Age..... Options

[sarangxai]

What do you think of realtionships with age gaps? Especially someone in their teens with someone in their early adulthood? It's often looked down up on, but what if you really love the person and don't want to make the mistake of letting them go and then later wonder "what if? what if?"

[XxKrNqTcUiTyxX]

i hitnk itz just fine LOVE KNOW NO AGE!!!! (well as long as yu dont do da nasty if da guy is lyke 21 and yur 16, tats illegal!!!!)

[browneyedbeauty]

lol....i agree ^! i like a guy that was older than me and that was one thing i was worried about. but theres nothin wrong with it as long as it ain't TOO much of an age difference! in my opinion!

[EmeraldKnight]

Its realli stupid how ppl think age actually matters.. age in no way infers maturity, nor does it define a person, so why should it define love?

Love comes in all shapes, sizes, and age, it doesnt matter how old one is, all that matters is that the feeling is genuinely there

[kantoaznboi]

personally i dont have a problem wit age difference, but the ages of the pppl. like say its 12 and a 17

thats wrong. haha

as long as the person aint like a preteen and a teen or older, then i'm coo wit it.

[DoOdOox3]

yeh as long as itz not like below-14 with an above-17.
how about 15 with an almost 18?

[darkcoldplace]

its all...just doesnt matter....but to me i just like older gurls not younder some same age but older to me is pretttier...

[LiNHy POO]

i think love has no numbers... sum look down on a young gurl dating an older guy... cuz maybe the guy is desprete? or the gurl thinks being with an older guy will make her feel loved... when you are young... of course age matters! its for your safety! the guy could be one of those perveted bastards! but when your older.. it really doesnt matter... cuz you're making your own choices..

[illuminessence]

Question. Are you saying that if you see a 25 yr old with a 50 yr old, it doesn't seem suspicious to you? If there is more that a 5 yr difference, I am cool with it, but sometimes, I think younger ppl date older ppl for money or security.

[mistahpho]

when u love sombody,age doesn't matter
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[Flaunted]

i don't think it really matters on what age you are. as long as you love eachother for who you really are. i never knew this but i just realized that my parents are 11 years apart like 3 months ago.. they love eachother very much so.

[hOeyx3]

love knows no aqe. it all depends on maturity and who the person is. i mean, if they decide to do the nasty, then they should be totally aware that it is illeqal and everythinq. i had a 4 year qap.. nd yeah, thinqs went really.. well. heh. it was a really qreat relationship. just don`t worry about aqe. unless it`s pedophile status.

[sexxy_h_a_y_n]

i dont think love has nething to do w/ age, except if your like 13 and your marrying some 30 year old guy !! i am 14 and my bf is 17 and we just realized we LOVE each other a few days ago, and we dont care how old we are! and hes pretty immature and funny (haha, i love it!) for his age and i am way more mature for mine.

[babytseng]

i hitnk itz just fine LOVE KNOW NO AGE!!!! (well as long as yu dont do da nasty if da guy is lyke 21 and yur 16, tats illegal!!!!)

i dated a 21 year old when i was 16.. the relationship itself taught me a lot and definitely helped me mature at an early age.. but there was also a lot of pressure to do things i wasn't ready for at just 16. my advice to you is to be careful.. don't do anything you'd regret

[*CEP*]

Doesn't really matter.
When you grow up, you'll probably marry someone who's like more than 5 years older than you..

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[br0kenheaRtsz]

aqe makes no difference whatsoever.. i just wish bush thought that! i broke up with someone because they were 19 and its considered child molestation to be with them >=O i hate bush. [[n0 offense t0 repubLicans]] heh` im a neRd..

[pikimoo]

It really depends on how old you are, according to society today.

12+14 (okay)
12+16 (umm..?)
14+16 (okay)
14+18 (no)
15+25 (not even legal)
21+30 (why not?)
30+60 (suspicious)

Yeah.. something along those lines. It depends on gender too for some reason. Well, I dunno. THis is just what I've come up with by lookin at relationships between people I know.

But really, if your mom is like 35 and your dad is 52.. think about their age difference! Your dad was 17 when your mom was BORN!

[Emdawg]

i dont think it really matters like when u get married its for love ya kno! well yeah me and my boyfriend are a year a part but no biggie!

[melface]

i don't think it should matter... but five years+ is too much.

[sweetlyz]

What do you think of realtionships with age gaps? Especially someone in their teens with someone in their early adulthood? It's often looked down up on, but what if you really love the person and don't want to make the mistake of letting them go and then later wonder "what if? what if?"

well uhh .. the thing is, yOo may not even know what love is. adult men or women have certain expectations when it comes to a relationship. i highly doubt they`ll be with a really young person just cause they "love" them. they have needs that need to be taken care of .. something that maybe a young person can`t do considering the fact that they have other things goin in there life, like their future and education. its hard to explain but i think most of yOo might get my point. some age gaps are alright .. but its to a certain extent ya`know? i mean if yOo have more than 6years gap, i personally believe is weird. Not wrong but just weird for me .. that`s just tOo old ya`know? And if its more than 10 .. oh gawd now that i think is wrong! if you`re 14 and yOo wanna be with a 24 year old?? uhhh noo, that`s statutory rape right there. Its illegal.

i get it .. love has no age. So what, if you`re in love with a 40 year old and your only 17 .. would yOo go for it? First of all .. what would a 40 year old person want with a 17 year old?? That `s jailbait man .. and that`s just sick! He`s a pedaphile! Would yOo ever consider that if yOo were so called in love with this person? I think yes, age aint nothing but a number when it comes to love .. but to a certain extent for me. That`s just my opinion.

there are some points that were made in here that when yOo get married yOo might marry someone younger, that i get. i guess when i say it comes to a certain extent .. i mean if you`re younger than 18 and dating someone 6years+ then that`s just disturbing to me, but once your 18 or older .. then go for whatever yOo want. I dunno, maybe i`m being unreasonable .. but again, its just my opinion and how i would feel about it. Do what yOo want to do then.

[conster]

i dont think age matters.. i mean as long as its not like 10years difference lol for myself i think the max limit is 4years

[compleXperceptio...]

"age ain`t nothing but a number..."

but i feel that there is a certain line that should NOT be crossed... yeah, you can say that you`re completely in love with someone who is years younger or older than you, but think about it, and this is not meant to personally offend anyone...

situation: you have a guy past his adolescence / teen years and a girl who is still going through that stage. girls says: "i love him so much i don`t want to let him go." question: does girl really know what love is? when you`re that young, there are OTHER things that you need to be focusing on besides getting into relationships. plus, how long will they last? MANY relationships die off because of a different of maturity level and growth.

[ryfitaDF]

never think "what if..." about anything. regret is the biggest waste of time EVER!

i usually draw the line at 2 years eather way, like i'm 17 so i'll go out with 15-19 year olds.

and the stagitory law onbly works when you get cought.

[barbie]

love knows no age

[islandkiss]

even though age shouldn't matter, it still is weird to date a guy 10 years older than you. You'd both have different opinions and have nothing in common most of the time.

[angel-roh]

i hitnk itz just fine LOVE KNOW NO AGE!!!! (well as long as yu dont do da nasty if da guy is lyke 21 and yur 16, tats illegal!!!!)

i aqree with alice...wait i think thats her name lols newais yeah love with age gaps it's fine except a man with age 25 and a girl with age 14... wow... nasty LOL!! like do nasty stuff i meant is nasttiierrr lols but i didnt know it was illegal...

[simplysweet259]

well...it depends on how big the age gap is. i think it depends on the maturity level. some people mature at a faster age than others. i know some juniors that act like they're five. otherwise..disregarding that, age shouldnt really be a factor. age is just a number right?

[emptyminded]

Personally That's just wrong if the male is 30 and the girl is like eh 12-13 and they sleep together. That is statatory rape. Anything to where they can look like parent and child is WRONG! As I figure, If they aren't in a sexual relationship and they really like each other, they can wait until she's legal. Now, if they last that's love. Cause if the guy had to wait a while for the girl to be legal then obiviously he doesn't want her because of her young innocent status but because of something else... I don't know, about the last part though, there are a lot of exceptions...

On that note: Bethy, I'm not hypocritical..

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

if love is there it doesn't matter what age gap there is .. sometimes there may be harder ordeals to get through together when you're at different levels of your life .. but it's something that can be surpassed together ..

[expoised]

(well as long as yu dont do da nasty if da guy is lyke 21 and yur 16, tats illegal!!!!)

i've got a friend who's 16 and she's got a boyfriend who's 26.

i think its so wrong... but then again... my grandparents are 10 years apart.

(oh yeah... its not illegal unless the 16 year old reports rpe on the 21 year old.) or somethinglike that

[177emories]

if you love age other, age is nothing ut a number...

[miss_isabelle]

i think it's ok as long as you fall for the good guys.. some are sincere and others only want to go out with younger girls for sex.. you know what i mean..