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 Jun 26 2006, 06:48 PM
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umn.. do ya'll think it's too early to have sex at the age of 15?
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Jun 26 2006, 07:04 PM
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Personally I think yes. I think people should have sex at 16 or greater.
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Jun 26 2006, 07:30 PM
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No, not really. I mean, I don't know. Whenever you're ready I guess. Personally fifteen probably the youngest in my opinion. 15 + but that's just me.
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Jun 26 2006, 07:39 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
I think it's too early. But it really depends on if you are ready for it.
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Jun 26 2006, 07:46 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
For me yes, but if you feel ready and can handle the consequences, then it's fine.
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Jun 26 2006, 08:28 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
If you have to ask, then yes it is.
Even if you don't ask, yes it is. Think about the wonderful time when you get pregnat :) Taylor`` |
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Jun 26 2006, 08:28 PM
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 lx Group: Member Posts: 300 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,440 |
too early
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Jun 26 2006, 08:35 PM
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QUOTE Personally I think yes. I think people should have sex at 16 or greater. dito |
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Jun 26 2006, 09:08 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
If only you are ready and know what the consequences are when you get pregnant , then I guess why not. Don't do it just because your boy friend rush you ; do it because of love.
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Jun 26 2006, 09:41 PM
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It depends on your maturity, not your age. If you are mentally and emotionally able to handle it then go for it.
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Jun 26 2006, 10:24 PM
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ohh thankie guys fur all tha advice.. n i think im ready but i wana lose it 2 sum wun hus a virgin which ma boyf is wun. but im not sure if hes tellin tha truth or nt. cuhz cnt really tell if a guy is a virgin or not.
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Jun 26 2006, 11:17 PM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
Early.
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Jun 26 2006, 11:51 PM
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If you have talked to the person your going to have sex with, and your up to all the things that could happen. Then go ahead.
But if you and your partner haven't even talked about all the consequences then you aren't ready.. I hope that made sense 0_O Six Signs You’re NOT Ready for Sexual Contact 1. You're Uncomfortable With Your Body: It might not be too early to consider ramping up your sexual activity, but if you still aren't used to the changes your body has gone through in the past few years, you might want to wait to have sex or get intensely physical. Change is confusing -- and if you're not comfortable with stuff like your own breasts or pubic hair, how are you going to be okay with someone else's body in the mix -- or intimate physical contact with someone else? 2. You're Immature About Sex: Admit it -- everyone laughs when talk gets dirty. But if you're really not able to handle mature talk about sex, like TV shows that deal with physicality or science class sex ed classes, you might want to rethink engaging in it yourself. 3. You Aren't With Someone You Trust: It might seem like a random hookup is the way to go if you're curious about intense physical contact, but do you really want your first experiences to be with a stranger? You might want to consider waiting until you're in a committed relationship before ramping up your physicality -- or at least explore that side of yourself with someone you trust. 4. You've Been Raped or Sexually Abused -- Abuse doesn't mean that sex if off-limits altogether, but if you have issues about sex you might want to seek counseling or help to resolve those conflicts before things get physical. This will ensure that you approach sex with an attitude of health and self-esteem. 5. You Change Your Mind -- It's perfectly okay to decide to "go all the way" and then have second thoughts. Indecision should be respected -- and it's probably a good sign that you're just not ready for intense physicality. 6. You Feel Pressured -- You should never feel put upon to be physical, whether it be kissing or more. If your partner puts pressure on you to do something you find uncomfortable, you might not be ready for sexual activity with this person. Draw healthy boundaries and remember -- you have the right to say no and be respected. |
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Jun 27 2006, 12:55 AM
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 Mrs. Delonge Group: Member Posts: 426 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,185 |
i, personally, think you should wait till you're married...
and if youre 15, obviously you're not married. but that's just my opinion... |
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Jun 27 2006, 02:17 AM
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 naďvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
What This Confession said.
As long as you're 100% comfortable with it, go for it. But go through all the consequences before you jump into it. And... don't get pregnant. |
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Jun 27 2006, 09:48 AM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
if your ready to handle the consequences, undestand that you can get pregnant, and are able to take care of yourself and your "child". then no, its not too early. keep a level head, dont assume that this will bring you guys closer because sex doesnt always bring miracles in a relationship.
i think you should wait until your able to support yourself (i.e. have a job) before anything... |
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Jun 27 2006, 01:07 PM
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I think its too early but depends on who with. Look at it this way, your varginity is proabably one of the biggest things that you can have taken away from you and also one of the greatest gifts you could ever offer someone. If you agree that you are ready to loose it and that the person who you are offering it to is really deserving of it then go for it.
Remember, be safe and use a condom 
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Jun 27 2006, 03:21 PM
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personally yes, but i know friends who have started at 12
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Jun 27 2006, 03:49 PM
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age does matter.. it is how mature you are. If you think you mature enough for sex then go ahead with it
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Jun 27 2006, 05:12 PM
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no..i lost my virginity at that age but only because it was with the person that i love. i don't think that your age should determine when oyu have sex, but rather the person you are with.
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Jun 28 2006, 12:23 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
To me yes.I mean you haven`t finished highschool yet and you might get pregnant and have to drop out.But people should be able to do what they want..
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Jun 28 2006, 08:14 PM
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15 is pretty young... But you never really are ready at any age... well for most people...
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Jun 29 2006, 03:23 AM
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too early
but if you like that kind of stuff go ahead be my guest! 
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Jun 29 2006, 03:24 AM
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No.
It depends on the relationship, really. I was 15 when I first had sex. |
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Jun 29 2006, 01:02 PM
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depends if you're ready if you are then go for it, but you should be beware of possible consquences
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Jun 29 2006, 01:03 PM
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QUOTE(kaydarling @ Jun 26 2006, 11:24 PM)  ohh thankie guys fur all tha advice.. n i think im ready but i wana lose it 2 sum wun hus a virgin which ma boyf is wun. but im not sure if hes tellin tha truth or nt. cuhz cnt really tell if a guy is a virgin or not. Obviously you can't even f**king type correctly, which makes me presume you're not even mature enough. I strongly believe you should graduate elementary school first. 
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Jun 29 2006, 01:11 PM
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well someones back.
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Jul 5 2006, 10:15 PM
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i did it like.. yesterday. it was pweti gud n i dun think its bout hte age anymre. lol anywayz but its pweti weird i cant sleep. but i gt pweti tired tho.
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Jul 5 2006, 10:23 PM
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 i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
well if you dont think it's about the age anymore then that defeats the purpose of this thread, yeah?
 but.. congrats? ahah i dont know what to say.
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Jul 5 2006, 10:26 PM
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If you personally feel you're ready, I guess it's not - but, it depends on the person.
I personally (when I'm at least 15 or 16) want to be with a guy for at least a year before I have sex with him. But, that's just me. |
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Jul 6 2006, 02:24 AM
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i had a dream that i was pregnant, and all i wanted was to change that. i can tell you when i woke up, i was the happiest girl living at that moment.
BUT THAT`S JUST ME.... 
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Jul 6 2006, 12:59 PM
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i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
^ i would be the happiest girl too to wake up from a dream like that.
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Jul 6 2006, 01:31 PM
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 我爱台妹,台妹爱我 Group: Member Posts: 877 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,340 |
lol retaaaaarded. seriously if u have sex at 15 youre a slut. if you try to justify that u love him, youre a stupid slut. if youre relationship cant last if u dont have sex, then youre both freakin morons.
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Jul 6 2006, 01:57 PM
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i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
^ just because she had sex doesn't make her a slut.. i don't know if he's her first or whatever..
slut: 1. A woman considered sexually promiscuous. 2. A woman prostitute. 3. A slovenly woman; a slattern. i think sluts sleep with more than one person, cheat, and sell their self. QUOTE(kaydarling @ Jul 5 2006, 8:15 PM) i did it like.. yesterday. it was pweti gud n i dun think its bout hte age anymre. lol anywayz but its pweti weird i cant sleep. but i gt pweti tired tho. she said it's not about the age to her anymore anyways.. |
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Jul 6 2006, 02:39 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(lanbexx @ Jul 6 2006, 2:31 PM) lol retaaaaarded. seriously if u have sex at 15 youre a slut. if you try to justify that u love him, youre a stupid slut. if youre relationship cant last if u dont have sex, then youre both freakin morons.  I love that!!!
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Jul 6 2006, 04:38 PM
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QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Jun 26 2006, 5:46 PM) For me yes, but if you feel ready and can handle the consequences, then it's fine. i totally agree... |
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Jul 7 2006, 02:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,893 |
Chances are, if you're asking whether it's too early,
it is. |
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Jul 7 2006, 05:03 PM
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It depends if you and the relationship are ready for it.
Make sure you know the consequences, too. |
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