Should I Keep Waiting For Her Or Forget It? |
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 Jul 2 2006, 04:03 PM
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 Ne0 Is The One  Group: Member Posts: 1,348 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,349  |
Well. It been a year since me and her got together and we went out for about a few weeks until something happened that ended our relationship.
I still had feelings for her over the year but we kept it in a friend relationship (even thought I tried to ask her out another time but that turned out bad when she had to choice between me and this other guy and she choice the other guy). Well. About a month or so ago, she told me that she been waiting for me to ask her out for about a week (after we been spending time together and all). So I ask her out right there but since then, we still haven't gotten together in a relationship way. It been a month and im still thinking about whether to continue to wait for her or just forget her. I also liked her and cared about her and been their for her when she needed me and she knows that. I thinking the problem is that she afraid of having a relationship with me again because of a reason I have no idea what it is. I ask around and seems, she been asking her best friend and her brother whether to or not go out with me and yet, when I bring the subject up, she just doesn't give me a honest yes or no answer. So what should I do? Continue to wait or just forget it and just ignore her. Im afraid of one thing, that I would lose her to another guy and my last chance with her be gone. |
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Jul 2 2006, 04:24 PM
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Why not just take her somewhere and just talk to her and tell her how you feel, like that you care about her and such but you don't want to lose her to another guy like you did before. And ask her what shes afraid of. Be caring and want to know whats bothering her and her fears are.
If you really like her and want to be in a relationship with her, then don't give up. Its up to you in the end. |
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Jul 2 2006, 04:29 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
QUOTE(This Confession @ Jul 2 2006, 4:24 PM)  If you really like her and want to be in a relationship with her, then don't give up. Its up to you in the end. Really. You gotta nudge her on. Help her see through your eyes and how you feeeel. |
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Jul 2 2006, 08:45 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Looks like you should tell her your feelings.Maybe she does still like you? Since she doesn`t know.
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Jul 4 2006, 12:39 AM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
I say forget her. She is too indecisive. First she goes out with you, then she <b>chooses</b> (not <b>choices</b>) another guy, then she wants you back, then she doesn't want you becuase she just can't make up her mind.
Unless you truly "love" her. |
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