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 Jul 4 2006, 10:01 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel  Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105  |
as i was goin through my bfs things i came across his learners permit. the b-day it said 1989, but he claimed he was 18, and you dont mess up age on these certain documents. i dont want to seem like a snoop so i dunno if im gonna bring it up but it sorta makes me wonder if he lied about this, what else is he hiding. i trust him and all but still...how would yall feel if you found this out?
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Jul 4 2006, 10:04 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
i remember mark twain has a quote, "age is an issue of mind over matter. if you don't mind, it doesn't matter"
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Jul 4 2006, 10:06 PM
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 your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 |
I dunno about that.
If he lied about his age, it's serious to me. But, that's just my opinion. 
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Jul 4 2006, 10:35 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
To me..if my friend lied..I would be mad. I wouldn`t trust that person anymore.
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Jul 4 2006, 10:49 PM
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your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 |
^ Exactly.
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Jul 4 2006, 11:42 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
My first question. Is he Asian? Because you know, many Asians tend to add an extra year to their age due to Chinese New Year.
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Jul 5 2006, 09:20 AM
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sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
no hes not. its just age but also he has no reason to lie about age. actually no reason to lie at all...hes told everybody hes 18 so i know its not just me but still
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Jul 5 2006, 11:58 AM
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^well if you so worried about it, Just tell him you came about his permit and it had a different year of birth then what he claims to be.
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Jul 5 2006, 12:09 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I say just bring it up with him. If your boyfriend is loyal and trustworthy, he'll explain as to why he claims to be eighteen and yet his permit says differently.
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Jul 5 2006, 12:26 PM
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^ Or you can always dropkick him and call him a lying bastard.
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Jul 5 2006, 02:13 PM
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sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jul 5 2006, 1:26 PM)  ^ Or you can always dropkick him and call him a lying bastard. that might work...i mentioned i had his id card, and there was different year on his b-day and he said it was a fake one, luckly he kept the "real" one at home....but why would someone need an id card that gives a younger age... |
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Jul 5 2006, 02:24 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Call him out on it. Thats ridicoulas.
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Jul 5 2006, 02:33 PM
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 worship me or i'll stab you Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,634 |
QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jul 5 2006, 1:26 PM) ^ Or you can always dropkick him and call him a lying bastard. ^agreed |
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Jul 5 2006, 02:40 PM
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Well if your dropkick him and call him a lying bastad and then just so happens he wasen't lying at all, what do you do then?
I find it highly impossible for him to be lying at this point. but something to think on |
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Jul 5 2006, 06:41 PM
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and well...
it seems like he is very young... so i cant decide either A or Z... but anyway... I also got lie my age to mygirlfriend..! |
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Jul 5 2006, 10:32 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Did you ever wonder maybe he really was born in 1989 and his birthday is just early, like in January. When is his birthday ? Maybe this might make things clearer.
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Jul 6 2006, 02:18 AM
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QUOTE(tainted_angel @ Jul 5 2006, 12:09 PM) I say just bring it up with him. If your boyfriend is loyal and trustworthy, he'll explain as to why he claims to be eighteen and yet his permit says differently. i agree. and if he seems to be denying it, then maybe it`s not worth it. |
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Jul 8 2006, 10:54 PM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
your boyfriend is supposed to be one of the people you trust most. if you can't trust him to tell you the truth about something so simple like age, what can you trust him for?
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Jul 8 2006, 11:39 PM
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QUOTE b' date='Jul 5 2006, 8:32 PM' post='2134834'] Did you ever wonder maybe he really was born in 1989 and his birthday is just early, like in January. When is his birthday ? Maybe this might make things clearer. that might be the case, when is his birthday? well, just ask him about it, see what he says. it is true though, if he has the real ID, why would anyone need a fake one with a younger age? odd. or maybe they messed up on that, and he got a newer one thats correct and thats the one he has? how long have you known him? |
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Jul 9 2006, 01:55 AM
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QUOTE b' date='Jul 5 2006, 8:32 PM' post='2134834'] Did you ever wonder maybe he really was born in 1989 and his birthday is just early, like in January. When is his birthday ? Maybe this might make things clearer. But... he still can't be 18.  Well, if he tells everyone he knows,and not just you, that he's 18, I'm not sure what to make of that... I guess there's a possibility that he messed up the age while getting his learner's permit, but of course, that wouldn't make much sense either... I say you should just ask him about it. It wasn't as if you were snooping through his things. If he has nothing to hide, then talking to him about this subject shouldn't hurt or anger him. |
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Jul 9 2006, 10:46 AM
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sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
his birthdays in november. but even if it was in january he still wouldnt be 18. and i did ask him about it, he said it was a fake id. but nobody in their right mind would need a fake id two years younger than they really are. and i thought maybe its just a typo, but why would you need to keep a messed up permit.
another thing is he works as a mechanic for a dealership. and you need a license to test drive the car, i believe. then again in virginia the person has to be over 21. but how would do you have to be to work in a car garage? |
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Jul 9 2006, 10:50 AM
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Just askkk himmmm.
If you two are in a good enough relationship you should be able to talk about everything and anything. You should take the permit to him, and say I'm sorry, but I came upon this. And I'm worried and then tell him what you worried about. Are you scared to do that or something? |
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Jul 9 2006, 12:49 PM
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sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
i did ask him, and he said it was a fake id!!!
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Jul 9 2006, 01:20 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
^ Why would he have a fake ID that shows that he's less than 18?
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Jul 9 2006, 01:38 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(deadgiveaway @ Jul 8 2006, 11:55 PM) But... he still can't be 18. Well, if he tells everyone he knows,and not just you, that he's 18, I'm not sure what to make of that... I guess there's a possibility that he messed up the age while getting his learner's permit, but of course, that wouldn't make much sense either... I say you should just ask him about it. It wasn't as if you were snooping through his things. If he has nothing to hide, then talking to him about this subject shouldn't hurt or anger him. But.... yes he can. QUOTE(lyin_in_wait @ Jul 9 2006, 10:49 AM) i did ask him, and he said it was a fake id!!! Did you ask him what his real age was as well ? Stop beating around the bush and ask him straight instead of stressing about it |
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