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 Jul 12 2006, 01:32 PM
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I've been going out with this guy for almost 3 years. And I haven't talked to him or heard from him for about a three weeks. He won't answer his phone, or his cell phone. I don't know who he's hanging out with, what he's doing, or anything. I'm really curious about what he's doing, ya know, like if he's cheating on me...
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Jul 12 2006, 01:36 PM
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have you e-mailed him? or IM?
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Jul 12 2006, 01:37 PM
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QUOTE(xiicedfrosting @ Jul 12 2006, 1:36 PM)  have you e-mailed him? or IM? i've e-mailed him...yes, but IM he's never on. |
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Jul 12 2006, 01:38 PM
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keep tryna contact him and once you finally get his "answer" ask to meet up to talk w/ him.....
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Jul 12 2006, 01:39 PM
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have you talked to his parents? or any neighbors?
does he go to the same school as you? |
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Jul 12 2006, 01:44 PM
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QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Jul 12 2006, 1:38 PM) keep tryna contact him and once you finally get his "answer" ask to meet up to talk w/ him..... ok.. i'll try.. QUOTE(xiicedfrosting @ Jul 12 2006, 1:39 PM) have you talked to his parents? or any neighbors? does he go to the same school as you? his parents .. are gone on vacation, but i know he's not.... most of his neighbors are gone, or don't know where he'd be at. yeah, he goes to the same school.. |
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Jul 12 2006, 01:46 PM
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well then you HAVE to see him soon, anways, even if he doesn't really contact you. Have you guys been in a big fight before this?
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Jul 12 2006, 01:47 PM
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 i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
that's odd.. hmm.. do you usually talk often and then just for a sudden you haven't heard form him in 3 weeks? or is it casual conversation and this is the longest it's been..?
i'd definately keep trying to call him or get a hold of him any way you can. show up at his house or something, that's odd... hmm.. just keep trying to get a hold of him and when you do ask why he hasn't been asnwering, or what's been up.. |
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Jul 12 2006, 01:50 PM
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try to stalk him or something..
like at night go to his house, see if you see any clues that he's inside, and try to find out a way to talk to him or something. gotta go;; good luck with him. |
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Jul 12 2006, 01:53 PM
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QUOTE(xiicedfrosting @ Jul 12 2006, 1:46 PM) well then you HAVE to see him soon, anways, even if he doesn't really contact you. Have you guys been in a big fight before this? no.... QUOTE(cassjamminx @ Jul 12 2006, 1:47 PM) that's odd.. hmm.. do you usually talk often and then just for a sudden you haven't heard form him in 3 weeks? or is it casual conversation and this is the longest it's been..? i'd definately keep trying to call him or get a hold of him any way you can. show up at his house or something, that's odd... hmm.. just keep trying to get a hold of him and when you do ask why he hasn't been asnwering, or what's been up.. we normally talk all the time.. and hang out a lot with friends.. but now.. it seems like he doesn't have time for me.. QUOTE(xiicedfrosting @ Jul 12 2006, 1:50 PM) try to stalk him or something.. like at night go to his house, see if you see any clues that he's inside, and try to find out a way to talk to him or something. gotta go;; good luck with him. yeah, okay.. bye... |
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Jul 12 2006, 01:57 PM
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i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
that was easy...
well if this hasn't happened before then you know that somethign is obviously up. |
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Jul 12 2006, 02:02 PM
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QUOTE(cassjamminx @ Jul 12 2006, 1:57 PM) that was easy... well if this hasn't happened before then you know that somethign is obviously up. kay... |
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Jul 12 2006, 04:10 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Something good or bad can be up..but yeah don`t 100% assume he`s cheating or anything..
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Jul 13 2006, 07:13 AM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
Show up at his house randomly.
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Jul 13 2006, 10:08 PM
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QUOTE(xbabyboo @ Jul 12 2006, 4:10 PM) Something good or bad can be up..but yeah don`t 100% assume he`s cheating or anything.. yawp i agree. |
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| *Shinji_Mimura* |
Jul 14 2006, 02:42 AM
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Maybe he died.
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Jul 14 2006, 12:22 PM
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you have been dating for 3 years and you do not know how to reach him? phone email aim msn yahoo email text , call his friends, family whoever.
go to his house and see whats up. Honestly if hes not picking up his phone or replying online, what is the best option you have? GO TO HIS HOUSE |
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Jul 14 2006, 01:45 PM
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 All The Girlies Say I'm Pretty Fly For A White Guy Group: Member Posts: 1,944 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,858 |
You said he doesn't get on IM. Did he block you or is he just busy? You could always try getting a fake or new screename and see if he logs in. But if all else fails go to his hous. 3 years is a long time. I was with my ex for 2 years and we just broke up. Maybe he needs space?
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| *lolita kitty* |
Jul 14 2006, 06:01 PM
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Hm, I agree with x0xIlmBx0x. Show up at his house randomly, and see what happens. If he is home, ask him what's been going on lately. If he isn't home, then continue trying to contact him. Just don't assume anything yet, because you never know what's going on.
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Jul 16 2006, 02:55 PM
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yeah,and if he's not at his house,leave him a note in the door asking to please contact you that you have something very important to talk to him about.
 hope this helped. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Jul 17 2006, 09:32 AM
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Look, when you goto his house... don't expect anything. The most you can do is tell him how you feel about him not calling you for three weeks... Hmmm, I'm sure there is a reason. Try to find out what it is... I don't want to worry you with the possibilities that come to my head. So, I'm not going to... :/
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Jul 19 2006, 12:14 PM
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It's all good.
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