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is it ok if i have a bf i met from myspace ?, please help guys & grls.
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post Jul 5 2006, 08:16 PM
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well, i have this bf that i met on myspace, but i met him from my cuhzins bf thats his friend. well i kno where he lives nd stuff like that .. but i never even seen an up close pic of him. should i stay wit him? he's a year older than mee. but i really like his personality..


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post Jul 5 2006, 08:22 PM
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Too bad noone can see her myspace...:(
 
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post Jul 5 2006, 08:31 PM
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well if you know where he lives then why havent you seen him?....stick with people you know. personalies are wayyy different in real life than online
 
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post Jul 5 2006, 08:43 PM
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post Jul 5 2006, 08:49 PM
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post Jul 5 2006, 10:00 PM
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Two words. No No.
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sorry Uhm if you know where he lives then why not go see him...unless he lives in another state ?
 
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If your cut out for it. If your in a relationship with someone on the internet you need them to start taking pictures lots of them. If he doesn't want to and you never get close up ones I wouldn't trust them to much.

I met my boyfriend last year on october 4th. And we talked on myspace for a while and i went on all these myspaces and got his aim name. [hahaha] and then we eventually started talking on the phone which turned in to everyday and then he eventually asked me to be his girlfriend. And we met on the 4th for the first time. =] But the whole time he use to give me pictures all the time, we would be on the phone and he would take pictures and load them to his computer and send them to me and i would do the same, I have videos and stuff of him as well.

So if you really cut out for it, and you get stuff that makes you trust that hes the person he is then go for it if you want. But being a long distance relaitonship is not easy at all. or internet relationship i should say.
 
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Whenever someone at my school [i go to an all girls school] has a new date and it is spread that they met through MySpace, everyone thinks it`stupid, weird, freaky...etc. Personally, i don`t see anything wrong with it, just as long as he/she isn`t a pervert/stalker. If it's just for fun, than I do see it as stupid. Whateves. whistling.gif
 
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post Jul 6 2006, 11:43 AM
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post Jul 6 2006, 01:00 PM
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Uhh..I wouldn't have a myspace boyfriend unless he was a guy that I knew in real life that just happened to have a myspace as well.

But, that's just me.
 
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post Jul 6 2006, 01:06 PM
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^ I agree.

Darling it's up to you. whistling.gif

Like other people said, if you know where he lives, why not see him? Unless he lives in another state..

And you haven't seen an up close picture of him? If that is really important to you (looks) then find them out before agreeing to go out.

Maybe you should meet him in person..
 
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post Jul 6 2006, 01:28 PM
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loooooooser, if u have to use myspace to get a boyfriend. seriously are you THAT desperate to get into a relationship??
 
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post Jul 6 2006, 02:17 PM
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Can't call her a loser. But why get a bf on myspace? I mean why not get boyfriends the old fashion way? Engineered flirtation never hurt anyone right? Because truly everyone can hide themselves on the internet. Anyone can be anyone. At least if you saw someone in real life and the person said he was skinny you can laugh at him when you find out that he's fat because at least you see his physical form.
 
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well, im gonna meet him soon, but my cousin has met him before .. so ...
 
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post Jul 6 2006, 02:35 PM
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Well...if you are sure then you are sure. Nothing should stop your own opinions and beliefs. Hope for the best then.
 
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thanks .. at least someone is a giving me a positive opinion. wink.gif
 
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post Jul 6 2006, 04:01 PM
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uve never seen an up close picture of him? shows that he has something to hide......
 
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post Jul 6 2006, 04:56 PM
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QUOTE(lanbexx @ Jul 6 2006, 4:01 PM) *
uve never seen an up close picture of him? shows that he has something to hide......


Well not everyone has a camera where they can take upclose pictures of themselfs. Maybe he scanned it? Or maybe he didnt. But i dont think you should call her a loser...because arent there like dating services ? Like i see them on commercials & stuff..so why cant she meet someone on myspace..i mean yeah it might not be a good idea but she does get to see well not see but like get to know his personality. & if she's gonna meet up with him then he must not be hiding anything or he would make an excuse not to see her...i know lots of couples who are currently dating on myspace. There might not be that right person out there where we are staying. But she should be careful because you hear aboutt his kinda stuff on the news all the time, but she is meeting him...right..? -
 
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post Jul 6 2006, 05:25 PM
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I think if you have to ask, then it might not be the best idea.
 
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post Jul 6 2006, 05:43 PM
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i find it sort of pathetic
 
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loooooooser, if u have to use myspace to get a boyfriend. seriously are you THAT desperate to get into a relationship??

You know, you can reply without resorting to name calling. And that doesn't make her a loser. I know many people that have hooked up via online methods - My Space is one of them, including a very happily married couple.
 
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post Jul 6 2006, 05:50 PM
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sure that you dont know his real personality in such short time....
 
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post Jul 6 2006, 08:09 PM
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there was this article about myspace.

a girl met this person on myspace that said he was a 16 yr old guy (she was 15 yrs old). they talked and became good friends online. the girl kinda fell for him. then they decided to meet up in real life. he turned out to be 40+ and raped her. then ran away.

just something to think about.

obviously not going to 40+, but u dont know about the rest.

dating services are for people that CAN NOT get a date by normal means. it means theyve got flaws that are so pronounced that they cannot have a steady relationship with a girl by just meeting her in real life.

comeon im telling it how i feel. if ur going to resort to "fall in love" with a guy u met on myspace, dont live near, have never met, and think youre normal, might as well delude urself that being emo isnt bad for ur emotional health.
 
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uhm...well its really pointless ( to me ) but i much rather go out withsomeone who lives around me and i really know them well. but in the end its your decision but guys can easily make up things you want to hear any guy can easily say hes a hot 20 year old model.. he wouldnt care because you dont live near him and stuff and you cant find out if its true. Its your choice.
 
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Not everyone on myspace is a rapist/40 year old predator out to get young women. I mean if you have your facts straight it should turn out just fine. There is a bunch of people I know hooking up on myspace so whatever..
 
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dating services are for people that CAN NOT get a date by normal means. it means theyve got flaws that are so pronounced that they cannot have a steady relationship with a girl by just meeting her in real life.

What in the WORLD?

Um honey, no. First off - everyone has flaws, not just people who use dating services. Like I mentioned before, I know a very happily married couple who meet via online means. Neither of them had problems dating in 'real life', they just found each other online for some reason. Have you ever stopped to think that online or any other type of dating service might be a GOOD way to find someone with similar interests? You might live in a town, date a few men and still have no luck. It doesn't mean that you are incapable of a meaningful or steady relationship, it means that you haven't found the right one.

And for goodness sake, where did:
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might as well delude urself that being emo isnt bad for ur emotional health.
come from?

I'm sorry, I don't mean to go off. I just think it's ridiculously unfair to make such gross generalizations.
 
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post Jul 7 2006, 07:22 PM
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Maybe you should ask for a more clear picture of him, possibly talk to him on the phone... that might make the situation more, easy? But do you even live near him?
 
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post Jul 15 2006, 02:47 PM
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well if you know where he lives then why havent you seen him?....stick with people you know. personalies are wayyy different in real life than online

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post Jul 31 2006, 01:38 AM
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what do you think of internet dating?
sorry if there is a similar topic like this ermm.gif
well I'm dating a guy on the internet right now.
But he lives around 20 minutes away sooo...
otherwise i think internet dating is awkward, waste of time, hopeless, just stupid.
I mean, they could be rapists for all we know
 
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Been there, done that. BAD idea.
 
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i couldn't stand talking to someone on the phone that i met on the internet
awkward um much?
 
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i couldn't stand talking to someone on the phone that i met on the internet
awkward um much?

it won't be awkward if you talked to the person on AIM a lot and one of you is good with starting a conversation
 
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yeah.
but it would still be awkward to me lmao
 
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It's not so weird. Meeting in person is weird. You know the person..yet you don't REALLY know them. Some people when you talk on the phone, you have absolutely nothing to talk about. Others, you kinda click with.
 
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Bad idea. Bad experience with guy from Switzerland. Obsessed with Marilyn Manson.

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my friend found the love of her life online. but for me personally, i would rather be able to see the person face to face, and not drool over their webcam pictures.
 
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Don't do it.


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post Jul 31 2006, 10:36 AM
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It totally depends on the people in the relationship... I mean if both people really put forth an effort then the relationship may succeed. Yes, somepeople just arn't meant for internet dating and cannot do it, but I have seen many successful relationships start out over the internet and accross state boarders.

Internet relationships are alot of work, and take alot of trust and communticaiton. I guess the hard part is that anyone can call you and lie about themselves over the phone or online. You really just have to hurl yourself into the relationship for it to work... I guess it's extremely risky, but if you get lucky enough for both people to be completely honest then you WIN!
 
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yeah ermm.gif
i'm like afraid to tell my mom if i ever get a real internet bf
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It depends on the people. There are many people that find romance online just look at those commercials about E-Harmony and stuff like that. Internet dating can work just depends on if your up to it and truly like someones personality.
 
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jul 31 2006, 11:39 AM) *
It totally depends on the people in the relationship... I mean if both people really put forth an effort then the relationship may succeed. Yes, somepeople just arn't meant for internet dating and cannot do it, but I have seen many successful relationships start out over the internet and accross state boarders.

Internet relationships are alot of work, and take alot of trust and communticaiton. I guess the hard part is that anyone can call you and lie about themselves over the phone or online. You really just have to hurl yourself into the relationship for it to work... I guess it's extremely risky, but if you get lucky enough for both people to be completely honest then you WIN!


I get the sense that those are long-distance relationships you're talking about, not internet dating.. Internet dating's when you ONLY communicate with the person online. Many people think it's the same thing, but it's not.
 
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Then I don't agree with internet dateing... How can you have a relationsihp with someone if you can't even hear their voice... I'm sure somepeople could, but... I know I couldn't
 
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^ It's depressing, but some people do it.

Unless I'm wrong about the whole concept of internet dating? _unsure.gif
 
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i'm like afraid to tell my mom if i ever get a real internet bf
she would get really mad



Hahaha! A REAL internet boyfriend.

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been there done that.. I felt so stupid as i do now. I am so glad I have a real boy friend. :-)
 
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internet dating is so beat, takes out almost all the fun outa relationships like going out together for starters
 
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I say no to internet dating.

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It depends on how much you trust him I guess..I wouldn`t do it if I`ve never met him before.
 
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Rapists? And people talk about me being too paranoid!

I approve of relationships, as long as it is a RELATIONSHIP, not just like my sister does.

Boy (on IMVU): Will you go out with me!?
Sis (whos never had a guy): YESYESYES
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Sis: I had a bf, and I broke up with him.
Me: Wait, who, why, when, where?!
Sis: Eh, he was always wanting to be around me, oh and on IMVU
Me: Well, boyfriends tend to do that, was he too pervy or something?

you catch my drift anyway.

Where as I, only date someone I've known for awhile. AKA Mich. You know, my cB stalker.. Posts almost everywhere I do?

I knew Michael 3-4 years before we started dating, he comes to visit when he can... We've been together.. *counts again* 17 months andd... 5 days! See, things can work, it really, REALLY, just depends on the maturity of the people. &well, the people themselves.

It also depends on their standards, the person(s) have to like internet dating, if they don't then it won't work... Well, it might. I hate him being soo flipping far away :( But I put up with it, day to day.

He's moving here next summer =)

K, I'm done. Haha, time to read everyone elses words. <33

(obviously, I said yes to e-dating)

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internet dating is weird...I don't understand it
I would never do it
 
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I'm just gonna say that it pretty much takes the "date" out of "dating" unless you're actually going out with that person, like in your case.
 
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I'm not a big fan of internet dating. It's something that most people do at least once when they're really young, like, twelve or thirteen, because no one really dates at that age anyway (at least we didn't when I was that age), but I don't think it's a good idea if you're older than that. But, what can I say - my mom met her boyfriend on the internet and now he lives with us. mellow.gif
 
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^ lmao
my family would never really approve of it :/
 
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I would never do it.
But my friend, Vanessa does it.
And yeah..
i'm not such a big fan of it either.
but its been working out for her.. so idk.
 
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post Aug 1 2006, 01:49 PM
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No, no, no. It doesn't work! Nooo!
 
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i couldn't stand talking to someone on the phone that i met on the internet
awkward um much?

I don't think it's weird. Like, the first convo can be pretty awkward, but you get used to it.

Anyways, I'd say internet dating is basically pointless. I mean come on, what if the person is just lying about everything? I'd rather have no boyfriend than an eBoyfriend.
 
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internet conversation between internetgirlfriend and internet boyfriend:

Girl: hey hunny I miss you
Boy: I miss you to babe
G: E-Kiss
B: E-kiss back
G: Aww I love how you kiss me
B: yes your kisses are nice
G: I wish we could do that in real life
B: yeah same here
G: ok well I gotta go E-Hug
B: E-Hug back!

bad or good you decide.
 
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^ that just makes it sound more pathetic lmao
more than it already is
 
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(^x2) It's not like that :(

Hollz, where are you, I could use some back up =P
 
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QUOTE(dangjer @ Aug 1 2006, 3:12 PM) *
internet conversation between internetgirlfriend and internet boyfriend:

Girl: hey hunny I miss you
Boy: I miss you to babe
G: E-Kiss
B: E-kiss back
G: Aww I love how you kiss me
B: yes your kisses are nice
G: I wish we could do that in real life
B: yeah same here
G: ok well I gotta go E-Hug
B: E-Hug back!

bad or good you decide.


Thats not how internet relationships work. internet relationships are just like normal relationships just without all the hugging and kissing and etc. really people who do 'real' internet relationships (being people who know who there dating and are willing to go all the way with it) show that they can accually cope without all the hugging and kissing and everything else. to be honest internet relationships show that you have the patience and you can survive without all the touching.

What you said up there makes it all sound like a big joke. but the heart tells no difference between a net relationship and a real one

yeah im all up for the internet relationship as long as you treat it like a normal one, and you know who your dating. i have a relationship "over the internet" but i dont class it as a joke because im willing to go all the way with it. i goto my girlfriends house when ever i can do because i love her like that. no matter how far away we are it doesnt change anything (appart from missing her and stuff).

So yeah, im all up for it.
 
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they are all flirts.
 
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I've alway thought it's really weird to date anyone over the internet. Who knows if he's really the guy he says he is...what if he's a perv or a totally psychotic person?
 
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I'd really get to know him first before calling him a boyfriend. I'm not against internet dating..because I've done it (just not with myspace, but yahoo.)..none of it worked out for me..but yeah..I'd reallly be careful about what kind of guy he is. Espically since he is from the internet after all..
 
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jul 31 2006, 8:39 AM) *
Internet relationships are alot of work, and take alot of trust and communticaiton. I guess the hard part is that anyone can call you and lie about themselves over the phone or online. You really just have to hurl yourself into the relationship for it to work... I guess it's extremely risky, but if you get lucky enough for both people to be completely honest then you WIN!



What a load. Obviously, you've never been in a 'net relationship. You might as well say that you're friends that are e-crushing on each other. There's no point to dating this way. It would never work unless you're committted and someone moves to be with the other. Even then, you're not guaranteed it would work anyway. So, hardly anyone makes such a BIG decision for something that is rather uncertain. IT'S A WASTE OF TIME. I'm not going to call those people losers because I've been there but don't think it'll work out. It's a longshot and you won't hit the target. Sorry. If you feel otherwise, I feel bad for ya cause you'll wake up one day.
 
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IMO, online realtionships are stupid.
but they seem to be working out for other people.. so idk.
 
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It matters who you are and what your opinons are. I don't think their stupid, yea there may be some fakes out there but if you have a good head on your shoulders and know what your doing I think you'll be just fine. Plenty of people have met on the internet and plenty of people have met on myspace as well. Myspace is a place to get to know people. Although since its gotten so big there are some fake people and its your choice on weather or not you do and don't do.

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Girl: hey hunny I miss you
Boy: I miss you to babe
G: E-Kiss
B: E-kiss back
G: Aww I love how you kiss me
B: yes your kisses are nice
G: I wish we could do that in real life
B: yeah same here
G: ok well I gotta go E-Hug
B: E-Hug back!

thats borderline pathetic in which never happens.


I don't find it to be a waste of time, but thats only my opinion. Some people are great to meet online because you can't know everyone by the small place you live at. I have met some really neat people over the internet, and aparently plenty of people have on createblog. If not then I don't see why you guys keep coming back.

Real internet relationships are just as normal as relationships in which you get to see each other all the time.


sorry crystal.


anyway anything xcrys and xmy_sweet_revengex say, i agree with about 100%
 
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ahhhhh!
online relationships = bad bad bad idea.
people are so much different in person than online.
get out if it while you caaaaan.

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Jeez, I have had much more possitive expierences from it... I can't say it's bad as long as you both have honest communication.
 
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Just cause you get along online, doesn't mean you have anything in common in real life. I know this because of the net friends that I had that I would talk to on the phone, guy or girl. Even if the person isn't a creep and is honest, doesn't mean you're a match. It's not worth trying.
 
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I had trouble re-finding this topic because it changed from online dating to myspace dating..

Thankz for catchin up to us Hollz, I was starting to need back up, because no one believes that online relationships are just the same as irl.

As Michael said: "internet relationships are just like normal relationships just without all the hugging and kissing and etc."

That's exactly what they are if you put effort into it. Otherwise, it's pointless!

If you read what Mike, Holly, Josh and I have said, you'll understand why we approve of them.

AAANNNNNNNNYWAYYYY.
-->> MySpace... A lot of fakes nowadays, but read everything everyones said, make your decision based off that.
 
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Yeah, even bands on myspace are becoming fake and what not. so myspace relations aint the best i dont think, tho it doesnt matter where you go if you say "hello" 'hi' "will you go out with me?" 'yes!' then whats the point in that, i knew crys about 4 years before we started going out. at 1st i even held it back because i wanted to see her irl before hand. but i thought about it and i thought "i know her enough, and i know that i love her" it didnt need a hug or a kiss or ever for me to be infront of her to know that i love her, all i needed was some form of contact, and i got it. Internet relationships aint all pedos, you people have to see this
 
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Tell me you don't seriously believe that internet relationships are like real life? How old are you?


I SERIOUSLY HOPE YOU'RE NOT FOR REAL.
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I'm 18 in oh.. persay 7 days? omg.gif

And yes, I'm flipping serious. I don't joke about matters of the heart, thankz, much.

&I'm SURE, Mike, Josh and Holly, ALL agree with me.

 
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I agree with Crystal [xcrys]100% always. Easepcially about this subject.

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Just cause you get along online, doesn't mean you have anything in common in real life. I know this because of the net friends that I had that I would talk to on the phone, guy or girl. Even if the person isn't a creep and is honest, doesn't mean you're a match. It's not worth trying.


and what if you met in real life?
Please tell me..

I honestly think that people can have relationships on the interenet. They can't always have it just on the internet of course. They have to meet eventually and if they meet and it goes great and they have to go back home. Then aparently interenet relationships didn't go wrong?
 
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i agree with crys i disagree with the ass above her. i bet you that person doesnt like internet relationships because you cant have sex in them =\. ill say it again. the heart isnt in the eyes, it isnt in the mouth, it isnt in the finger tips. the heart is inside, how you express how it feels is completly up to you. but i for one dont mind internet relations as long as there real ones. not just lame perthetic ones that you have just because you want someone.
 
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cry.gif That was beatiful Mike.

err well the middle part was, so in other words I agree with Mike all the time as well...
And well that would be xcrys boyfriend as well.

Oh and I'm Holly
and Josh would be Uronacid.


Honestly, i think we know what were talking about when it comes to this subject. We've been through it and we've met the person were in relationships with. I don't think Crystal and Mike met through myspace though. But me and Josh did.
 
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Nah, we (Mike &I) met through a DBZ ...(ahaha) chatroom when we were 13 :)

 
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I've been through all this already. I've had the relationship, met the guy and so on and so forth. Did it work out? No. Do I hugely regret it? ABSOLUTELY. The person you meet online is NEVER the exact same person you meet in person. Please prepare yourself for that. And it doesn't work out for real unless you decide to settle down and actually MOVE for the other person. After a while, you just get tired of being with the person you 'love'. Maybe you two will worth out but it's a slim chance that you will. Unless you meet soon, one of you guys will move on when someone else comes along or you'll just get tired of the waiting all together.


SORRY. That's just how it is..unless you live in the same town.
 
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DBZ kicked ass, and thanks holly. okay i gotta stay on topic. i have a bad habbit of going completely off topic x.x so how the weather there everyone? lol. make sure i stayy on topic. uhh.

- edit. yeah some internet relationships dont work out. but neither do some irl relationships. you just gotta find the person whos right for you.
 
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Did you read the part where.. Holls already met Josh, and I've already met Mike IRL?

Or howabout the part... Where.. Mikes moving here next summer, after he graduates college....

Just because of YOUR expirences, doesn't mean it WON'T work out for everyone else. K?

Don't make everyone feel like crap just because your relationship didnt work.. o_O

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Some? Let's be honest and say 98%, ok? And those 2% may get deeply involved, get married and in a couple years get divorced.

Sorry to burst your bubble, kids.

QUOTE(xCrys @ Aug 3 2006, 11:04 PM) *
Did you read the part where.. Holls already met Josh, and I've already met Mike IRL?

Or howabout the part... Where.. Mikes moving here next summer, after he graduates college....

Just because of YOUR expirences, doesn't mean it WON'T work out for everyone else. K?

Don't make everyone feel like crap just because your relationship didnt work.. o_O

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Learn to spell and maybe then, I'll take you a little seriously.
 
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Sorry to burst your bubble, hun. But, the DIVORICE rate is going up: why? Not because people met online, but because of either (A) Too many Arguements (B) "Change" of heart ... © Married before they knew the person or.. (D) They got married at too young of an age.

Sorry to disagree with what you say, but Just because you're 2 years older than I am, doesn't mean you are able to call us out, and to act like you know wayy more.

You can't say 2% either, because you have no facts to back you up.

There are SOO many dating services nowadays, like E-Harmony, that ACTUALLY work.

& To be honest, I'd rather know them through some online dating service than meet them at a bar. (gawd I hate alcoholics)

When you can prove that Online relationships that turn into the real thing, you know, marriage :: That have a greater Divorice rate than meeting a person online; then you can put percentages into this topic.


Edit:
Learn to spell? What, I spelled "Rawked" instead of "Rocked"?
Talk about childish, when we go off topic and talk about SPELLING instead of what the topic is truly about :)

--Edit, bedtime; because someone in here is giving me a headache.
 
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im so gonna get warned for spamming, so this is gonna be one of my last comments tonight. i agree (again) with crys. just think about things for a minute even all you net relationship haters sure you may have had a relation ship with someone from the net and it didnt work out. im sure most of you had irl ones that didnt work out either. but thats not the point. when you get into a friendship on the net you get the basic idea of what the persons like. when you start dating you get more of the picture. when you meet irl, there completly different no? well accually. when i went to see crys for the 1st time, yeah she was abit different, but she wasnt different because thats how she is, she was different because she was seeing someone shed known for 4 years, you ever thought of that? everyone i know acts the same on the internet as they do irl. some just get a little nervous (ok i dunno where im getting with this so im gonna get to the point). if an internet relationship doesnt work, dont say "it didnt work never again!" thats like, eating makes you sick so you never eat again, you get me? not everything works how you want it 1st or even 50th time but you cant just put it dead like that nor can you tell everyone else it doesnt work because you tried it once and it didnt work. i want everyone to know that, dont just judge somthing because theres pedofiles and theres kids who just want a relationship so they can bost about it. dont even say anything untill your 100% sure that an internet relationship is pointless. and you can never be 100% because look at how us 4 are ending up.

quick edit - this is my last post coz im talking babble also will that ass up there^^ quit whining?
 

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