advice please >>? asap!, how to keep this relationship together? |
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 May 24 2004, 10:52 PM
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 punk x3  Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,260  |
well....................there's this guy in my school.
 he's in the 8th grade and he's graduating from our school this week.  sad, yes yes, but we're together.  he's mentioned that he's gonna hang with me durin the summer, but i'm worried that it might all fall down.  first of all, because he's going to high school and i'm going to be stuck in middle school for a year without him.  second of all, i'm not even gonna go to the same high school as he's going to. Anyone have advice on how to keep it together even though we're apart? 
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May 24 2004, 10:55 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
hmm... well........
if you guys are meant to be, im shure it'll hold up together. But, remember that him moving on might be better for you guys. I mean, it might give you time to find your "true" guy and him to move on or whatnot. But yea, imshure you guys will be okay. if youre really worried, talk to him. let him comfort you or something. 
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May 24 2004, 11:13 PM
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punk x3 Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,260 |
yeah...okiez. thanx for yer advice.
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May 24 2004, 11:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,989 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,691 |
I agree, if you were meant to be, it will work out. I think that you guys will break up soon because you aren't really going to be active or around him as much anymore but that is only my opinion.
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May 24 2004, 11:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,809 |
hmm... well.. are you going to the same highschool? if you are.. its really.. not big of a deal.. if he really likes you.. he wouldnt find another girl... but its one year... this will tell you.. what he really feels about you.. best you can do.. is just.. phone... go out.. IM...
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May 24 2004, 11:37 PM
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 Liv's Secret Lover *shhhh* Group: Member Posts: 201 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,229 |
I'd say dump him. You'll end up breaking up anyway. The whole highschool dating thing is stupid anyways. Save yourself until you are old enough to think about marriage. Every relationship before that is just another broken heart.
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May 24 2004, 11:39 PM
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punk x3 Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,260 |
ur right. if it's true, i shouldn't have to worry and it will fall into place. if we don't break up anytime soon, then i'll also try to contact him as much as I can. thanx all of you
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May 25 2004, 08:30 AM
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Eh, no need to make assumptions and such.
I'm sure if you guys are meant to be, it'll work out, and if not, just find another guy.
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May 25 2004, 12:33 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
well..if you guys are realli meant to be together, then you guys will stay together..my boyyfriend and i met freshman year and i switched high schools sophmore year..we stayed together and i recently moved to san francisco and he lives in san diego..and we are still together to this day..sOoOOo..its not that hard to stay together..just have a little faith
good luck
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May 25 2004, 02:44 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
well i go to one high school and my bf goes to another :
 we usually talk on the fone, do AIM, xanga, and we hang out every weekend. or as much as we can. try doin tht
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May 25 2004, 05:11 PM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
itz really not that bad... cuz middle skoo--->hs.. the relatioship might still last. it gets really hard when itz hs---->college. cuz guys like all the MATURE women..
anywayyz.. it mite still work so dont wry about it.
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May 25 2004, 05:21 PM
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QUOTE(party_pnai_pride @ May 24 2004, 8:52 PM) well....................there's this guy in my school. he's in the 8th grade and he's graduating from our school this week. sad, yes yes, but we're together. he's mentioned that he's gonna hang with me durin the summer, but i'm worried that it might all fall down. first of all, because he's going to high school and i'm going to be stuck in middle school for a year without him. second of all, i'm not even gonna go to the same high school as he's going to. Anyone have advice on how to keep it together even though we're apart? Do you guys live any where near eachother? Well if your relationship was meant to be then you guys won't separate =) Just keep in touch with him.. talk to him on the phone, online.. GO TO HIS HIZZO. :D ;D |
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May 26 2004, 10:11 AM
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 jesus freak Group: Member Posts: 378 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,748 |
Hey, any relationship, if both parties are really into it, will work no matter what. I know a lot of people in the same situation, and nothings wrong with their relationships. except for the inevitable occassional arguments of course. but yah.. =] if you two reallly love each other, then there's nothing to worry about.
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Jun 2 2004, 09:16 PM
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punk x3 Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,260 |
thanx everyone [havent been online ina while...] . i gess it should work out huh? and inspirin reply from person who lives in frisco and is havin a relationship with a guy in san diego?
helpz mee keep the spiritz up . and i actually do kinda live near him . im actually right down the street from him... :mellow:heh. yeah, i know it should work it if we both believe in it, want it to happen, are meant to bo, really care for each other and so on. im only worried about the probability of it working out?  but wait i dont know if that's tha same thing?  uh well . thanx everyone . i guess thatz all the advice i need . thanx n peayce outz . feel free to give advice still if you like
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Jun 3 2004, 10:03 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
there's still weekends to spend with him .. if he realyl cares about you the different schools won't affect your relationship .. you both have to trust each other .. and talk to him on the phone often to keep communication going strong and it'll be just fine .. so don't worry ..
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Jun 3 2004, 10:06 AM
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 Wow it's been a long time!! Group: Member Posts: 1,672 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,954 |
QUOTE(party_pnai_pride @ May 24 2004, 10:52 PM) well....................there's this guy in my school. he's in the 8th grade and he's graduating from our school this week. sad, yes yes, but we're together. he's mentioned that he's gonna hang with me durin the summer, but i'm worried that it might all fall down. first of all, because he's going to high school and i'm going to be stuck in middle school for a year without him. second of all, i'm not even gonna go to the same high school as he's going to. Anyone have advice on how to keep it together even though we're apart? hmmm i'm sorry to say, but i dont know any relationship that has lasted into high school, because everyone (and i mean girls and guys) are overwhelmed by all the hotties there. seriously i'm sure you'll find someone else too |
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