What is it about women that you don't understand?, for the confused male population Options

[AngelinaTaylor]

Ok, so I decided to make this thread about you (guys) and about what you don't really understand about us.

I (and any other females who want to post here) will try to answer your questions to clear up some of the confusion between the sexes, in fact, we may ask some questions ourselves.

Taylor``

[xyzzy314]

when you girls say "I don't know" do you really don't know, or do you just don't want to tell us? and why?

What the heck does "maybe" really mean?

If you want to stay single for a while, how long is "a while"?

Why dress slutty? Is it for attention, or do you just not like confinement?

Is it true that if you girls tease back it usually means you like us?

What enjoyment do you find out of gossip and drama?

Why use ipods as mirrors?

Is "so..hows life" or "hey whats up" your default phrases to talk to us or can you be more creative?

Abercrombie and fitch, hollister, hot topic, etc. really who gives a damn? Its all just clothes!

Do you girls understand that "secret" is not an invitation to share with your closest 20 friends?

How the heck do you get your pants on??

ok i'm done.

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Do you have bras that unhooks in the front or the back.

[AngelinaTaylor]

when you girls say "I don't know" do you really don't know, or do you just don't want to tell us? and why?
Depends on the context. But sometimes women say that because they want guys to figure out what's wrong. If you've paid attention to her, you shouldn't have a problem.

What the heck does "maybe" really mean?
Again, it depends on the context.

If you want to stay single for a while, how long is "a while"?
If someone says that to you, it just means she doesn't want to go out with you.

Why dress slutty? Is it for attention, or do you just not like confinement?
That's something I don't understand myself. But some women just like to feel sexy, and they love the attention. It's true, too. If I wear a short skirt, a guy will notice me more than if I wear baggy pants.

Is it true that if you girls tease back it usually means you like us?
Yeah.

What enjoyment do you find out of gossip and drama?
I personally hate it most times. But let's face it, women LOVE drama. They want a life with emotion so that it's not boring. Gossip's just something we ALL like :P

Why use ipods as mirrors?
Because we're always uncertain about the way we look (I guess).

Is "so..hows life" or "hey whats up" your default phrases to talk to us or can you be more creative?
Those phrases usually start a conversation. They aren't all we say, I'm sure :P

Abercrombie and fitch, hollister, hot topic, etc. really who gives a damn? Its all just clothes!
I know! But it's just like picking out video games. It's all games, right?

Do you girls understand that "secret" is not an invitation to share with your closest 20 friends?
Women suck at keeping secrets. If she says "I won't tell anyone", know that all of her best friends will know in the time span of one day.

How the heck do you get your pants on??
Uh.. how do YOU get your pants on? :P

Do you have bras that unhooks in the front or the back.

Aren't you a female?

Taylor``

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Lol No.

Whats the worst thing a girl wants to hear.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Lol No.

Whats the worst thing a girl wants to hear.

Ah.. ok then. We have both kinds :)

The worst thing? They're so many.. But one of them would probably be associated with telling her (your girlfriend) that you have a crush on someone else, even if it's a small, insignificant one. We don't care.. We want you to have feelings ONLY for us.

Taylor``

[Looow]

I guess a lot of girls can disagree with me but whatever



when you girls say "I don't know" do you really don't know, or do you just don't want to tell us? and why?
Most of the time, we do know & just don't want to tell you because we're afriad what you'll respond.

What the heck does "maybe" really mean?
It means no.

If you want to stay single for a while, how long is "a while"?
Usually not for long.


Why dress slutty? Is it for attention, or do you just not like confinement?
I don't dress slutty & I don't understand why they do it either. Mmm I guess just to boost their confidence

Is it true that if you girls tease back it usually means you like us?
No. A lot of the times being flirty is just part of our personality.

What enjoyment do you find out of gossip and drama?
I don't get involved in that so I can't answer.

Why use ipods as mirrors?
Because there is nothing else around


Is "so..hows life" or "hey whats up" your default phrases to talk to us or can you be more creative?
No, you make us nervous. You make our minds go blankkk

Abercrombie and fitch, hollister, hot topic, etc. really who gives a damn? Its all just clothes!
I feel you on that one.


Do you girls understand that "secret" is not an invitation to share with your closest 20 friends?
I do.

How the heck do you get your pants on??
Pull hella hard. Hahha.

[lalalaLANUH]

when you girls say "I don't know" do you really don't know, or do you just don't want to tell us? and why?
We do know...we just don't want you to know.

What the heck does "maybe" really mean?
I question that too...what does it mean when a guys says it?

If you want to stay single for a while, how long is "a while"?
If she's saying it to you it means she doesnt want to be with you.

Why dress slutty? Is it for attention, or do you just not like confinement?
It..uh...I guess it makes us feel sexy? I usually feel over exposed when I dress slutty,

Is it true that if you girls tease back it usually means you like us?
If the person is usually flirty no. If she isn't then yes.

What enjoyment do you find out of gossip and drama?
I don't know actually...I've been on a gossip hiatus for the longest time.

Why use ipods as mirrors?
Becuase they are shiny and we can see ourselves in them?

Is "so..hows life" or "hey whats up" your default phrases to talk to us or can you be more creative?
We're unable to think around you. We just pray something normal sounding will come out.

Abercrombie and fitch, hollister, hot topic, etc. really who gives a damn? Its all just clothes!
lmfao i know!

Do you girls understand that "secret" is not an invitation to share with your closest 20 friends?
Appearantly not. Sharing a secret with another girl is a way of bonding. It's like sharing a special part of you.

How the heck do you get your pants on??
One foot. Other foot. Pull. or Both feet. Pull.

[xyzzy314]

If a guy says maybe it really means that we aren't sure...we're stupid like that :-P

UNLESS we say "maayyyybbbeeee..." then it usually means yes.


And, um...thanks for answering my questions...like three times. Why doesn't everyone else ask some?

[sheepy]

i like your questions

when you girls say "I don't know" do you really don't know, or do you just don't want to tell us? and why?
we just dont want to you tell or we're not completely sure yet so we dont want to ruin things by telling you what we really think. or i dont know means = somethings wrong but we dont want to say it because its just something you're suppose to know but you dont so thats why we're mad.

What the heck does "maybe" really mean?
it means no right now, but possibly in the future.

If you want to stay single for a while, how long is "a while"?
she doesnt like you.

Why dress slutty? Is it for attention, or do you just not like confinement?
slutty girls gets more attention from guys.

Is it true that if you girls tease back it usually means you like us?
not all the time.

What enjoyment do you find out of gossip and drama?
it makes girl's lives interesting.

Why use ipods as mirrors?
because its convinent.

Is "so..hows life" or "hey whats up" your default phrases to talk to us or can you be more creative?
maybe the girls you talk to just really suck.

Abercrombie and fitch, hollister, hot topic, etc. really who gives a damn? Its all just clothes!
girls do actually.

Do you girls understand that "secret" is not an invitation to share with your closest 20 friends?
apparently not because..close friends are exceptions.

How the heck do you get your pants on??
its a bit hard actually.


i actually dont do most of these things but..im can see it from a girls point of view

[xyzzy314]

OK fine, here are a new set of questions for you then, to keep this interesting. Remember, I'm thinking of these questions with the majority of guys in mind and these are not based on my personal experiences.

A girl keeps making references to being "together" and "seeing me" and "me and you" etc. Does she want to really be with you?

Honestly, do most girls enjoy an awesome personality over looks or are many just shallow?

Why wear thongs...to school?

Why do girls focus on such little things about their appearance (hair, nails, etc.) when all guys care about is the big picture (how you look overall)?

Girls travel in pairs almost always. Why?

Does it really matter if a guy has cold hands sometimes? Is it a big turnoff?

Why do girls completely avoid guys that they're pissed off at sometimes?

I know that hugs mean just friends. Can they Ever, EVER mean that the girl sort of likes the guy?

Girls act alot differently with guys they have crushes on then those who are just their friends. True or false?

How easily do you girls really understand subliminal messages?

[*xcaitlinx*]

when you girls say "I don't know" do you really don't know, or do you just don't want to tell us? and why?

we just don't want to tell you. it's probably because we're scared of how you'll react, or we don't want to make you mad.

What the heck does "maybe" really mean?

It usually means that we can't decide and instead of giving a straight "yes" or "no" answer, we just say that to avoid the question all together.

If you want to stay single for a while, how long is "a while"?

It really depends..

Why dress slutty? Is it for attention, or do you just not like confinement?

I don't dress slutty, but i think girls that do crave attention and are insecure about themselves so they think that dressing to impress will make more guys notice them.

Is it true that if you girls tease back it usually means you like us?

Yes.

What enjoyment do you find out of gossip and drama?

None.. i don't think any girls like to gossip but we tend to be very talkative and say things about eachother. rumors and other sorts of gossip always end up coming out and that's what gets us in trouble.

Why use ipods as mirrors?

No other real mirrors nearby?

Is "so..hows life" or "hey whats up" your default phrases to talk to us or can you be more creative?

that's somethign we say when we're either uncomfortable or can't think of anything else to say to you.

Abercrombie and fitch, hollister, hot topic, etc. really who gives a damn? Its all just clothes!

i really don't know..

Do you girls understand that "secret" is not an invitation to share with your closest 20 friends?

haha...sometimes things slip out and we can't help it.

How the heck do you get your pants on??

hahah! sometimes it's difficult but they usually stretch out once we get them on.

[NinjaxMageLayout...]

omg why do girls complain so damn much?!and why do they act so b-tchy?

[*RiC3xBoy*]

omg why do girls complain so damn much?!

No they don't.

[marzipan]

when you girls say "I don't know" do you really don't know, or do you just don't want to tell us? and why?

depends

What the heck does "maybe" really mean?

depends

Why dress slutty? Is it for attention, or do you just not like confinement?

i guess some girls are just slutty or they think that's the way to get a guy's attention

Is it true that if you girls tease back it usually means you like us?

i'd say most of the time

Abercrombie and fitch, hollister, hot topic, etc. really who gives a damn? Its all just clothes!

some people buy it just for the label so they'll look "cool"

[Cupidangel81092]

omg why do girls complain so damn much?!and why do they act so b-tchy?

It depend wut kind of girls u met. Some girls are b-tchy, some are talkative, some are quiet. Quiet ones usually dun complain and talk that much of course. so it's not really the Girls Group that are b-tchy. that's wut i think

[NinjaxMageLayout...]

"No they don't."YES they do,especially all the ones i've seen/met.

"It depend wut kind of girls u met. Some girls are b-tchy, some are talkative, some are quiet. Quiet ones usually dun complain and talk that much of course. so it's not really the Girls Group that are b-tchy. that's wut i think"

Yeah i like quiet girls,because it separates them from the annoying b-tchy ones. ^__^ and they are soo cute when they shy.

[doork]

girl keeps making references to being "together" and "seeing me" and "me and you" etc. Does she want to really be with you?
Most of the time yes, females are shy to jus say it straight out.

Honestly, do most girls enjoy an awesome personality over looks or are many just shallow?
Many are just shallow, but some do go for the personality. Those that are shallow are more likely to be sluts or teasers.

Why wear thongs...to school?
Because its slutty?

Why do girls focus on such little things about their appearance (hair, nails, etc.) when all guys care about is the big picture (how you look overall)?
Most girls isn`t like that.. But i guess that they`re obsess with themselves?

Girls travel in pairs almost always. Why?
We feel more secure.. and we get to talk about " stuffs ".

Does it really matter if a guy has cold hands sometimes? Is it a big turnoff?
No. well not to me..

Why do girls completely avoid guys that they're pissed off at sometimes?
Because we like ya`ll chasing us.

I know that hugs mean just friends. Can they Ever, EVER mean that the girl sort of likes the guy?
haha YES. if its like a TIGHT TIGHT hug then it might be a crush.

Girls act alot differently with guys they have crushes on then those who are just their friends. True or false?
True.

How easily do you girls really understand subliminal messages?
Easy.

[Looow]

A girl keeps making references to being "together" and "seeing me" and "me and you" etc. Does she want to really be with you?
yes.

Honestly, do most girls enjoy an awesome personality over looks or are many just shallow?
girls will always say i look for personality and not the looks. they lie.

Why wear thongs...to school?
because we don't like our pantyline showing thru our PANTS.

Why do girls focus on such little things about their appearance (hair, nails, etc.) when all guys care about is the big picture (how you look overall)?
hair is a big deal, you know. would you like to date a bald girl? about nails .. we do it for ourselves. we don't fix ourselves up just FOR THE GUYS. we like to feel good about ourselves

Girls travel in pairs almost always. Why?
girls don't like being lonely

Does it really matter if a guy has cold hands sometimes? Is it a big turnoff?
warms hand are always better


I know that hugs mean just friends. Can they Ever, EVER mean that the girl sort of likes the guy?
yeah. pay attention to the way she guys you. is it distant? is it tight?

Girls act alot differently with guys they have crushes on then those who are just their friends. True or false?
it all depends on the girl. i usually act the same which can be a problem because i send mixed msgs

[n00b]

A girl keeps making references to being "together" and "seeing me" and "me and you" etc. Does she want to really be with you?
Depends on the girl I guess. Usually yes.

Honestly, do most girls enjoy an awesome personality over looks or are many just shallow?
well everyone says they want personalities. but... it's usually a lie at times :|

Why wear thongs...to school?
To look like a slut/ be popular/ and I guess if they like the feeling of it.

Why do girls focus on such little things about their appearance (hair, nails, etc.) when all guys care about is the big picture (how you look overall)?
Well hair is a good thing to worry about. I mean if we didn't work on our hair you might always have a bald/ratty/dirty haired girlfriend. Same thing with nails. Want a girl with gross dirty nails?

Girls travel in pairs almost always. Why?
We like to be with our friends and not alone.

Does it really matter if a guy has cold hands sometimes? Is it a big turnoff?
It doesn't matter REALLY but warm hands seem nicer.


Why do girls completely avoid guys that they're pissed off at sometimes?
Because if we see a guy we're mad at, we will get madder

I know that hugs mean just friends. Can they Ever, EVER mean that the girl sort of likes the guy?
yeah!

Girls act alot differently with guys they have crushes on then those who are just their friends. True or false?
True. For me, anyways.

[d0t0rg]

When a girl messes up and you ask advice from another girl why does she always say, "Well shes a girl."

[*salcha4u*]

Eh, I don't get girls either....and I'm a girl myself. Now I feel ungirlish.

I don't get girl drama.

[xoxoxx]

Are you sure you're a girl, Sally?

[velvet]

omg why do girls complain so damn much?!and why do they act so b-tchy?

Maybe you are looking in the wrong places. I noticed that guys always noticed the bitchy ones and the ones that complain a lot. But they don't noticed the ones that are quite and are the nice girls.

[The Nocturnal Ph...]

Alright I've got a bunch of questions.

Why do some girls like saying they aren't shallow but then they only hang out with a specific group of friends whom they don't like but make them look cool?

Why do girls like to tinker with the hearts of boys?

Why do girls always smell good? Is it possible for a guy to smell better?

In the dictionary of women, is there a word in there that looks like this?

Idunno
An answer to all questions. A universal philosophy.

Why do girls insist on liking our adorable/embarassed side? We try hard to build up the whole tough-guy facade, why break it down????? lmao.

Make no mistake, these are serious questions. I am desperate and anxious for an answer.

[AngelinaTaylor]

A girl keeps making references to being "together" and "seeing me" and "me and you" etc. Does she want to really be with you?

Yes.

Honestly, do most girls enjoy an awesome personality over looks or are many just shallow?

Many are shallow. But a lot do care about personality.

Why wear thongs...to school?

Why, do you want us to wear them on a special occasion only? Haha.. It's just the type of underwear that some people wear. No one sees it, so it shouldn't matter.

Why do girls focus on such little things about their appearance (hair, nails, etc.) when all guys care about is the big picture (how you look overall)?

Because without those little things, the "overall look" wouldn't be so nice. Come on, man, that's pure logic.

Girls travel in pairs almost always. Why?

Because they gossip. And because it's a way of feeling "secure".

Does it really matter if a guy has cold hands sometimes? Is it a big turnoff?

That depends on each individual.

Why do girls completely avoid guys that they're pissed off at sometimes?

Because it's just a way that they deal with it.

I know that hugs mean just friends. Can they Ever, EVER mean that the girl sort of likes the guy?

I guess sometimes.

Girls act alot differently with guys they have crushes on then those who are just their friends. True or false?

Slightly true.

How easily do you girls really understand subliminal messages?

Sometimes easy, sometimes hard.

By the way, those are very specific questions and most of them will vary on each person.

----------------------------

Why do some girls like saying they aren't shallow but then they only hang out with a specific group of friends whom they don't like but make them look cool?

Because they ARE shallow.

Why do girls like to tinker with the hearts of boys?

Why do some boys like to tinker with the hearts of girls? That can be answered in many ways.

Why do girls always smell good? Is it possible for a guy to smell better?

Because girls use ALL sorts of different things. Body lotions, deodorants, perfumes...

In the dictionary of women, is there a word in there that looks like this?

Idunno
An answer to all questions. A universal philosophy.

Women have a hard time making up their minds.

Why do girls insist on liking our adorable/embarassed side? We try hard to build up the whole tough-guy facade, why break it down????? lmao.

Because the "tough-guy" thing is fake, most times. In a relationship, that thing doesn't matter at all. It's the romantic, sensitive side that we care about. Be tough with your guy friends. We're not guys.

Again, those are mostly specific questions.

Taylor``

[Ington]

You're all replying that it depends on the context. You know, that's the confusing part. There usually is no unusual context.

Girls are confusing because they expect you to understand how they are feeling through no actions at all, though guys usually have absolutely no idea how the girl is feeling in these occasions.

For example.
Guy: What movie do you want to watch?
Girl: Anything you want. *secretly wants guy to pick The Notebook*
Guy: Okay, lets watch Saw.
Girl: *sad*
Guy: What's wrong?
Girl: Nothing.
Guy: Oh, okay.
Girl: *sadder*

The guy has no idea what's going on, and why. The girl thinks the guy does, but doesn't want to pay attention to her feelings.

Girls are confusing because they communicate with subliminal messages and get disappointed when guys don't pick them up. They're confusing because they expect guys to always be thinking about what they mean about random statements. I'm not saying girls enjoy thinking this way, I'm saying thats how they think.

[marzipan]

^ yeah, i'd say most of the time

[The Nocturnal Ph...]

Girls are super confusing. Like, confusing as to why they call themself confusing. See? I'm getting confused just trying to explain myself.

How about:

Why can't girls just be straight up? What's the big cover for? Say what you mean and mean what you say!

[AngelinaTaylor]

You're all replying that it depends on the context. You know, that's the confusing part. There usually is no unusual context.

Girls are confusing because they expect you to understand how they are feeling through no actions at all, though guys usually have absolutely no idea how the girl is feeling in these occasions.

For example.
Guy: What movie do you want to watch?
Girl: Anything you want. *secretly wants guy to pick The Notebook*
Guy: Okay, lets watch Saw.
Girl: *sad*
Guy: What's wrong?
Girl: Nothing.
Guy: Oh, okay.
Girl: *sadder*

The guy has no idea what's going on, and why. The girl thinks the guy does, but doesn't want to pay attention to her feelings.

Girls are confusing because they communicate with subliminal messages and get disappointed when guys don't pick them up. They're confusing because they expect guys to always be thinking about what they mean about random statements. I'm not saying girls enjoy thinking this way, I'm saying thats how they think.

That's so true. The problem is that girls DO expect guys to just know things. But most don't understand that they have to communicate with them. You can't just expect them to read your mind.

And the problem with guys is that they don't listen to women most of the time. Women have the NEED to talk. When they're upset, they talk. Unlike men - when THEY're upset, they have to do something physical (sports, etc.) A woman talks three times more than a guy does, daily. And when the guy doesn't give her the chance to talk, she gets moody and all that.

Hmm.. went a little off topic.

Taylor``

[*Zatanna*]

Girls are confusing because they communicate with subliminal messages and get disappointed when guys don't pick them up. They're confusing because they expect guys to always be thinking about what they mean about random statements. I'm not saying girls enjoy thinking this way, I'm saying thats how they think.

A lot of women are like that, unfortunately. I'd love to say that it changes with age but it doesn't, it just evolves a bit. Instead of unspoken context being related to movies, it's unspoken context about the color of throw pillows.

And no, we do not like thinking that way. I don't even think it's intentional.

I can, if I may offer this bit of advice - Say words like, "Tell me what you think," "Tell me what you want," etc. It may seem like beating a dead horse, but eventually it will tear down those inhibitions, because that's what I think it is. Girls can be subliminally afraid to say what is on their mind.

Eh, I had more to say, but I need coffee.

[The Nocturnal Ph...]

On behalf of all guys, I apologize. We don't think of you as confusing at all.. -ahem- Now... what are you doing this friday? Maybe we could grab a cup of coffee?

Lol. I'm playing. But we tend to do this unintentional as well. Like look at other girls. It's not like I'm going home with the other random girl on the street... You are the one I'm gonna be with.

This topic is getting us nowhere. I'm still super confused about girls.

[*Weird addiction*]

For example.
Guy: What movie do you want to watch?
Girl: Anything you want. *secretly wants guy to pick The Notebook*
Guy: Okay, lets watch Saw.
Girl: *sad*
Guy: What's wrong?
Girl: Nothing.
Guy: Oh, okay.
Girl: *sadder*

LMFAO

[The Nocturnal Ph...]

^it's funny because it's the truth!

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

No they don't.

omg Kevin why are you so mean?! All I ask for is some respect!

Why do girls insist on liking our adorable/embarassed side? We try hard to build up the whole tough-guy facade, why break it down????? lmao.

Because women are sensitive creatures. We (well most of us) look for sensitivity in a guy. I mean we don't want guys who are all touch in the inside AND the outside. How can you offer love if you're nothing but a dumb, expressionless brute? We want to know you're capable of showing feeling.

[AngelinaTaylor]

I don't see what's so confusing about us. There are basically two types of women - normal ones and those who've been hurt. The normal ones just want to be loved and will love again, and they'll do basically anything for their man.

The other ones can't really be trusted and they don't really trust men much. They're the ones who've been somehow scarred from the past - abusive relationships, cheating, etc. They will leave before you can hurt them or they will give you wounds instead. However, once they're loved and respected, and once they feel secure, they can get back to normal.

Taylor``

[*Steph Chan*]

Why do girls insist on liking our adorable/embarassed side? We try hard to build up the whole tough-guy facade, why break it down????? lmao.

Make no mistake, these are serious questions. I am desperate and anxious for an answer.

lol
the answer to that? i really don't know but it's so true. maybe it's because girls like to think that they are capable of making a guy (that they like) react in a 'non-manly' manner? I know that's how i think at least

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^x2 normal ones? <_< to me there are two types of women. Women who can take pain and move on and ones who might need extra time to do things. In a certain point of view, no one is normal, and in another point of view, most us are normal. I just thought it was harsh that you'd say the other type of women aren't normal <___________<

[Tribal J_Rome]

Hey I have one. How come girls hair always smell good??? My friend noticed too like we try some nice shampoo but it just doesn't work like it does for girls. Yeah even the flowery smelling ones. Is it cuz they got long hair or what?

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Do women really want voluptuous breasts?

[*salcha4u*]

Only because of men.




I dontknow.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Do women really want voluptuous breasts?

Yes. Haha.. I don't know. Some do.

Hey I have one. How come girls hair always smell good??? My friend noticed too like we try some nice shampoo but it just doesn't work like it does for girls. Yeah even the flowery smelling ones. Is it cuz they got long hair or what?

It probably is because we have long hair.. but I'm no expert at hair :P

Taylor``

[*Weird addiction*]

Do women really want voluptuous breasts?

Not all of them. I don't.

[AngryBaby]

i want voluptuous breast

[The Nocturnal Ph...]

What I want right now is a chicken breast. or thigh.

I'm super hungry.

Oh yeah... and about that. Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys?

[Looow]

^ Yeah, somebody explain that to me too. I don't get it. Girls like that piss me off.

I remember the first time my boyfriend n I went out to eat ..It was at KFC. I had a stomach ache n I couldn't eat (esp fast food cus it would make things worse) so I told him I didn't want anything. He got realllly frustrated n gave me this big talk about girls not wanting to eat in front of guys. " I knowww females!! Gosh " lalalala.

[*Programmer*]

Girls going to the bathroom with there friends..... what's with that? i mean i have an idea but im not sure....

[buckfuddy]

Girls going to the bathroom with there friends..... what's with that? i mean i have an idea but im not sure....

if you're thinking dirty thoughts, no.
usually, it's to talk without interruption of males, but you would know that, right? after all, you're a girl..

[*Programmer*]

if you're thinking dirty thoughts, no.
usually, it's to talk without interruption of males, but you would know that, right? after all, you're a girl..

dirty thoughts..no...never thought that. but...can you be more definitive on what yall talk about? just curious since you go to the bathroom to avoid the presence of men.

[AngelinaTaylor]

dirty thoughts..no...never thought that. but...can you be more definitive on what yall talk about? just curious since you go to the bathroom to avoid the presence of men.

It's because women like to gossip there, and redo their make up, etc. It's sort of a stupid, girly thing.

Oh yeah... and about that. Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys?

I don't know.. I want this explained too. I've always had food when I've gone out for lunch/dinner.

Taylor``

[buckfuddy]

the ones I know talk about:
"omg is my eyeliner smeared?"
"what do i do since he did that?"

[lyin_in_wait]

A girl keeps making references to being "together" and "seeing me" and "me and you" etc. Does she want to really be with you?

Honestly, do most girls enjoy an awesome personality over looks or are many just shallow?
50/50. you must be attracted but nobody wants an idiot

Why wear thongs...to school?
tight pants...to make boys sweat

Why do girls focus on such little things about their appearance (hair, nails, etc.) when all guys care about is the big picture (how you look overall)?
because we think yall will see one flaw and it would ruin everything we had

Girls travel in pairs almost always. Why?
safety

Does it really matter if a guy has cold hands sometimes? Is it a big turnoff?
not to me. hell my hands are always cold. so i cant make him change something he cant

Why do girls completely avoid guys that they're pissed off at sometimes?
we will say something we regret

I know that hugs mean just friends. Can they Ever, EVER mean that the girl sort of likes the guy?
yep

Girls act alot differently with guys they have crushes on then those who are just their friends. True or false?
depends. if we are comfortable enough then we wont

How easily do you girls really understand subliminal messages?
really easily we analyze everything. including the signs that werent meant to be

Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys?
sometimes you dont want to seem like a pig. so some may figure the less is better

Why do some girls like saying they aren't shallow but then they only hang out with a specific group of friends whom they don't like but make them look cool?
because if they seem cool then their social status is boosted

Why do girls like to tinker with the hearts of boys?
its not intentional. but its not only the girls

Why do girls always smell good? Is it possible for a guy to smell better?
is a gift i guess....take a shower and do your laundry. what girl doesnt like the laundry matt smell?

Why do girls insist on liking our adorable/embarassed side? We try hard to build up the whole tough-guy facade, why break it down????? lmao.
because your just as vulnerable now. so we dont feel so stupid when we mess it up

[lanbexx]

why has no one answered kevin's first question (the bra one)??

i want to know that answer!!

lol but serious one

why do girls go to the bathroom in packs and stay there for roughly 15 min in what should take at max 5

[AngelinaTaylor]

why has no one answered kevin's first question (the bra one)??

i want to know that answer!!

lol but serious one

why do girls go to the bathroom in packs and stay there for roughly 15 min in what should take at max 5

I answered both >.<

Taylor``

[JTHMjulia]

I will also answer these questions in my way



OK fine, here are a new set of questions for you then, to keep this interesting. Remember, I'm thinking of these questions with the majority of guys in mind and these are not based on my personal experiences.

A girl keeps making references to being "together" and "seeing me" and "me and you" etc. Does she want to really be with you?
A. Yes...if she keep throwing hints like that, generally she does want to be with you

Honestly, do most girls enjoy an awesome personality over looks or are many just shallow?
I personally Like a great personality and looks don't really matter...but there are a lot of girls out therewho just care about a hot bod

Why wear thongs...to school?
to not have the pantie lines showing....DUH! JK

Why do girls focus on such little things about their appearance (hair, nails, etc.) when all guys care about is the big picture (how you look overall)?
Most girls don't know that, and they want to look good for you all the time. I don't usuallly focus on the little things like nails, make up whatever....but a lot of girls do. tell them you like them just they way they are

Girls travel in pairs almost always. Why?
It's kind of this security thing. A lot of girls don't like going places by themselves...so they usually take a "buddy" of some sort

Does it really matter if a guy has cold hands sometimes? Is it a big turnoff?
I honestly hate cold hands. It's not a turn off, it's just that it doesn't feel good. I'm sure girls like you for more than just you're cold hands

Why do girls completely avoid guys that they're pissed off at sometimes?
they want you to come after them. they want you to care...but they won't tell you that.

I know that hugs mean just friends. Can they Ever, EVER mean that the girl sort of likes the guy?
Not necessarily. Hugs can be a lot of things. hugs can mean friends...hugs can mean that they like you. Its all about body language. and be observant....do you see the girl hg other guys besides you...or is it just only you....ect.

Girls act alot differently with guys they have crushes on then those who are just their friends. True or false?
it's in the middle. It's sometimes really hard to tell, or blatently obvious. You have to pay attention to the little things she does.....the little signs she has when she's with you or another guy or whatever

How easily do you girls really understand subliminal messages?
honestly. subliminal messages from guys are VERY hard to read. VERY hard. thats why sometimes girls just don't get tit. they don't see it

Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys?
they don't want you to watch them eat. I have to admit...its embarassing


Why do girls like to tinker with the hearts of boys?
we don't do it on purpose....but sometimes it's the other way around

Why do girls always smell good? Is it possible for a guy to smell better?
definatly a gift. I guess its just a thing girls have.

Why do girls insist on liking our adorable/embarassed side? We try hard to build up the whole tough-guy facade, why break it down????? lmao.
we feel smarter...and have more courage to do something we wouldn't have done with the tough guy facade

[phoenixpyre]

Why are woman such bitches to each other, almost vicious

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

i want voluptuous breast

Skaterdrummer -
when you girls say "I don't know" do you really don't know, or do you just don't want to tell us? and why? ... Depends on the question. Sometimes we say we dont know because 1) you're annoying us and we think saying I dont know is the quickest way to shut you up 2) We dont feel like saying what we really feel and then explaining it 3) Really dont know.

What the heck does "maybe" really mean? It means maybe. Not a yes but not a no. Again, depends on the question.

If you want to stay single for a while, how long is "a while"? Until we find someone who makes us not want to stay single, which happens at random points.

Why dress slutty? Is it for attention, or do you just not like confinement? To attract eyes.

Is it true that if you girls tease back it usually means you like us? Sometimes. A girl might just be a flirt, other time the girl might like you, other times the girl might not even know she's 'teasing' you back.

What enjoyment do you find out of gossip and drama? I dont know. Lol. Hard to explain. I really dont enjoy drama, but seeing it is always fun. It's exciting Lol.

Why use ipods as mirrors? Cos we don't have a mirror handy ?

Is "so..hows life" or "hey whats up" your default phrases to talk to us or can you be more creative? Would you rather us ask " How is your life going, go into depths about your deepest darkest secrets and reveal to me the world beneath the hard exterior " W'sup is an icebreaker. Guys say the same thing.

Abercrombie and fitch, hollister, hot topic, etc. really who gives a damn? Its all just clothes! AMEN BROTHA. I shop at Hot Topic bcos their clothes are cool but Im not into 'prep' style.

Do you girls understand that "secret" is not an invitation to share with your closest 20 friends? Yes. At least I do.

How the heck do you get your pants on?? We put one leg each into the leg thingies and we pull up. Sometimes we have to suck it in, but thats for the girls who are wearing skin tight pants and just cant accept that they have gotten too fat for those jeans.

A girl keeps making references to being "together" and "seeing me" and "me and you" etc. Does she want to really be with you? Most of the time. She might just enjoy your company.

Honestly, do most girls enjoy an awesome personality over looks or are many just shallow? Looks attract us, but personality keeps us. ( As well as the looks Lol )

Why wear thongs...to school? So you don't see our pantyline.

Why do girls focus on such little things about their appearance (hair, nails, etc.) when all guys care about is the big picture (how you look overall)? Because without the little things, it doesnt surmount up to a big overall thing.

Girls travel in pairs almost always. Why? We hate the feeling of loneliness.

Does it really matter if a guy has cold hands sometimes? Is it a big turnoff? My hands are ALWAYS super warm so when I hold a guys cold hand i instantly warm his up, and he likes that. So i think its okay for guys to have cold hands. But to have ugly hands is a HUUUUUUUUUGE turn off.

Why do girls completely avoid guys that they're pissed off at sometimes? Because we might kick you in the balls if we dont avoid you. Would you like that ? Thought so.

I know that hugs mean just friends. Can they Ever, EVER mean that the girl sort of likes the guy? Yes. But a hug is still just a hug.

Girls act alot differently with guys they have crushes on then those who are just their friends. True or false? True most of the time. Sometimes we cant help the way we feel or act when we get around a guy we like. But we always try to act the same, at least I do.

How easily do you girls really understand subliminal messages? Depends on what type of message you are trying to send subliminally.


RiceBoy-

Whats the worst thing a girl wants to hear. Anything negative about our appearance or you want to break up with us or anything about infedelity.

Do women really want voluptuous breasts? Not all. Do men really want big wankies ?

Ninjamagelayouts-

omg why do girls complain so damn much?!and why do they act so b-tchy? Because boys like you piss us off.


Nocturnal Phantom-
Why do some girls like saying they aren't shallow but then they only hang out with a specific group of friends whom they don't like but make them look cool? I dont do that, I truly am friends with preeeetty much everybody and I dont give a f**k how i look as long as im happy. The girls that DO do that are superficial losers who care too much about what other people think and you shouldn't waste your time on then.

Why do girls like to tinker with the hearts of boys? For the same reason boys do ?

Why do girls always smell good? Is it possible for a guy to smell better? It's our shampoo's and lotions and sprays and allathat. Yes it is possible for a guy to smell better.

In the dictionary of women, is there a word in there that looks like this?

Idunno
An answer to all questions. A universal philosophy. No. Lol

Why do girls insist on liking our adorable/embarassed side? We try hard to build up the whole tough-guy facade, why break it down????? lmao. Cos it's CUUUTE seeing you all vulnerable and shy and CUTE CUTE CUTE.


Why can't girls just be straight up? What's the big cover for? Say what you mean and mean what you say! Im like that. Other girls are just afraid of being bold and what you might think of them

Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys? Because we feel like big fat cows and that you're watching what we intake and judging us about it.

lanbexx -
why do girls go to the bathroom in packs and stay there for roughly 15 min in what should take at max 5 So we can talk about cute things/boys/re-apply makeup.




I was bored.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Why are woman such bitches to each other, almost vicious

Because they rarely fight physically. I like the guy way so much better.. two people staighten it out for 5 minutes.. haha. But girls are pure evil.

Taylor``

[xyzzy314]

If you girls want to ask questions you don't understand about us guys, go ahead.

[rainbow piss]

This should be fun. :D

Q: when you girls say "I don't know" do you really don't know, or do you just don't want to tell us? and why?
A: Well, sometimes when we say we don't know, we really don't know, but most of the time, we do know, but we're just afraid of what you'll think about our response & how you'd react to it, so we just stick to saying we don't know.

Q: What the heck does "maybe" really mean?
A: Well, this also depends. If it's something like, "Do you like me?" it's most likely a yes. We girls like to make guys wonder, so sometimes we say maybe, but it could just mean a yes or a no.

Q: If you want to stay single for a while, how long is "a while"?
A: I'm sorry, but they don't wanna be w/ you, so they just use that as an excuse.

Q: Why dress slutty? Is it for attention, or do you just not like confinement?
A: Some do it for attention, & some just do it to feel better about themselves. Like, if they dress slutty, more guys will pay attention to them, thus making them feel better about themselves. Or it could just be a combination of those both.

Q: Is it true that if you girls tease back it usually means you like us?
A: Either that, or they're just naturally flirts.

Q: What enjoyment do you find out of gossip and drama?
A: Well, to tell you the truth, I enjoy gossip & drama. Why? I don't know, maybe because it just gives us something to talk about or it's just plain amusing. LOL.

Q: Why use ipods as mirrors?
A: Maybe we have nothing else to look at ourselves with.

Q: Is "so..hows life" or "hey whats up" your default phrases to talk to us or can you be more creative?
A: We just use it as a conversation starter since we usually don't know what else we can say to start up a conversation.

Abercrombie and fitch, hollister, hot topic, etc. really who gives a damn? Its all just clothes!
To you it might just be clothes, but some of us feel that these clothes make us who we are. Besides, dressing up & such can be fun for us.

Q: Do you girls understand that "secret" is not an invitation to share with your closest 20 friends?
A: I do, but mostly ever girl you'll ever meet will dish out what you told us. Hey, it gives us something to talk about, just like how some guys kiss & tell.

Q: How the heck do you get your pants on??
A: By getting them on.

Q: Do you have bras that unhooks in the front or the back.
A: LMAO. Both, but most girls use the bras that unhook in the back.

Q: girl keeps making references to being "together" and "seeing me" and "me and you" etc. Does she want to really be with you?
A: Yes.

Q: Honestly, do most girls enjoy an awesome personality over looks or are many just shallow?
A: Well, we like both, I'm not gonna lie. You gotta look good while you have that awesome personality w/ you.

Q: Why wear thongs...to school?
A: Because... you do. But I think why some girls *coughslutscough* show off their thongs to the world is for attention.

Q: Why do girls focus on such little things about their appearance (hair, nails, etc.) when all guys care about is the big picture (how you look overall)?
A: The littles things make up how we look overall, & besides, fixing ourselves makes us feel better about ourselves.

Q: Girls travel in pairs almost always. Why?
A: Because... we just do.

Q: Does it really matter if a guy has cold hands sometimes? Is it a big turnoff?
A: Nah, but it's nice if the guy's hand can warm mine up, & no, it isn't a big turnoff.

Q: Why do girls completely avoid guys that they're pissed off at sometimes?
A: Sometimes like you guys need times to yourselves to think, we need times for ourselves to think about things. That also helps us get over it & calm down.

Q: I know that hugs mean just friends. Can they Ever, EVER mean that the girl sort of likes the guy?
A: Depends on the way she hugs you. Like, if she gives you a longer (& maybe tighter) hug than everyone else she hugs, she could possibly like you.

Q: Girls act alot differently with guys they have crushes on then those who are just their friends. True or false?
A: True.

Q: How easily do you girls really understand subliminal messages?
A: Not that easily. For some reason, we always feel the need for MORE proof that you like us.

Q: When a girl messes up and you ask advice from another girl why does she always say, "Well shes a girl."
A: I don't get you.

Q: omg why do girls complain so damn much?!and why do they act so b-tchy?
A: Well, not girls complain all that much, but I guess that the reason they complain is that they need someone to hear them out. & sometimes girls act bitchy either because we're not getting something our way, we're simply in a bad mood, or are really bummed out about something they heard.

Q: Why do some girls like saying they aren't shallow but then they only hang out with a specific group of friends whom they don't like but make them look cool?
A: Maybe the only reason they say they're not shallow is to not look bad, just the way they hang out w/ a certain crowd of people to look cool. Makes sense?

Q: Why do girls like to tinker with the hearts of boys?
A: They've probably had their heart broken in the past & most likely don't really trust guys.

Q: Why do girls always smell good? Is it possible for a guy to smell better?
A: LOL. Because we apply lotion & all that stuff. & yes, it is possible. You just have to spend as much time pampering yourself as we do (this should be easy if you're metrosexual).

Q: In the dictionary of women, is there a word in there that looks like this?
Idunno
An answer to all questions. A universal philosophy.
A: Go look at the first question I answered.

Q: Why do girls insist on liking our adorable/embarassed side? We try hard to build up the whole tough-guy facade, why break it down????? lmao.
A: Because it's cute. & besides, it really means something when a guy shows us his sensitive side, especially since most guys try acting tough & all that stuff.

Q: Why can't girls just be straight up? What's the big cover for? Say what you mean and mean what you say!
A: Because we're afraid of what you'll say, what you'd think, & all that. But eventually as we trust you more, we'll learn to be more straightfoward about things. Just give us time.

Q: Do women really want voluptuous breasts?
A: LOL no.

Q: Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys?
A: Some girls get embarrassed. Some also feel fat, therefore they don't eat. Most of the time, when a girl does this, she has a low self-esteem.

Q: why do girls go to the bathroom in packs and stay there for roughly 15 min in what should take at max 5
A: Girl talk.

Q: Why are woman such bitches to each other, almost vicious
A: That's the way we are. When we don't like someone, we're bitches.

You're all replying that it depends on the context. You know, that's the confusing part. There usually is no unusual context.

Girls are confusing because they expect you to understand how they are feeling through no actions at all, though guys usually have absolutely no idea how the girl is feeling in these occasions.

For example.
Guy: What movie do you want to watch?
Girl: Anything you want. *secretly wants guy to pick The Notebook*
Guy: Okay, lets watch Saw.
Girl: *sad*
Guy: What's wrong?
Girl: Nothing.
Guy: Oh, okay.
Girl: *sadder*

The guy has no idea what's going on, and why. The girl thinks the guy does, but doesn't want to pay attention to her feelings.

Girls are confusing because they communicate with subliminal messages and get disappointed when guys don't pick them up. They're confusing because they expect guys to always be thinking about what they mean about random statements. I'm not saying girls enjoy thinking this way, I'm saying thats how they think.

Exactly. I honestly think it's better for a girl to be straightfoward, that way, in the future the guy will atleast have a clue about what she wants.

[doork]

If you girls want to ask questions you don't understand about us guys, go ahead.

Okays.

Do guys perferr the smart and pretty girl or the know-nothing slutty DIME PIECE?

Thats a serious question because most of the guys I know goes for the DIME PIECES. lols.

[xyzzy314]

Do guys perferr the smart and pretty girl or the know-nothing slutty DIME PIECE?

Seriously, sometimes our wang thinks for us so we go for that perfect dime piece just to get some action and something to boast about. Yea, unfortunately looks go over personality for most guys, BUT, sometimes that smart and pretty girl can be extremely irresistable, and if a guy gets to know both, he might forget about that slut and go for the smart but extremely cute girl. At our school, there was this girl who was extremely "smart", would always ask the teacher questions, answered every question, debate club, glasses, huge bookback, all of that stuff but her looks + personalty made her extremely irresistable and tons of guys had crushes on her.

[*Uronacid*]

AGH!!!! when you say, "whats wrong?" and they say, "nothing.." and there is something seriously wrong and they won't say it....

When they don't say how they feel.. they imply how they feel and expect you to understand them...

When they complain about you treating them like crap, and when you treat them nice they walk allover you...

[marzipan]

what does a guy usually do to show a girl he likes her?

[AngelinaTaylor]

AGH!!!! when you say, "whats wrong?" and they say, "nothing.." and there is something seriously wrong and they won't say it....

When they don't say how they feel.. they imply how they feel and expect you to understand them...

When they complain about you treating them like crap, and when you treat them nice they walk allover you...

We say "nothing" because we either don't want to talk about it, or it's something you should know. Either way, just keep trying to get more information.

And because we complain about treating us like shit, treat us nice and we'll love you :)

Taylor``

[sarcastic biscui...]

AGH!!!! when you say, "whats wrong?" and they say, "nothing.." and there is something seriously wrong and they won't say it....

When I do that, I usually want whoever to persist until I give in and tell them. Because I don't feel like saying it outright, and I want them to show that they care enough to not give up after one "what's wrong" and laugh and be happy and join their perky little friends. /venting

[doom_diver]

OK my questions:

Why do girls want to put on make-up? - Frankly, I find no use for them. If you are pretty, all boys will look at you anyways. If you are ugly, no make-up can help.

Why are girls always late? - Is being on time THAT hard?

Why do you always ask about your appearance and when someone tells the truth, you freak out?- Well, girls seems to love white lies.

Why do girls only hang out with the 'popular' people?

Is is that hard for girls to put some effort into school?- No offence to any that do, but is it that hard to do homework that takes 15 minutes, instead of acting pretty to the teacher and make up lame excuses?

What is school to girls? - It doesnt seem like they treat it as a place to learn

What place does intelligence of boys in the hearts of girls? - Never understand why girls like boys who gets D- for exams

Thats all for now..............

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Is farting and burping in fron of you bad?

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

Why do girls want to put on make-up?
Make up DOES work actually. Look at the prettiest girls in school who you think don't wear make up. They actually do they just find ways to make it natural. Make up makes us look better in some ways. I looked real pretty with make up when my aunt had her wedding.

Why are girls always late?
Well it depends on what's making them so late: traffic or not knowing which dress to wear.

Why do you always ask about your appearance and when someone tells the truth, you freak out?
I'm a girl and I hate it when my sister does it. Those girls are just attention whores.

Why do girls only hang out with the 'popular' people?
Boosts their self-confidence and preserves their "reputation"

Is is that hard for girls to put some effort into school?
Do you really think this happens often? Every girl in my school works hard academically..excepy for a few.

What is school to girls?
To me, school is a place where insecure girls can bitch/make fun of/ say bullshit about people to make themselves look better

What place does intelligence of boys in the hearts of girls?
My friends and I prefer intelligent boys actually. Stupid boys are clueless creatures who cannot do anything for girls. The girls who like stupid boys probably just want him to stay oblivious about what she wants with him.

Is farting and burping in fron of you bad?
That depends on the mood. When I'm on a good mood I'd laugh and say "that's gross" in a joking way. If I'm a bit tired I'd ignore it. If I'm pissed off I'll just ignore it.

[lanbexx]

if she says "youre fly is open" and you say "so's your mouth" is that plus or negative points

[AngelinaTaylor]

Why do girls want to put on make-up? - It's not a matter of ugly/beautiful. People wear it to enhance their features, or for self-expression, or simply for confidence. I don't see a problem with that. Besides, half the guys don't even know when most girls are wearing make up. One of my guy friends was surprised that I do, even after knowing me for three years.

Why are girls always late? - That's sexist. Men are late too.

Why do you always ask about your appearance and when someone tells the truth, you freak out?- because women like hearing that they're pretty.

Why do girls only hang out with the 'popular' people? - not specific to girls.

Is is that hard for girls to put some effort into school?- No offence to any that do, but is it that hard to do homework that takes 15 minutes, instead of acting pretty to the teacher and make up lame excuses? - sorry, but you're arrogant and sexist. Will it surprise you that I have straight A's (in BOTH high school and music school)? And yes, I'm a female. Also, it's been proven that recently, more females than males have gone to university.

What is school to girls? - It doesnt seem like they treat it as a place to learn. - I can argue the same thing about guys. That's just bullshit.

What place does intelligence of boys in the hearts of girls? - it depends who you ask :) Most girls go for the hot, but stupid type.

if she says "youre fly is open" and you say "so's your mouth" is that plus or negative points

Uh.. negative.

Taylor``

[doork]

Is farting and burping in fron of you bad?

Yeah.. for me it is.

[doom_diver]

Well Angelina sorry if I offended you. What I said was just the situation in my school (Well, all the boys work hard but the girls dont........)

[*Steph Chan*]

What I want right now is a chicken breast. or thigh.

I'm super hungry.

Oh yeah... and about that. Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys?

I don't think i've seen anybody answer this.
Sometimes I have a problem eating in front of guys.. but only the ones that I like.
esp. in school. i think maybe it's because if i eat too much i think i'm gonna look really fat?
& no i do not have an eating disorder.

[redpeony]

Why can't girls just be straight up? What's the big cover for? Say what you mean and mean what you say!

This might sound a little evil, but for me personally... at first I refuse to be completely straight up with a guy to 'test' him... and to guard my own heart I guess. In case something doesn't work out, I still have my pride and didn't reveal my true thoughts. And also I want to see if the guy is interested enough to try to pry the real truth out of me (of course I'm sure most guys will because of curiosity anyway). I like it when a guy figures out where he went wrong without me telling him so there's a bigger chance his apology is sincere. I know that sounds pretty bad but that is how I've rationalized the way I see and do it.

Why do many girls not like eating in front of guys?

Only in front of the guys I like in the initial stage of a relationship or before I get comfortable with him, because I'm so preoccupied with being interesting and talking I guess... it's an insecurity issue; one that I don't really experience at the moment because I've been with my boyfriend for quite a long time.

Why are girls always late?

Shut up. Males are so much worse in that department.

What place does intelligence of boys in the hearts of girls?

A lot. At least for me, my man better be smarter than I am, seeing as he is supposed to be the leader and take care of me. Plus intelligence in studies most often directly correlates to his character and his willingness to work hard.

Is farting and burping in front of you bad?

Only if you're anal and call me immature when I laugh.

[MrElsewhere]

i for one, have to say, that this is a quality thread topic/

i for one, have never ever ever ever ever ever heard a girl fart.

but i've known girls that can burp like a lion roars.

strange...

if a guy asks you if you like him or not, how would you react if you DID NOT like him and how you would if you DID like him and why?

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

if a guy asks you if you like him or not, how would you react if you DID NOT like him and how you would if you DID like him and why?

if I didn't like him, I would ask to be just friends even though we don't even want to be friends (most of the time). If I like him, I'd be overjoyed and say yes.

[miss alyssa x3]

when you girls say "I don't know" do you really don't know, or do you just don't want to tell us? and why?
We do know...we just don't want you to know.

What the heck does "maybe" really mean?
I question that too...what does it mean when a guys says it?

If you want to stay single for a while, how long is "a while"?
If she's saying it to you it means she doesnt want to be with you.

Why dress slutty? Is it for attention, or do you just not like confinement?
It..uh...I guess it makes us feel sexy? I usually feel over exposed when I dress slutty,

Is it true that if you girls tease back it usually means you like us?
If the person is usually flirty no. If she isn't then yes.

What enjoyment do you find out of gossip and drama?
I don't know actually...I've been on a gossip hiatus for the longest time.

Why use ipods as mirrors?
Becuase they are shiny and we can see ourselves in them?

Is "so..hows life" or "hey whats up" your default phrases to talk to us or can you be more creative?
We're unable to think around you. We just pray something normal sounding will come out.

Abercrombie and fitch, hollister, hot topic, etc. really who gives a damn? Its all just clothes!
lmfao i know!

Do you girls understand that "secret" is not an invitation to share with your closest 20 friends?
Appearantly not. Sharing a secret with another girl is a way of bonding. It's like sharing a special part of you.

How the heck do you get your pants on??
One foot. Other foot. Pull. or Both feet. Pull.

yah same as what she said ! lol

[sadolakced acid]

does playing a guitar really increase your chances of getting laid?

[MrElsewhere]

i hear bmw drivers get more sex. hrm, dont quote me though...

[Annie5332]

does playing a guitar really increase your chances of getting laid?

Hah, in some cases, yes. Some girls look at guys that play guitar as a guy whos "good with his fingers" and some girls think its just a plain turn on.

[sadolakced acid]

do girls who fall for the bad boys do so becuase they want to "save him"?

[uLoVeMikeRoch]

Abercrombie and fitch, hollister, hot topic, etc. really who gives a damn? Its all just clothes!
I know! But it's just like picking out video games. It's all games, right?
Taylor``

Actually no.
Clothes are all pretty much the same. This shirt and that shirt really have no difference except for maybe the material, company, color, design etc etc.

But Video Games are all different, and all have different experiences.

A shirt is just a shirt. That shirt and that shirt, although they might be totally different in design, are still shirts.

Video Games, are varied. People have different opinions when it comes to these.
They have depth.

But clothes... (Example)That long sleeve shirt I just put on feels exactly like this shirt, except they are onlky different on the look and feel.

[x_far_x]

How come women insist that they are in "love"? Even though it's quite obvious that the guy she is seeing is like bad for her. As in he doesn't trust her, and he keeps breaking her heart.

Also, how come they choose not to listen to their guy friends for advice on relationships? Or they "listen" but they don't really listen..you know?

Hehe, thanks!

Love,

-FiRM

[iminlovewithTomD...]

Why dress slutty? Is it for attention, or do you just not like confinement?
I don't know! I don't dress slutty. I think it's gross!

Is it true that if you girls tease back it usually means you like us?
Sometimes... It really depends on the person... If they tease you back with a little sparkle in their eye and a sweet li'l' smile, almost blushing, then probably yes.

What enjoyment do you find out of gossip and drama?
I don't find ANY. Maybe you're looking through the wrong girls.

Is "so..hows life" or "hey whats up" your default phrases to talk to us or can you be more creative?
Some people are just dumb... Usually I'll just start the conversation like, "DUUUUUDE!!" or whatever. Whenever I answer the phone and it's one of my close friends, I'll just make a really weird noise into the phone. I mean seriously!! I'm with you on this one, I think all of america needs better greetings.

Abercrombie and fitch, hollister, hot topic, etc. really who gives a damn? Its all just clothes!
Hot topic isn't a brand... hot topic is a store that sells band shirts. Band shirts are different than abercrombie and hollister (two f*ckin lameassed stores, if you ask me), because band shirts have something on there like, "dude, i listen to blink 182!!" but hollister is just advertising hollister.

Do you girls understand that "secret" is not an invitation to share with your closest 20 friends?
ooh!! *raises hand* yes!! i do!!! i've never told a boy's secret... except one time i told my best friend that he was offered drugs and almost did 'em... but that was that... and that was like a long time ago, and it really scared me so i had to let it off my chest...otherwise, i wouldNEVER do anythign like that.

How the heck do you get your pants on??
Haha!! First I put my right leg into the side for my right leg, then i put my left leg into the side for the left leg, then I pull 'em up, and then i zip 'em up and then i do the button! easy as pie.

______________________________________
if a guy asks you if you like him or not, how would you react if you DID NOT like him and how you would if you DID like him and why?

If I didn't : I would bluntly tell him no.. idk, the situation's never come up to me... because no guys like me, but i mean... i would be honest.

If I did: Once again... I would be honest... If I actually DO like a guy, I wouldn't friggin' deny it!!!

[shiruji]

Eh, I don't get girls either....and I'm a girl myself. Now I feel ungirlish.

I don't get girl drama.

I don't get it either.. and I'm a girl too

[AngelinaTaylor]

Actually no.
Clothes are all pretty much the same. This shirt and that shirt really have no difference except for maybe the material, company, color, design etc etc.

But Video Games are all different, and all have different experiences.

A shirt is just a shirt. That shirt and that shirt, although they might be totally different in design, are still shirts.

Video Games, are varied. People have different opinions when it comes to these.
They have depth.

But clothes... (Example)That long sleeve shirt I just put on feels exactly like this shirt, except they are onlky different on the look and feel.

Well, most women wouldn't agree. All clothes are different. All of them have different styles (or you can make them fit into a style).

A game is a game. That game and that game, although they might be totally different for playing, are still games. (see what I did there?)

Clothes are also varied. People have different tastes when it comes to them too (yup, did it there too).

Clothes might feel the same, but they're not really the same :P

Taylor``

[*ECD & C0*]

why do all the fat ugly girls think they are hott and the skinny hott girls think they are fat/ugly

[AngelinaTaylor]

why do all the fat ugly girls think they are hott and the skinny hott girls think they are fat/ugly

I refuse to answer this.. I'm sure people will get offended by that question.

Taylor``

[*RiC3xBoy*]

If you hit my ass? Can I hit yours back?

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^if a girl hits your ass it's a sign that she wants something of yours in her ass.. or vagina

[xoxoxx]

awesome.

[*RiC3xBoy*]

^if a girl hits your ass it's a sign that she wants something of yours in her ass.. or vagina

I love you.

[Vash]

when girls say its your not your fault. it really is your fault right?

is it good or bad for a girl that already has a bf already to flirt with another guy?

[Gypsy Eyes]

when girls say its your not your fault. it really is your fault right?

It depends on how she says it. Sometimes it means it is.

is it good or bad for a girl that already has a bf already to flirt with another guy?

If you are the other guy, no. If you are the bf, yes

[priyas]

when girls say its your not your fault. it really is your fault right?

Depends what the situation is.

is it good or bad for a girl that already has a bf already to flirt with another guy?

It depends if the bf is okay w/ the girl flirting ( a non serious relationship.) If its serious its bad.

[*Freaky Krazer*]

I love you.

HEY! I never slapped your ass. What made you say that?!

[*RiC3xBoy*]

HEY! I never slapped your ass. What made you say that?!

Iono. I just felt like it.

[*Uronacid*]

this topic makes me f**king crazy... ALL THE GIRLS IN HERE THAT CONSISTANTLY TALK ABOUT BEING STRAIGHT FORWARD AND HONEST ARE TALKING ABOUT HOW THEY MASK THEIR FEELINGS.... O_O.... i hate this

I'll tell you guys right now, MOST GUYS WOULD RATHER BE SLAPPED IN THE FACE WITH HONESTY THAN GO ON IN LIFE OR A RELATIONSIHP NOT KNOWING THE TRUTH.... FORGET BEING NICE!!!

I keep seeing the phrases "i don't know" or "nothing" being mentioned in this topic. It's rediculous... we already know its something that your not telling us... why don't you just tell us what it is... ugh, maybe you should learn this about men...

WE WILL NEVER EVER EVER FIGURE YOU OUT IF YOU DON'T TALK TO US... THERE IS NO MAGICAL MAN WHO WILL READ ALL YOUR THOUGHTS!!!!

[BlueDevilMax007]

i got a situation that could use a female's interpretation. i'll try to give u the brief version.

this girl and i have been really close friend for a long time. about six months ago, i told her i had feelings for her and she said that she didnt want a relationship. but we r still close friends and have continued to hang out since.

about two months ago, she introduced me to her cousin. the three of us (plus another cousin) went out that night to a club. the cousin was all over me. i didnt resist at the time cause i was too drunk to care, but the next day i told the cousin that we should just be friends.

i was talkin to my friend the other night and asked her if i did the right thing by breakin things off with the cousin. at this point i should note that this girl and her cousin are really close and hang out all the time, so i figured she would try to play matchmaker. but her response was that i did the right thing and that i can do much better than her cousin. does this mean she does have feelings for me after all or am i reading too much into this?