [we have the same taste] n she always flirt wit him in front of me n it gets annoying everytime she does it. Every single time she knos that i would get really mad n she would apologizes but then she does the same thing over again. but then again she NEVER admits that shes crushing on him but it's soooooo obvious. Either she likes him or i think that she jus want to rub it in my face n proof to me that she can throw herself at any guy n flirt wit him [long story short>>>i told her she's too shy round guys]. wat do u think???? n wat should i do???
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Jul 22 2006, 12:37 AM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
I would talk it out..I would be like do you like him? and if she does,the responsible way would to either agree to give up on the guy or just ask the guy who he likes.
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Jul 22 2006, 07:58 PM
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live + laugh = life [[you don't need love]] Group: Member Posts: 191 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 441,854 |
ya tried talkin to her but she denies EVERYTHING
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Jul 22 2006, 08:49 PM
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 i can`t suck it! ]: Group: Member Posts: 108 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 441,336 |
QUOTE(xbabyboo @ Jul 21 2006, 10:37 PM)  I would talk it out..I would be like do you like him? and if she does,the responsible way would to either agree to give up on the guy or just ask the guy who he likes. I agree. If she's denying it then just go for it. And if she gets mad at you if you end up with him, it's her fault because she said she didn't like him. |
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Jul 22 2006, 09:25 PM
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 lackadaisical Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,463 |
QUOTE(vn cuti3 @ Jul 22 2006, 1:15 AM) okie....me n my best friend has this huge crush on this guy [we have the same taste] n she always flirt wit him in front of me n it gets annoying everytime she does it. Every single time she knos that i would get really mad n she would apologizes but then she does the same thing over again. but then again she NEVER admits that shes crushing on him but it's soooooo obvious. Either she likes him or i think that she jus want to rub it in my face n proof to me that she can throw herself at any guy n flirt wit him [long story short>>>i told her she's too shy round guys]. wat do u think???? n wat should i do??? "If you and this boy were a pair, your friend shouldn't do anything to break things up. but having a crush on the guy doesn't make him yours."- A smart girl's guide to boys, AmericanGirl Library (It was a gift from my mom.) Yea, so maybe you should try and talk it out with your friend because I agree with the book about how having a crush on a guy doesn't make him yours. |
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Jul 22 2006, 09:34 PM
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 *dazzle Group: Member Posts: 357 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,071 |
QUOTE(JOHSEe @ Jul 22 2006, 8:49 PM) I agree. If she's denying it then just go for it. And if she gets mad at you if you end up with him, it's her fault because she said she didn't like him. i concur.  |
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Jul 25 2006, 09:55 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
how do you call her your best friend if she does that to you...
just wondering. anyways, go for it, don't give up. she doesn't admit that she has a crush on him then her lost. |
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| *suddenly she* |
Jul 25 2006, 10:09 AM
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you shouldn't call people like that your friends.
flirt fight and get what you want. definitely don't trash talk her around the school; that's stupid. if you give up, then... that's just says you don't like him enough to bear with some "friend." since she denies everything, what's the point of talking to her? needs to be moved to relationships. |
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Jul 25 2006, 10:13 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 7,149 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,509 |
smack her, and tell her to stay back
just kidding, but i voted for the first one, hehe, but i realllly meant the last one, talk it out with her, dont back down. work it out yo. |
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Jul 25 2006, 12:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129 |
flirt with him! who cares if she likes him too.. it's just competition. just don't go overboard and ruin your friendship
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Jul 25 2006, 10:18 PM
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 sorry. i drowned your fish. Group: Member Posts: 1,485 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,683 |
0MG. this happend to both of my closest friends!! the guy asked my other friend[#1] first but since the friend[#2] liked him too she said no so now #1 is goin out wid this other guy and she says she doesnt like him anymore but shes starting to get feelings for him again. #2 is mad at her like 24/7 they are really confusing ... to answer the question, i guess i wud try and stop liking the guy cuz its just gonna cause drama..
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Jul 26 2006, 12:21 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
QUOTE(hardxcoreL0VER @ Jul 25 2006, 1:26 PM) flirt with him! who cares if she likes him too.. it's just competition. just don't go overboard and ruin your friendship COMPETITION!!!!!! |
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Jul 26 2006, 12:27 AM
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talk it out with her.
if you dont want to break up your friendship. |
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| *Freaky Krazer* |
Jul 26 2006, 10:49 AM
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I thought this was a threesome topic for some reason
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| *Uronacid* |
Jul 26 2006, 10:59 AM
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This used to happen all the time when me and my friend nick hanged out... there would be one girl and both of us... I always let him flirt with her... At first it kind of made me upset, but after a while I realized he attracted all the sluts and I got all the real beauties
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Jul 26 2006, 03:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,015 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 193,600 |
QUOTE(sakaitone @ Jul 22 2006, 7:25 PM) "If you and this boy were a pair, your friend shouldn't do anything to break things up. but having a crush on the guy doesn't make him yours."- A smart girl's guide to boys, AmericanGirl Library (It was a gift from my mom.) Yea, so maybe you should try and talk it out with your friend because I agree with the book about how having a crush on a guy doesn't make him yours. ^ i agree with her... |
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Jul 26 2006, 03:36 PM
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 msladyliberty Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,766 |
I'd let her have it.
I've always let them have it! I'm not that desperate and I pick my friends over a crush anyday. |
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Aug 6 2006, 06:39 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 298,940 |
oh my gosh. i have a question about this too. my best friend (let's call her..sarah) and i like the same guy. like alot. and she's also best friends with the guy. so he likes me too. and she asks "sarah" if he should ask me out and she's like "at first i said yes" and yeah. he hasnt asked me out yet and i dont know what to do about it because if i say yes she'll be super sad and hate me for the rest of our lives and if i say no, i lose him, hurt him, but my friend is happy. what do i do?
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| *Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg* |
Aug 7 2006, 10:52 AM
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talk it out with her.
if nothing is solved that way, let her have the guy. there are plenty of fish in the sea and, in the end, friends mean way more than boyfriends do. |
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Aug 7 2006, 03:39 PM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
I had the exact situation in 4th grade
 .Yeah, we liked the same guy. I talked to her, she denies, we compete. Turns out he liked niether of us! Isn't that such a happy ending? No. The end. |
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Aug 7 2006, 04:53 PM
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 L2P Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 449,622 |
Same thing happend with me and my friend. Only...I denied I liked him. I told her I used to like him, but I was over him. And I'm pretty sure he knew my friend liked him, but I'm good at acting (just saying, haha) so he didn't notice I did. So my friend asked me to ask him out for her. o.o; I did, and he said no. And I asked why, so he told me who he liked. So I told my friend and she was sad. =[ And I was sad because the girl he liked wasn't me. So we were all sad. And then we got over it.
I agree with JOHSEe. |
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Aug 8 2006, 01:50 AM
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 rissa. Group: Member Posts: 621 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,690 |
I had the exact same situation. I flirted with him also. and spent more time alone with him. It worked.
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Aug 8 2006, 05:43 AM
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Let the hotter one win...
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Aug 8 2006, 07:42 AM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
Talking it out at this point probably won't solve anything, especially i f she denies it. What would you say, really? Instead of talking to her, you should talk to the GUY. Tell him what's been going on, but not like trash talking either. Also, just rissa makes a point. Just be sure to spend more time with him, and he'll figure out who REALLY likes him.
Oh, and get a new best friend. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Aug 8 2006, 11:14 AM
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Don't do anything, think of her as your ass-hole filter...
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Aug 8 2006, 04:24 PM
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 101708 <3 (: Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,431 |
well.. personally i think it'll be dumb to just let her have him. so i think it should be more like a "may the best girl win" kind of situation
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Aug 8 2006, 08:05 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
well that would be messed up in your part if you have to result into trash taking about your BEST FRIEND to the guy you wanna go out with that is just really low.
 if she does not admit to you that she likes him then just tell her that you wanted to know because you thought she ought to know that you like him. thats all you really have to say and maybe she might back up and leave space for you to get with him  BUT if she keeps flirting with him then confront her about it. |
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