Apologize? Options

[misfit]

I was feeling depressed and I like had an outburst.I got really angry at my bofriend and tried to find reasons to be mad at him he barely ever comes to my house so I picked that and said if you wanted to come you would of..I dont know like I felt all this anger when I was upset and just released how I was feeling and I took it out on him...and my sister said to me apologize if he hasnt done anything wrong...But I still feel angry that if he wanted to come down then he would of a while ago...Ahh im confused...when you feel depressed do you release a heap of anger?

[pinacoolada]

hmm..hormones..jk

[misfit]

Lol most likely yes.
I just got my period about 10 mins ago haha. I always have outbursts before my period, i've been feeling really down and upset all week and then ahd taht outburst earlier.
I did apologize.but yes.

[fagget]

So did you want us to answer the question or give you advice?

[technicolour]

oooooh man. I get outrages like no other. Very pissy mood.

You should apologize and explain..if he wants to know.

[pinayprincess]

your not depressed; i think its the fact that hes not coming down to your house [well duh]; that your not getting the attention from him... i know how you feel; i used to do the sammmmme thing with my ex and i apologized. the best thing for you is to do the same b/c it wouldnt be right to be mad at someone for no reason

[SarahxJoy]

I say apologize and give him warnings about your sudden outbursts and that you don't really mean it (or at least that you don't mean how it's usually handled..in outbursts). Just talk to him about seeing him more often and try to make plans to do so, instead of waiting for him to find a time convenient for himself to come over.

And I don't really have outbursts..I mean I guess sometimes I do, but nothing extreme. And usually just to someone like my brothers..hardly ever one of my friends or boyfriend.

[PrincessAda]

You should apologize and tell him why you were being soo mad and stuff that day.He`ll understand that you`re going through bad times.

[misfit]

Icky Girl,well a bit of both and pinayprincess I know when i'm depressed and I already have depression.I wouldn't be crying over other things if it was the fact that he doesn't come down that much. It's not that I want him to give me ll of his attention,coz I don't. It'd just be nice for him to come down mroe often and i've already spoken to him about that. I do always cry and have outbursts before my period, well I always feel depressed and crap before it.. I think I kinda found reasons to get angry at him so i could release how I was feeling generally. Im ok with it all now,he can come down when he wants,its not that he doesnt want to.

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

^ its hard to understand your posts lol so you get outburst when you are on your period ( correct me if im wrong ) and ur mad because your bf does not come to your house and you just let out your anger on him? well i think you should just talk to him and apologize. and tell him to have patience when ur "monthly friend" visits

[clarity]

I'm usually evil,
but i think you should apologize.

[misfit]

^ its hard to understand your posts lol so you get outburst when you are on your period ( correct me if im wrong ) and ur mad because your bf does not come to your house and you just let out your anger on him? well i think you should just talk to him and apologize. and tell him to have patience when ur "monthly friend" visits

How come it's hard to understand?Er...well I do suck at explaining things lol... I dunno im confused myself, I do get outbursts before my period and that includes me feeling really depressed and worthless and what not and all this anger that I don't know where it comes from. Then I end up taking it all out on someone else. While I was taking it out on my boyfriend, I think I was quite mad still that he doesn't come down as much as I go up to his..

He usually goes out to nightclubs on Friday nights, but he hasn't been out in a while, each time he would of usually been out, he's been with me. A few days ago he said he was going out tonight(it's Friday here) and I was like ok, then lastnight he said I really want to see you though,i'll let you know tommorrow what i'm going to do. And then he said he was going to go out and that it was his work mates birthday,he had spoken to his friend while he waso n the phone to me,so I thought,are they working something out,or has hism ate said no man your coming out with me,I even thought are they thinking of something so I dont get shitty?Lol i'm hopeless,I think too much ...so anyway,naturally, I was dissapointed, even though he's coming to see me tommorrow. I dunno i've just been feeling really down lately and it would of been nice if he came down tonight instead of going out,ut hey hehasn't gone out in ages.. I just sorta feel like his choosing his friends over his gf that's feeling really low and stuff....I think too much. I think I make my life difficult just myself. I'm too insecure.Oh and
maybe I should go back on a different pill that'll stop my outbursts, well maybe not stop but make me not have such big ones. Sorry this is so long, I wish I could explain better lol.

[*Shinji_Mimura*]

I think he should spend time with his friends more. No point in spending too much time in a relationship you know that's going to end anyway.

[misfit]

^We only see eachother every weekend anyway,the longest we've spent together is about 1-2 weeks.Which went fine. I do think he should spend more time with his friends, he still sees them like through the week maybe but he just hasn't been out to a club in a while....a few weeks ago he went to two parties so..I was invited but I was really sick =(.

[*Shinji_Mimura*]

Well, I'm glad you understand. You get a check +.

[nikkkkki]

i'm very much like that. and i take it out on my boyfriend too. in the end i apologize cause it's really not his fault, and i'm not being honest with him when i tell him i'm mad about something cause of him. so, i guess you should apologize. since you were just having an outburst, right?