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 Jul 18 2006, 04:03 PM
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Ahh okay so i made a HUGE mistake (atleast thats what i think) anyways, i said a word which means I love you in Korean, the guy ISNT korean so he didnt know what it meant but i logged off (this all happened on MSN) and so now hes asking what it means and i just REALLY dont want to tell him, should i tell him what it REALLY means, or should i just tell a lie and say it means something like "read a book" or soemthing like that?
Btw, we also have a huge age difference..:[ .. well in my opinion. 3 years.ahh |
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Jul 18 2006, 05:06 PM
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 i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
well if he's not Korean and doesn't know what you're saying then why speak to him in Korean? or at least say "i love you" in Korean? i understand you don't want him to know, but if you already know he's not Korean, he's obviously going to wonder what it means and ask. so if you didn't want him to ponder the thought, you shouldn't have said it. but if you mean "i love you" what is there to be afraid of if you tell him?
 if you say it means something like "read a book" i don't know if he'd believe you. that's just my thought. |
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| *This Confession* |
Jul 18 2006, 05:19 PM
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well if you really like him / love him
then you should just tell him eventually. But i don't get the whole different language thing. If you don't want to tell him in english don't tell him at all. And age differences don't matter, age is just a number. I'm going out with a guy whos 5 yrs older than me. And yours is just 3. Be happy its only that much |
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| *salcha4u* |
Jul 18 2006, 06:25 PM
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If he really wanted to know, he would go find out himself. Telling him in English ruins it anyway.
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Jul 18 2006, 06:33 PM
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i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
QUOTE(This Confession @ Jul 18 2006, 3:19 PM)  But i don't get the whole different language thing. If you don't want to tell him in english don't tell him at all. exactly. |
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Jul 18 2006, 07:27 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i agree with This Confession.
well it's up to you |
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Jul 18 2006, 07:55 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
well if you knew before hand that the guy was not Korean then it was really pointless to say " i love you " in Korean. but if you thot he was than it was an honest mistake! if you really have feelings for this guy jus come up and say that you like him . if you feel you are not ready to tell him (yet) just tell him it means to read a book or watch tv. lol GOOD LUCK!
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Jul 18 2006, 09:37 PM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
if you said it, maybe it wasn't a mistake.
you should tell the truth. chances are he'll find out later. if not, and you REALLY don't think it would help anything, tell him it wen't into the wrong IM? or day it means "iloveyou" in the friendly way. =D |
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Jul 18 2006, 10:59 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
I think you should just tell him the truth that it was a mistake.
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Jul 26 2006, 05:47 PM
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 live + laugh = life [[you don't need love]] Group: Member Posts: 191 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 441,854 |
lol y did u say it to him in the 1st place??? well i suggest that u should tell him the truth mayb he likes u to who knos
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Jul 26 2006, 05:59 PM
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 msladyliberty Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,766 |
I say, "go read a book."
 -If you can't even admit to him that you love him, then I suggest you don't tell him at all. |
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Jul 26 2006, 06:47 PM
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 your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 |
QUOTE well if he's not Korean and doesn't know what you're saying then why speak to him in Korean? or at least say "i love you" in Korean? i understand you don't want him to know, but if you already know he's not Korean, he's obviously going to wonder what it means and ask. so if you didn't want him to ponder the thought, you shouldn't have said it. but if you mean "i love you" what is there to be afraid of if you tell him? ^ That's exactly what I thought about it. If you really like him, tell him you like him. I'm not sure about telling him you LOVE him, I'm not sure what kind of relationship you guys have, but at least let him know what you're feeling. |
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Jul 28 2006, 12:55 PM
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 la baile de noche Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,018 |
Well it's too late to take back anything u said, so i think if you guys are just friends but u like him, u could just tell him u LIKE him...love is a strong word. If you guys already go out and u really do love him than tell him.
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Jul 28 2006, 03:19 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 445,421 |
I'm not understanding why you told him in a different language. If you love him, you shouldn't be afraid to tell him.
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Jul 28 2006, 03:25 PM
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 peace&love, earth flower Group: Member Posts: 651 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,938 |
I agree with the others. Why'd you tell him in the first place? Just tell him it means I love you but if you don't want him to know thats how you really feel you can do it in a joking manner.
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| *mona lisa* |
Jul 28 2006, 04:01 PM
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Moved to Relationships.
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Jul 28 2006, 04:28 PM
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 GOLDEN. Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 428,497 |
QUOTE(geniphyr @ Jul 28 2006, 1:19 PM) I'm not understanding why you told him in a different language. If you love him, you shouldn't be afraid to tell him. agreed! |
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| *Mandy Pants* |
Aug 16 2006, 04:38 PM
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I think what might've happened is he looked it up online and found out what it meant.
And now, he just keeps bugging you to him him in English, so he can find out how you really meant it. |
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| *suddenly she* |
Aug 16 2006, 06:12 PM
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sarang hae?
i'm not korean either, but i know a couple korean kids i suppose it would be best just to tell him in english. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Aug 16 2006, 06:18 PM
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Well, um... I don't thik that 3 years is that big of a difference unless your really young... I guess it's a matter of opinion, but as long as your 13-14 or older. I really don't see 3 years as a big deal... If you love him. Then you love him, it's not a big deal, but make sure you understand what love is before you just throw it around.
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Aug 17 2006, 01:06 PM
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 SAXY kathy Group: Member Posts: 535 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,550 |
QUOTE(This Confession @ Jul 18 2006, 3:19 PM) well if you really like him / love him then you should just tell him eventually. totally agree |
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Aug 17 2006, 10:44 PM
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 baby, you wouldnt last<3 Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 413,445 |
ask him to find out for himself ! [=
i think that would be cute though. but yeah. its really up to you. if you said it .. you mustve` meant it right ? no hiding your feelings. |
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Aug 18 2006, 11:56 AM
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 Just One Kiss Will Stop Your Heart! Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 454,951 |
Ok question number one do you know him in person,and even so um if you love him i think it would be best to let him know who knows he may just feel the same way.
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