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 May 23 2004, 12:48 AM
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heyz im just wondering have any of you gave up drinking and drugz bcz u didnt wanna jeprodize ur new relationship? then you find out that he or she drank. even tho itz not 2 da point dat dey r juz mellow n not drunk... butcha, it kind ob makez u tink n allz. n u neva kno dat u kan drink n allz. blah! im sry if im not amking sense. butcha, have u eva? or iz it juz me over reactin? plz b honest. kdenz.
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May 23 2004, 01:07 AM
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 -Moo?- Group: Member Posts: 99 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,414 |
I've never had to give up drinking or drugs because I've never started. But those two things can hurt a relationship. If someone you know has a problem like that, talk to them about it.
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May 23 2004, 01:09 AM
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 LunchboxXx Group: Member Posts: 1,789 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,810 |
what sarah said. raise your fist in the air. DRUG FREE!
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May 23 2004, 02:37 AM
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i never gave them up for someone but myself. they weren`t doin anything for me, plus i didn`t like it in the first place. i just wanted to see what everyone was talkin about .. i know i know, stupid reason. but my bf now does do a lot of drinking and smoking. i got him to cut down though so that`s gOod. i make him drink water now, cause i hate soda much less alcohol [other than maybe Bacardi and all], and i got him to cut down on his smokin a lit`l. Once in awhile i`ll drink mainly the girly drinks or whatever else tastes gOod: Bacardi, SkyyBlue [i think that`s what its called, the blue bottle], Vodka and Juice, Jack Daniel`s, Kahlua, and sometimes tequila [but that stuff is hard!!!]. But i never finish my drinks .. i can`t tolerate alcohol for that long.
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May 23 2004, 03:28 AM
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Well I've never done them in the first place.
But my ex BF quitted smoking coz he knew I didn't like it. And he cut down a lot on his drinking and made sure he never got drunk. |
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May 23 2004, 11:57 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
for me i didnt even STARTED drinkin or drugs! but i have never gave sumthing up juss to make the other person happy... if im happy why cant they be too?
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May 23 2004, 10:05 PM
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well i used to smoke but i quit within a month but it wasnt cause of any boy, i quit for myself. but thank goodness i did cause my boyfriend now HATES smokers so if i still smoked i would have quit for him. so yeah.
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May 23 2004, 10:28 PM
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my boyfriend quit drugs and smokin for me.. and then just last month we both quit drinking. he quit cuz he was drinkin wayy too much and i quit cuz i wanted to support him.
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May 23 2004, 10:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 68 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,821 |
yeah you all do make sense. and im glad that my bf and i had a talk about it lastnight. and yes you shouldnt have to change for anyone but yourself.
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May 23 2004, 11:23 PM
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I err stopped drinking for my gf.
Does that count? <-- been sober since summer. w00t! - cHiNkIeEyEdPnOi |
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May 24 2004, 02:17 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
i never drank or did drugs in my life but i did give up cuttin for ma boi. will tht count?
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May 24 2004, 02:38 PM
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Never did any of the above ...
It's not my thing ... But if I were to give up something for my bf it would be something that I know will improve my well being ... I wouldn't give up something because someone told me to do so ... If I knew that it wasn't good for me and I knew that that person was only trying to help me quit because they cared ... then yes, I would do it both for them and myself ... |
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May 24 2004, 03:04 PM
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never got a gf before so dunno lol
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May 24 2004, 03:18 PM
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I don't drink or do drugs or any of that. I'm a good girl
 But my ex hadf to give up that stuff for me  otherwise, no *blank* for a while 
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May 24 2004, 04:11 PM
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i dont drink or do drugs wel.. i drink only wen we have parties and i limit myself hehe and i never had a bf who does drugs or drinks on a daily basis =]
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May 24 2004, 06:49 PM
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I only drink at parties and don't do drugs but one time this guy told me he didn't like it that I drink. Well I just ditched him cause honestly i'm doing this for myself and i'm not about to change something for him. Maybe I just didnt like him enough but I don't think changing your lifestyle for someone is good for yourself. Unless of course that thing is harmful to you, but drinking occasionally causes no harm.
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May 25 2004, 03:41 AM
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thankz allz. yeah everyone is different when itz time for a change. and changing shouldnt be for someone it should be for yourself. i alwayz knew that but sometimez i need reasuing and allz, thankz.
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Jun 9 2004, 07:27 PM
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i see
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Jun 10 2004, 09:37 AM
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QUOTE(IBathedinAcid @ May 23 2004, 1:07 AM) I've never had to give up drinking or drugs because I've never started. But those two things can hurt a relationship. If someone you know has a problem like that, talk to them about it. I agree. just don't lie to each other |
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Jun 10 2004, 09:58 AM
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 SoMehOw iT sEeMs CoLdeR nOw.. Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,718 |
kids our age shouldnt be smokin n drinkin in the first place.. but i cant really say anything cuz i smoke when i can & drink when i have a bad day.. but its nothin serious. i dont think theres anything wrong with an occasional splurge, just make sure u kno what your doing & u kno your limits.. and make sure you dont let it get outta hand.
but you shouldnt do something just cuz someone else wants you to. i mean if its a serious relationship and you really care about the person and they want you to stop for YOUR OWN good.. then thats ok.. if they're willing to help. if its a lil 2 week fling and the guy/girl doesnt like smokers then thats they're problem.. not yours. ya kno? |
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