wut does it mean if a guy stares at u repeatedly?, =/ Options

[rainie8847]

hi, im just wondering, wut does it mean if a guy stares at u for a couple of times? i just noticed him cuz he's in my friend's writing class. i see him for like 20 min. a day at break n i sorta m interested in him... but too bad... only 3 more dayz left of skool... i haven't even spoken one word to him... r there any wayz for me to get to know him? cuz i notice him stare at me sumtimes... im just wondering wut that cud mean... interested in me or not? or i look weird? =S lolz

[*krnxswat*]

He thinks you're ugly.

[*Programmer*]

^ true spoken words.

[*My Cinderella.*]

1. Maybe he thinks you're weird.
2. Maybe he has the hots for you.

But what would I know, I'm no boy.

[AngryBaby]

he's probably looking at the girl behind you....


get out of his way

[pinayprincess]

He thinks you're ugly.

he's probably looking at the girl behind you....


get out of his way

LMAO why you tryna put a girl down?!

anyways, he has some interest in you.. if he didnt.. well he wouldnt be looking at you in the first place! comfront him if you feel its right

[*Kathleen*]

anyways, he has some interest in you.. if he didnt.. well he wouldnt be looking at you in the first place!

Unless she's truly a freak of nature.

[no-name]

he is eather a stalker, thinks you are attactive, your scary, or you got something on you

[xTINAA]

You probably have something on your face. (Just kidding.)
Maybe he sees that you're always looking at him (you'd have to be, to see that he's looking at you, right?) and that's why he's looking at you.
You'll never really know unless you ask him.
You have three days of school left, why not make the best of it and say hi to him? You won't see him for months so might as well take the risk.

[BrokenDream]

He thinks you're ugly.

...
Wdf is your problem? Make the girl feel bad, oh yeah that works.

Anyway. Who knows what the guy is thinking when they stare at you repeatedly. Alot of guys think.. um.. different thoughts. Maybe he thinks your beautiful? Who knows.

[lanbexx]

we're not trying. its just a fact of life. :D

he probably thinks u look funny or interesting and keeps looking. or else he is just really really REALLY bored in class and has nothing else to do except look at all the people around him, mainly the girls

[*Weird addiction*]

He thinks you're ugly.

Way to go, another stupid post. Continue like this and you might actually make the record.

he's probably looking at the girl behind you....
get out of his way

Lmfaoooooo! Hahahaha!

Anyways, maybe he likes you?

[Jeng]

maybe you dress weird or you are weird.

[EddieV]

It can mean many things, depending on how the stare looks like.


It can mean many things, depending on how the stare looks like.

[lanbexx]

jeng ur so nice...

and i thought it was only the guys in this thread that were being mean

[*krnxswat*]

Way to go, another stupid post. Continue like this and you might actually make the record.

I THOUGHT I DID ALREADY!?!?! WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

[rainie8847]

LOL thx for the advice ppl! but im sure there wasn't any other girl bhind me... hmm... u guyz r rite... there r many reasons y he's looking at me... =S lol

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

it could mean many things like he could be wondering rite now why you keep looking at him so thats why he keeps on lookin at you because you are looking at him all the time. well i wouldnt say anything to him yet..if he likes you then he will most likely say so if he keeps on staring at you. staring guys dont always mean they like you.

[PrincessAda]

Uhhh it depends what kind of stare..

[rainie8847]

well... he looks content... and he gives me a long stare... i saw him stare at me for about 4 sec. then i looked away...

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

You're probably staring at him and he feels you lookin and looks at you then waits for you to look away but you dont look away so he looks away instead and looks again to see if you're still looking, which you are, because how else would you know that he looks at you a lot.

[rainie8847]

^ =SSSS hmm... i "feel" like he's looking at me so then i look at him. but then he prolongs the stare, i feel uncomfortable, and I look away. he doesn't look away. like just one day i was coming out of my class, and his class is right infront of mine, i was looking at their class to see if they dismissed or not, and he was already looking at me. i don't check him out cuz i usually don't stare at guyz if i feel interested in them.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

But how can you be sure that when you looked into the doorway he was simply looking to see who was looking in and saw you and you happened to be looking at him just as he looked to see who was in the doorway and it was you.

Maybe you're imagining the feeling that hes looking at you so you can have an excuse to look at him. =0

Lol okay okay. He either is looking at you because he is stunned by your beauty or because you look at him, or because he might just be looking at someone around you and you think hes looking at you, or because he might have caught you looking at him before so now he looks at you all the time to see if you're looking at him and thats where you get the feelings hes looking at you so you look and he sees you looking and thinks that you always look at him so he looks to see if you look. :D

[Melissawilson5]

He might think ur hot I dunno maybe you should talk to him

[rainie8847]

@ hiphop: LOL hahaa that was confusing but anywayz... u cud b rite... dunno... heheh i wanna go up and talk to him but thers not reli any way to... =T

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Of course there is. Before class starts walk up to him and just say " Hello ___ " or " W'sup _____" or whatever is the popular way of greeting in your area. If you have any mutual friends and one of them happens to be hanging out with this boy, go on over and include yourself (:

[KUBANO]

he might like you or there something stuck in your teeth

[blucheri]

stupid asses. one dumbass says something. the rest of u follow it.

i see how this forum is....

ok anywayz....

he's interested in u.

[KUBANO]

^how would you know no guys look at you

[blucheri]

^how would you know no guys look at you

shut up. don't start. i'll finish it.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

stupid asses. one dumbass says something. the rest of u follow it.

i see how this forum is....

ok anywayz....

he's interested in u.

But how can you be sure. You're not.
You're quite rude.

shut up. don't start. i'll finish it.

[o.0krazee.pickle...]

It can mean many things, depending on how the stare looks like.
It can mean many things, depending on how the stare looks like.

this person is super right.

it mainly depends on how he's staring at you.

[*liquidize*]

he's probably looking at the girl behind you....
get out of his way

LOL YEAH DUDE! Thats why i always try to motion for them to move out of the way. if he was interested in you trust me, he would have spoken up or smiled at least..
only 2 things. Ugly or incredibly hot

[SarahxJoy]

If he is checking out another girl, but you wanna' be sure, move around a little and see if his eyes follow you. If not, do move out of his view.

He could be stalking you.

[rainie8847]

=( thers only 1 more day left of skool... i dont think i'll even get to see him anymore... ya and today... i think he was looking at me cuz i was just walking to his class (his class is right infront of mine) and i was going there to see my friend and wen he saw me he just looked at me then a few sec. later he looked away... =( i dunno... i reli want to start a convo with him but... thers not reli any chance... wut shud i do? =S

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

OMG!!! you keep talking about him lookin at you and you lookin at him and he stares then you stare then he looks again and you look again and then he stares some more....

to me it personally seems that you really really REALLY like him. why not go and casually talk to him? while he stares at you bump into him and start talkin to him if he stares at you constantly like you say he does MAYBE he might like you. if its your last day of skool im pretty sure you know someone who might know him. keep in touch with him on AIM or MSN and plan to hang out with him instead of staring at each other. lol.


GOOD LUCK!!!!! =]

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

=( thers only 1 more day left of skool... i dont think i'll even get to see him anymore... ya and today... i think he was looking at me cuz i was just walking to his class (his class is right infront of mine) and i was going there to see my friend and wen he saw me he just looked at me then a few sec. later he looked away... =( i dunno... i reli want to start a convo with him but... thers not reli any chance... wut shud i do? =S

Then start a convo ! Lol, it's that simple. Just say Hi. And then ask him what's he doing over the summer and bla bla bla. The conversation should flow from there. There's only one day left for you to make an approach, unless you're going to see him over the summer. ( How come you get out this late ? Or are you in an all year round school )

[rainie8847]

nah... this is just SUMMER SCHOOL... =( thats y i'll probably never get the chance to see him every again LOL. =T but wudn't that juz freak him out if i suddenly say "hi"?? =S

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

^ no he wont be freaked out maybe you can even ask him why he keeps looking at you. watch him get embarrassed ( be careful tho find out if hes really looking at YOU) he might even say something really nice and maybe you guys can hit it off from there =]

[rainie8847]

^LOL aww... that'd b reli cute if he does get embarassed. ^.^" but im still pretty nervous... like thers only 2 hrs tomorrow... we're not in the same class... most of the classes r gonna watch a movie... i dont think thers even any chance... UNLESS... we get to skool early and i mite b able to see him... but then my friend will be there... or in the middle of the movie he goes to the washroom, i go to the washroom too and yea... cuz the girl's and boy's washroom r jus rite bside each other with the doors opened. crazy rite? the first time i saw that i was like o__O

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Ooooh summerschool. Ahaha Im hella stupid.

Just say hello next time he looks at you ! Ask him what's he doing for the rest of the summer. Slip him your number. Do you have myspaces ( SAD, I know ) but give him your myspace or something.

[rainie8847]

^lol XD nah dont hav myspace, but wut about MSN? XP i think that wud work... ahh gonna b very awkward if i suddenly say hi and he gives me a weird look... *sigh* i hope tomorrow comes faster so i can get this over with. i reli wanna get his msn! ^_^"

[*baby_in_blue*]

...start random conversation and then if he doesnt say anything ask if he is ok and then make him feel uncomfortable.

thats what i would do.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

So, you're summerschool has ended according to your other post. Updates ? =0 =0

[seremela_culnamo]

Guys are weird. They do that all the time. Unless you are interested in him, ignore it. But since you are, why not talk to him? Well I guess it's a bit late, but there are so many ways just to get to know someone. Through your friends without telling them =]

[RCcola]

...start random conversation and then if he doesnt say anything ask if he is ok and then make him feel uncomfortable.

thats what i would do.

HAHAHA
*takes notes* that might be my new strategy.

i had a similar thing with a boy in my spanish class. whenever i found him staring i just made uncomfortable eye contact like that...

he didn't have a crush on me, i think he just has staring problems...

[*Uronacid*]

Sometimes I look at a girl becuase she isn't wearing enough support, and her boobs look like a sloppin swimming pool... I say to my friends, "Man I could dive intot that thing... it's so sloppy I wouldn't even break my neck... " That's so gross...

[rainie8847]

^ Lol well... summer skool has ended and nothing happened! bummer =T practically every class was watching a movie and then wen we got out i couldn't even talk to him... i told my friend though... i reli miss him rite now... i can't stop thinking about him! omg... i keep on thinking about him these couple of dayz! i wonder if we'll meet again... =S

[vn_cuti3]

um.........it depends how does he stare at u ????

[rainie8847]

^ well just long stares... like he just stares at me with a content look and he usually stares for like 4 seconds or so then i look away... but... i don't kno if i'll even see him again... reli hope we end up in the same high skool... =T

[KMFDM_MDFMK]

he is a stalker

[*suddenly she*]

like groucho says, common sense is not so common.

your hair looks terrible, your lip is bloodied, there's a giant booger hanging from your nose, there's a monkey on top of your head, a bird pooped on your head, there's a nest on your head, you dont' have a shirt on, he's having a staring contest with the kid behind you, you look like an escapee from isr, you look like a jailbird, or you haven't showered in three years.

don't get a big head now and think you're attractive, all right?
jes' kidding.
come on, why do you think?!
of course, all of the above could be true, orrrr he thinks you're a candidate for um... mating. but. hell if i know.

[xlilaznchickx]

um..maybe he likes u
thinks ur ugly
thinks ur weird or a freak
looking at the girl/boy behind u or sumthing
something in ur face
just bored
trying to look at the sumthing behind u...

[msladyliberty]

He's probably trying to read your mind. you know...like that movie!! "What women want"

[priyas]

He likes You.
He thinks your ugly.
There was something on your face.
He was staring at the girl behind you.

[*Uronacid*]

Well, I think that you are young... If it is meant to be one of you will grow some balls in highschool and talk to eachother. :]

GOOD NEWS:

YOU HAVE LOTS OF TIME AHEAD OF YOU!!!!

[soo x nyc x]

oh wow. people can be so stupid.

[illriginal]

If a guy keeps staring at a person there's only two things that should come to mind, rather:

A. He's intrigued by your looks

B. Disgusted by your looks

[Magus]

*shrug*

Probably to late for this, but I suppose I will say it all anyway.

Whenever I look at a person for a prolonged period it's one of the following reasons.

1. S/He is just amazingly cute
2. S/He has something about them that strikes me as unusual, or interesting(A band t-shirt I like or something)
3. S/He has shown some signs of intelligence or common sense
4. S/He just is different, in a good way, to the point where I am actually curious about why I think they are different




Those are the only reasons I will look at someone for a prolonged period, if I dislike something about someone, or if they do anything bothersome/disgusting, I do not continue looking at them.

But that is just me, and I am far from a normal male -.-

[*This Confession*]

He may like you/ think your cute. etc.

It could mean anything, just go up and start talking to them or soemthing. Or just ignore it all together.

[whenshesdancing]

perhaps he just noticed something about you.

[loveneko]

GET HIS SCREENNAME!!!!! Thats how I worked my magic on my crush. Hey and the staring thing, I think he likes you. Really likes you. Either that or he thinks something is seriously wrong with you. But then again, if he did think that theres no reason for him to stare at you ALL the TIME. Unless you're exaggerating.

[ST3PHANIE]

I talk to my crushes all the time on msn ^^ and I dont know why but we become good friends : )

[shadowmagic]

hes ether in love with you or wants to sleep with you

[Stefanny]

Ask a guy friend.
That's what I do whenever I need help XD

It's either they think you're weird, you have something on your face, or they like you & think you're cute :]

[evaleen]

People can be so mean sometimes lol.

But then again..there can be many reasons. I say he might like you or thinks you're attractive.

The same thing happened to me in my Freshman year. Everyday after 3rd period, I would pass by this one guy who always caught my attention. He was cute, and when we would pass by eachother, we would sort of caught eye-contact with eachother. Sometimes he would smile, other times he wouldn't.

A month or two later, he was friends with one of my friends. We ended up going out. [But we don't go out anymore lol]

[xXSydneyXx]

he's probably looking at the girl behind you....
get out of his way

that's messed up.

[*waiting for you babyyyboo*]

gosh that is my problem right now
i personallly thinks he likes you

[xourzestt]

I love that you guys are putting her down because it's obvious what she wants to hear.

And yes, he thinks ur a fugly monster.

[espressive]

You've obviously had a wardrobe malfunction.

[MalamaMulisha]

Well this one guy i was kinda friends with would stare at me at Intermediate. Then i didn't see him for a couple of years until this one party where he just stared at me again. Now i work with hi and he just stares. We talk and all but he doesn't think i notice him staring. Strange boy. I thought it meant something, then i found out he had a girlfriend so obviously not...

[xBUTTMUNCHx]

i think this is a very funnie topic, for some reason, but it happened to me b4...LOLs, i am currently dating tha guy that use to stare at me :] lmfao, i cant stop laffing. =]