depressed..., he broke up with me because.. Options

[LiSFORLiNDA]

one day before our one month & he breaks up with me :[
he says he cant have a successful relationship because he works too much.yeah wtf ever, what did i do to deserve this? Man all i've done was show him how much i care for him & be there when he needs me. Shit how can you love someone one night & be talkign like your soul mates then the next night you break it off. It took him almost a month to realize that he doesnt have time for a relationship....

i miss him so badly :[ - i mean you always talk about "crying yourself to sleep" yeah well when you actually do it..its a horrible feeling..your last thoughts before your off to lala land. i had heartbreaking dreams;UGH then when i woke up im like this isnt real but when i look at my phone i have to make myself believe its real.[we were texting] It doesnt seem real ya know what i mean ? its like is there anything i could've done that would have stopped this ? but even if there was its not like i have a remote to rewind what happen like in the movies...too bad life isnt like the movies- i just want him back so badly

i know this is like another "breakup" post but i just needed to let it all out :(

[*krnxswat*]

It's alright. We all go through that once in awhile.
What you need to do is stop dwelling on the past, and look to the future. The world isn't over because of one stupid break-up. Sure, you guys may have had a few good memories here and there, but it's time to make many more with others. Don't make it obvious you're dying without him. Show him that you're perfectly fine without him; that'll get to him. Move on; flirt with other people; whatever you need to do to get him off your mind.

Feel better!

[*ECD & C0*]

if you want him back find another guy and make him jelous so he will come back to you.

[technicolour]

It's alright. We all go through that once in awhile.
What you need to do is stop dwelling on the past, and look to the future. The world isn't over because of one stupid break-up. Sure, you guys may have had a few good memories here and there, but it's time to make many more with others. Don't make it obvious you're dying without him. Show him that you're perfectly fine without him; that'll get to him. Move on; flirt with other people; whatever you need to do to get him off your mind.

Feel better!

Uhm, yes. Exactly.

[Tribal J_Rome]

It's alright. We all go through that once in awhile.
What you need to do is stop dwelling on the past, and look to the future. The world isn't over because of one stupid break-up. Sure, you guys may have had a few good memories here and there, but it's time to make many more with others. Don't make it obvious you're dying without him. Show him that you're perfectly fine without him; that'll get to him. Move on; flirt with other people; whatever you need to do to get him off your mind.

Feel better!

Yeah, what Seon Ho Said. Thinking about him is a good way to keep yourself depressed. It might take time to move on, but who knows, you might get over him faster than you think.

[pinayprincess]

you have to look at his side too.. i understand your all sad but you have to understand his point of view of it

[LiSFORLiNDA]

i dont get it he texted my friend & she forward it to me & he siad he would rather have me but he doesnt want me being sad because he isnt around. Im more sad & upset now then ever. I mean i dont feel like he isnt around because we go to the movies every saturday & he always comes over my house & we're always on the phone. so i dont know if thats juts some lame excuse he wnated to give me..but i think we're still friends he gets off at 4 so im gonna call him in and hour & see whats up

[Spec_R]

but how far away does he live from you? Like in another states or in the same town? No matter how busy he is, if he love/like you then he will make room in his time for you. I have the same problem with my ex-gf. She said she's too busy for me, but then I found out that she went to clubs and danced with other guys. Broke my heart...I drank a lot and cried also. Those kind of people are losers, not worth thinking about them. Hope you feel better soon

[AngelinaTaylor]

It's good to let it out. But don't let it bother you for too long - it wasn't even a month. And it sounds like he isn't worth it.. so don't waste your time worrying about it. You deserve better.

Taylor``

[tooeffingcrazy]

It was one month, calm down. How old are you? There are plenty of other fishes in the sea.

Don't show him how desperate you are, or depressed. It only makes him feel more superior. You're letting yourself look stupid if he actually knows this about you. One month cannot kill you, you barley "loved" him as you stated.

[Gypsy Eyes]

^a lot can happen in "only one month."

What sean ho said is exactly right. Go out with your friends and have fun. That usually helps a little during the day but if you get upset at night, cry or write it down. When things get bad write a letter to him, you don't even have to give it to him. It really does help


[off topic] since when is sean ho sensitive?[/offtopic]

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

like everybody said dont be desperate around him show him that you are strong.. it is really alot to feel over someone especially with just a month of realtionship but i kno lots of stuff can go on and its really painful. just be strong and occupy yourself with other things that isnt about him..if he really loves you he will come back to you and if he does not then just move on because if he cant figure out what he wants more his job or his girlfriend then he is really not worth it.. FEEL BETTER! AND GOOD LUCK!

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

It's alright. We all go through that once in awhile.
What you need to do is stop dwelling on the past, and look to the future. The world isn't over because of one stupid break-up. Sure, you guys may have had a few good memories here and there, but it's time to make many more with others. Don't make it obvious you're dying without him. Show him that you're perfectly fine without him; that'll get to him. Move on; flirt with other people; whatever you need to do to get him off your mind.

Feel better!

Sean Ho being nice ? WHAT THE, ITS A SIGN OF THE APOCOLYPSE.



Been there, been through that. But its exactly as sean ho said. I know how you'r efeeling right now, but Im better now and eventually you will be too. Just let yourself feel all the raw pain, grow stronger from it and move on. There will always be someone else who can sweep you off your feet and treat you the way you deserve to be treated

[LiSFORLiNDA]

Thank you so much everyone.

[PrincessAda]

You should give him some time..he`ll probably come back..if he doesn`t..find another man.

[angel-roh]

That happened to me once. IT PISSED ME OFF SO DAMMN MUCH!!! and hurt me reallll good.

But yours and mine is different. Yours is work and his is.... college.

He's like "I'm too busy in college, so I don't have time with you"

YEAH RIGHT. shoreline community college, they dont give you a lot of work!!!!!!!! and WHAT NOW?! I HEAR YOU FREAKING GO EVERY FRIDAY CLUB NIGHT DANCING WITH BTCHING GIRLS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

man... i was sooooooooooooooooooo MADDDDDDDDDDDDDDD THAT TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


i really dont care if he gets hit by a car and die cause I GOT SO PISSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I TRIED TO DO EVERYTHING HE WANTS ME TO BE AND DO WHAT TO MAKE HIM HAPPY AND WHAT HE GIVES ME?!?!?! SHTS?!?!?!?

ok im done -_-;;

[HelplessCry]

in the words of my good friend/cousin there is no time limit on getting over someone it might take days, weeks, months, years... but you know what you being there for him and caring for him. thats great! shows how your a really true person unlike him. but he has his reasons, which might be true. but when you finnaly do move on which i believe you will. don't forget... every moment in your life is precious. even the insignificant moments. each one prepares you for another moment. so when you do move on and your finally happy. he'll regret that he ever left you. while hes off being all busy and what not haha

[LiSFORLiNDA]

in the words of my good friend/cousin there is no time limit on getting over someone it might take days, weeks, months, years... but you know what you being there for him and caring for him. thats great! shows how your a really true person unlike him. but he has his reasons, which might be true. but when you finnaly do move on which i believe you will. don't forget... every moment in your life is precious. even the insignificant moments. each one prepares you for another moment. so when you do move on and your finally happy. he'll regret that he ever left you. while hes off being all busy and what not haha

You've made me feel so much better :)

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

It's alright. We all go through that once in awhile.
What you need to do is stop dwelling on the past, and look to the future. The world isn't over because of one stupid break-up. Sure, you guys may have had a few good memories here and there, but it's time to make many more with others. Don't make it obvious you're dying without him. Show him that you're perfectly fine without him; that'll get to him. Move on; flirt with other people; whatever you need to do to get him off your mind.

Feel better!

Agreed. Well put Sean Ho.

[HelplessCry]

You've made me feel so much better :)

im glad :D hope everything works out :3

[*Uronacid*]

Hey, you need to be glad that he didn't do this 3-4 months down the road. If you're thankful you can probably salvage the relationship by just being friends...

Also, there are probably more reasons to him breaking it off with you. The reason he gae you just might just be 1 of them. He did say he would rather be with you than anyone else... it's possible that he doesn't want to date people at all. Maybe he just didn't see it working in the long run. You never know. It's accually more intelligent to wait and date rather thatn date in highschool. You have to worry about all the bullshit drama running through the school, and it can really work towards your dissadvantage.

Look at it this way, at least you can still be friends with him. I did the same thing to my ex-girlfriend grace, and she is one of the best friends I know.

For some reason you ex was not happy with the relationship. So, he cut it off. There is nothing wrong with that. It takes two. You can like him all you want and with all your might, but if he doesn't feel right about the realtionsip. You need to accept that and settle with what he has to offer you.