a love life jus like Romeo&Juliet but with a new character, RELATIONSHIPS |
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 Jul 6 2006, 08:53 PM
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LIKE RIHANNA ITS A "STORY OF MY LIFE...SEARCHIN FOR THE RIGHT..BUT IT IT KEEPS AVOIDING ME...SORROW IN MY SOUL CUZ IT SEEMS THAT WRONG REALLY LOVES MY COMPANY.."
THERES THIS GUY WHO I WAS DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH...WE HAD IT STRONG THROUGH THE GOOD&BAD TIMES FOR 6 MONTHS...UNTIL ONE DAY HE CAME OVER...IT WAS THE DAY THAT I WOULD LAST HEAR FROM HIM EVER AGAIN...HE HAD BROKEN UP WITH ME...LITTLE DID I KNOW THE GIRL HE HAD FALLEN IN LOVE WITH WAS MY BESTFRIEND...I WAS HURT SO DEEPLY...YES THROUGH OUT THE MONTHS OF PAIN...THERE WAS NOTHING BUT DRAMA DAY BY DAY...UNTIL ONE DAY IT FADED AWAY...ONCE AGAIN I WAS HAPPY...LIFE COULDNT GET NO BETTER...I TRIED TO MOVE ON BUT THEY ALL WERENT THE SAME...THE LOVE I HAD BEEN LOOKIN FOR WAS IN MY 1ST LOVE...THE ONE WH0 BROKE MY HEART....9 MONTHS LATER HE COMES BACK...BEGGING ME TO TAKE HIM BACK....SO I DID...AND ONCE AGAIN HE DID THE PLAYAS GAME. SO I FINALLY GOT TIRED AND LET HIM GO....3 MONTHS LATER WHEN I THOUGHT MY LIFE WAS HELL...A GUY CAME IN MY LIFE...AND I HAD FALLEN IN LOVE AGAIN...BUT LIL DID I KNOW HE WAS MY ENEMIE... MY "FAMILY" AND HIS "FAMILY" HAD THE PASSION OF HATERED TOWARDS EACHOTHER... AT 1ST I DIDNT CARE...AS LONG AS IT WAS ME N HIM. BUT THEN ANOTHER HEARTBREAKEN SITUATION TO COME MY WAY...HE HAD A KID...AND A BABY'S MOMMA WITH A CHILD ON THE WAY....MY HEART WAS BROKEN...BUT AT THE SAME TIME I HAD THIS GUILTLYNESS INSIDE...BECAUSE HOW DO U FIGHT REALITY VS. FEELINGS???? HE LEFT HIS BABY'S MOMMA TO BE WITH ME...AND STILL I HAVE THIS GUILT. I HAVE TO KEEP HIM A SECRET BECAUSE IF PEOPLE FOUND OUT MY LIFE WOULD BE OVER. AS WELL AS HIS. BUT OUR LOVE IS SO UNIQUE...IT WOULD BE STUPID TO LET GO...BUT THEN AGAIN STUPID TO CONTINUE TO LOVE HIM...SO THATS THE SITUATION IM IN...I KNO PEOPLE DONT REALLY NO WAT TO SAY OR DO...BUT NETHING WOULD BE NICE....THANX <333 ME. |
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Jul 6 2006, 09:07 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Please type in lower cases too. =/
Thats pretty fcked up to leave someone while their baby is coming.You should tell him he needs to take care of the baby if its his.He can still be with you and take care of the baby.Thats a sad story though..real touchin`.. well umm I don`t know what to say..but good luck? and hope your life gets happier! =] edit: ohh and move on with your life.I`m sure your still young..find an even better guy. |
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Jul 6 2006, 09:09 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
well..how about finding a guy that does not have kids already? this guy is about to have two kids with two diffrent women ( pardon if i got my facts wrong ) isnt that a sign that he is not good with realtionships? and not a good father by the way a true man lives up to his responsibilities even if it means he has to work to maintain his kids. excuse me for saying this but he is acting like a child leaving back his kids. you dont deserve to suffer because i kno that girls these days are bitches so his babys mom is going to give you trouble because eventually she will find out. i hope everything goes ok and GOOD LUCK!
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Jul 6 2006, 09:14 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
he has a kid...he needs to get his priorities straight. its not fair to the child or the mother for him to just up and leave to find someone else to do the same thing to. (not sayin your easy) but i think you should move on and find someone with their life on track and know where they are in life. plus its even better when your familys get along
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Jul 6 2006, 09:40 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Went a little crazy with cap locks now didn;t you.
Isnt the solution obvious ? Your boyfriend has to kill himself and then you have to commit suicide. DUH. Lol No jk jk. But damn thats a serious situation, his poor kid and baby on the way, what is wrong with you. I think it's a selfish love, but alas. Love is love and you say you really do have a unique love, so theres nothing you can do but work it out with him and trudge on through life living in a secret. Or you can tell the world and face haters but be happy together. Or you can break up and think of the children. |
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Jul 6 2006, 10:17 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,137 |
yes ur all right...but okay to clear it up a bit...this guy yes i am in love with sad to say...he has a j0b...a kid thats 2 and anotha on the way from the same girl. yes she does kno about me. and yes she did have a few words to say to me. but oh well she had every right too. i mean it suxs when ur man ups and leaves you for someone else. and he's a good dad everytime im with him so is his son. it feels weird cuz i feel like a step mom. he even gives her money...so she can survive...even though she too have her own house and job. but yea im jus still stuck..and wat i ment by family...not really family i ment my friends dont like his friends and his friends dont like my friends...dats da situation
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Jul 6 2006, 10:20 PM
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 i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
QUOTE(lyin_in_wait @ Jul 6 2006, 7:14 PM)  he has a kid...he needs to get his priorities straight. its not fair to the child or the mother for him to just up and leave to find someone else to do the same thing to. (not sayin your easy) but i think you should move on and find someone with their life on track and know where they are in life. plus its even better when your familys get along i agree. if your family is going to keep you apart then, what else can you do? it looks like he has things to work out himself. and that's not fair to the baby's mom either.. think of it that way? someone replied saying you can still be together and he takes care of the kid, too. just think about the possibilities, the positive ones, and which would make you most happy. |
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Jul 7 2006, 06:16 AM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
don't let friends get in the way...you'll be fine as long as it doesn't involve family.
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Jul 7 2006, 10:51 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
Why is this like Romeo and Juliet? Actually, I just reread that. Do your parents forbid you to see him, or should I say, do they even know that you're with him?
Well, if he's left you before, what makes you think that he won't leave you again? And he's got a kid already. How old are the two of you really? Both of you need to get your priorities straight. |
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Jul 7 2006, 12:46 PM
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i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
QUOTE(Sophisticated_Ladyiie @ Jul 6 2006, 8:17 PM) yes ur all right...but okay to clear it up a bit...this guy yes i am in love with sad to say...he has a j0b...a kid thats 2 and anotha on the way from the same girl. yes she does kno about me. and yes she did have a few words to say to me. but oh well she had every right too. i mean it suxs when ur man ups and leaves you for someone else. and he's a good dad everytime im with him so is his son. it feels weird cuz i feel like a step mom. he even gives her money...so she can survive...even though she too have her own house and job. but yea im jus still stuck..and wat i ment by family...not really family i ment my friends dont like his friends and his friends dont like my friends...dats da situation okay now it's not like romeo & juliet, haha. you just flipped it all around!! jk. okay well, if it's your friends who stand in the way, honestly, they don't seem like nice enough friends to not let you date who you want. if they see that you're happy with someone, they can't let a grudge pass just becuase they don't like the guy? this is where they have to learn to accept & respect. 
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