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 Jul 1 2006, 09:13 PM
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hey guys and gurls whats up? nm here i have a quick question k.
im almost 16 and have had a bf  yet does that make me ugly or sumthing seriously  i have had a lot of crush and all but u know no bf  ne ways get back to me on this all righty Ashly |
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Jul 1 2006, 09:17 PM
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 Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
do you mean you never had a bf? because you say 'have had a bf' but later on you say 'u know no bf'.
it doesn't mean you're ugly. that's... quite a silly question. don't rush into a relationship for the sake of having one. chill, relax, and wait. lots of people haven't had a bf/gf even when they go into college. |
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Jul 1 2006, 09:21 PM
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i know i shouldnt rush into a relationship or any thing but still its frustrating cause every one in my school is like pairing off well not now cuz its summer but still they were oh and i have never had a bf in my life time yet
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Jul 1 2006, 09:23 PM
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Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
it still doesn't matter. dating isn't all it's crack up to be. just cause everyone else is paired off doesn't require you to be.
like i said, chillax. |
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Jul 1 2006, 09:24 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
LOL YOU PROBABLY HAVE A FACE DISEASE
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Jul 1 2006, 09:27 PM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
^
 it doesn't matter that you don't have a boyfriend. really, there are more important things. don't worry! there's someone out there for you. |
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Jul 1 2006, 09:43 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
Everyone goes at their own pace. Who knows..you might find someone later and turn out to be "the one", unlike others who get boyfriends suuuper early and just get heartbroken. I'm not saying that you can't find "the one" at an earlier age though..
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Jul 1 2006, 09:48 PM
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well from what i got of your post.
it makes me think of that story i think it is. or quote actually. Girls are like apples. The best ones are at the top and the icky ones are at the bottom and guys are to lazy or scared to get a ladder and go to the top of the tree to get the good apples so they stick with the icky ones at the bottom. But eventually one day a guy will come around and bring a ladder and go to the top and pick the best one he sees in his eyes. It takes patience. 
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Jul 1 2006, 09:49 PM
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airam Posted: Jul 1 2006, 9:24 PM
LOL YOU PROBABLY HAVE A FACE DISEASE  so not nice i have no diseace what so ever  newaysi geuss i can try to be more unfrustrated about it i guess it wont hurt ne one |
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Jul 1 2006, 09:49 PM
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Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
 nice analogy, holly.
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Jul 1 2006, 09:51 PM
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 why thank you. |
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Jul 1 2006, 10:08 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 430,421 |
Girls are like apples. The best ones are at the top and the icky ones are at the bottom and guys are to lazy or scared to get a ladder and go to the top of the tree to get the good apples so they stick with the icky ones at the bottom. But eventually one days a guy will come around and bring a ladder and go to the top and pick the best one he sees in his eyes.
hey that makes perfect sence guys are lazy lol   marzipan Posted: Jul 1 2006, 9:27 PM ^ it doesn't matter that you don't have a boyfriend. really, there are more important things. don't worry! there's someone out there for you i understand that they rnt the most important thing which makes me smart loland i geuss having a bf isnt every thing |
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Jul 1 2006, 11:41 PM
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 You can call me Jon Group: Duplicate Posts: 878 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,806 |
Patience. If there's anything you'll learn about love, is that it takes time.
It's not you. Love is not something that should change something about someone in order for them to be loved. The people that truly love you are the people who can love you for who you are, and not what you should be. You'll find that person soon enough. |
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Jul 1 2006, 11:58 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
There are a lot of people here who don`t have gf/bf yet.Don`t worry..the right one will come soon.
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Jul 2 2006, 06:26 PM
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im 17 and im with the first guy who has even been close to a bf...but hes not ym bf and ive never had a bf...i always thought im getting a wayy late start but ive recently realized that alot of ppl had their first bf at 17 or 16...and also... since ive never ogne thru stupid hs crushes or boyfs or hookups...it made my relationship now so much stronger....its not like "oh another bf" cuz what are u really dating for? to look 4 marriage no?? so whne ur 13/14 do u really need a boyf?? just cuz other ppl re dating doent mean u haftaa be
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Jul 2 2006, 07:34 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
Dude. Hold your horses. I know people who are like, in their 20s who never had a bf/gf yet.
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Jul 3 2006, 09:39 PM
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Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
QUOTE(clutzyme4u_10 @ Jul 1 2006, 10:08 PM)  i understand that they rnt the most important thing which makes me smart loland i geuss having a bf isnt every thing that's the spirit!
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Jul 3 2006, 09:42 PM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
being ugly has nothing to do with it. even if you were which i highly doubt, it isn't right for a guy to like you completely based upon appearance now is it.. you just haven't found someone who has the same amount of attraction towards you as you have towards them &theres nothing wrong with that. casual dating is fun but most people just do it in high school for the instant payoff, not long term. it's great; but sometimes it hurts if it doesn't last.
you'll find someone. |
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Jul 4 2006, 04:26 PM
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 Mrs. Delonge Group: Member Posts: 426 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,185 |
Think of it this way...
not having a boyfriend is a good thing. you get time to learn more about yourself through yourself, and you can become more dependent. you shouldn't have a boyfriend unless you can live without him. boys aren't everything, and once you realize that, you're ready. and even if you ARE ready (which i assume you are.... being as youre almost 16, and have said that you know they're not everything) it's still good to wait until you're almost old enough to get married... Because that's the whole point of dating. That's why if I were to have a boyfriend it would be absolutely retarded. All those people at your school that are pairing up are not going to be pairs forever. you shouldn't have to be frustrated about it, just think of the fact that it wouldn't even last so it would be pointless. work on other things in your life right now :] |
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Jul 4 2006, 09:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
maybe its confidence that you need..if you have no confidence..then give up
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Jul 4 2006, 09:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
They are a lot of ugly people out there with boyfriends.
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Jul 4 2006, 09:51 PM
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 L!ckitySplit Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
look at bobby brown
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Jul 4 2006, 09:56 PM
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I know this person named Annie whom I met at Duke TIP. She had blond hair and was beautiful. She had her first relationship when she was 16. I'm pretty sure it doesn't mean you're ugly. She deffinately wasn't and it's true that ugly people have boyfriends too. Back to the point. Don't worry about it. You will find one or one will find you.
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Jul 4 2006, 09:57 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 12 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 428,762 |
u just havent found the right guy. be patient and it will happen, but u have to be patient.
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Jul 4 2006, 11:07 PM
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 your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 |
Yeah, I'm almost 15 and the same way.
I've had tons of crushes & stuff. I got so close to this guy this year - we got to be friends and then I got one of my friends to tell him that I like him, pretending that I didn't know, just in case, and it turned out that he liked one of my best friends. Nothing actually happened between them, but, I've liked him for the whole year on & off, and at times it seemed like he liked me too, but nothing actually has happened between us either. I really do want a boyfriend, but, now I'm starting to worry that it'll never happen.
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Jul 4 2006, 11:56 PM
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 CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
QUOTE(airam @ Jul 1 2006, 10:24 PM) LOL YOU PROBABLY HAVE A FACE DISEASE 'nuff said |
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Jul 5 2006, 11:17 AM
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on being ugly- if that's the reason you haven't had one, great. people that wouldnt' look twice because of that are morons and you dont' need to waste your time on them.
yeah, the whole "never had a boyfriend" thing sucks and all, but it doesnt' mean that something is seriously wrong with you. |
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Jul 6 2006, 09:32 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
ur not ugly just be patient believe me if you rush things your prolly end up with the wrong guy.
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