will it work out?..long distant relationships |
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 Jun 7 2006, 10:52 PM
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 Lost In The Shadows... ™  Group: Member Posts: 143 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,813  |
okay, so i like this girl... and she likes me back.... one problem ... she lives in NY and i live in Hawaii.... if we were to get into a relationship, would it work out...? what's some of the downsides of being in a long distant relationship? and what's the good things about being in a long distant relationship??
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Jun 7 2006, 10:57 PM
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Lost In The Shadows... ™ Group: Member Posts: 143 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,813 |
uhm... myspace, she found mine or i found hers .... one of them....
no havent been in a relationship before.. and a while.... couple of months? |
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Jun 7 2006, 11:28 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Yeah. Uh. Thats most definately a long distance relationship. Honestly, if you really want it to work then you would make it but, come on, that's a pretty long distance...between her and yourself. Yeah...
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Jun 7 2006, 11:33 PM
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 sweetest sin... Group: Member Posts: 502 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,920 |
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Jun 7 2006, 11:36 PM
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Lost In The Shadows... ™ Group: Member Posts: 143 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,813 |
yeah, i know it's a long distant.... it's a 6 hour diffrence.... but i'm willing to stay up later and such to talk to her... and yeah..
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Jun 7 2006, 11:37 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Yes, a relationship involves a lot of talking but really, you gotta be able to see the person too. Face to face. Within hands reach. Because soon..the talking is going to get very boring.
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Jun 7 2006, 11:42 PM
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sweetest sin... Group: Member Posts: 502 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,920 |
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Jun 7 2006, 11:44 PM
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Lost In The Shadows... ™ Group: Member Posts: 143 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,813 |
mmm we'll work something out.... And i'm willing to take this chance, and understand the fact that we can't see eachother face to face and within arms reach..... but were planning on seeing each other soon, and as she said... tallking is getting better and better, it isn't getting boring at all
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Jun 7 2006, 11:44 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Wait wait...YOURE THE GIRL? Whoa. Duh. I'm stupid. Well, good luck you two! My best wishes. Hope ya'll can make it.
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Jun 7 2006, 11:47 PM
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Lost In The Shadows... ™ Group: Member Posts: 143 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,813 |
lol, yeah she's the girl....
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Jun 7 2006, 11:49 PM
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sweetest sin... Group: Member Posts: 502 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,920 |
QUOTE(Kristinaa @ Jun 8 2006, 12:44 AM)  Wait wait...YOURE THE GIRL? Whoa. Duh. I'm stupid. Well, good luck you two! My best wishes. Hope ya'll can make it. thanks 
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Jun 8 2006, 07:43 AM
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Do you have the resources to actually meet her anytime soon? I guess long-distance relationships can work out in theory, but I think they're pretty pointless unless there is at least some hope of actual contact soon. And they tend to only work out if both people had contact before the relationship. In this case, to be honest, I'd suggest looking for someone closer to home.
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Jun 8 2006, 02:28 PM
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Lost In The Shadows... ™ Group: Member Posts: 143 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,813 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 8 2006, 2:43 AM) Do you have the resources to actually meet her anytime soon? I guess long-distance relationships can work out in theory, but I think they're pretty pointless unless there is at least some hope of actual contact soon. And they tend to only work out if both people had contact before the relationship. In this case, to be honest, I'd suggest looking for someone closer to home. yes we plan on meeting soon... as for how soon i don't know.... |
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Jun 8 2006, 02:30 PM
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During my trials of long distance relationshipt they always collapse on themselves.
You just don't have enough support to keep a steady relationship. You never know if you will see them once a year, or. Never. Best of luck to you. I hope it works out okay. |
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Jun 9 2006, 03:24 AM
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Hey now, I say if you all care for eachother as much as you think you do, go for it. My bee-eff and I have been together.. *counts..* almost 16 months, he lives in England and I live in the states, Indiana now, used to be Ohio though. I say if you trust eachother enough, and you both are willing to commit... & of course, able to see eachother at least once every 6 months, you'll be fine. Almost everything deserves at least a small chance, right? |
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Jun 9 2006, 09:57 AM
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Well from experiance I can most certainly tell you that long distance relationships could work out if you really stick to the course. I myself have been in a long distance relationship for more then eight months now and planning on sticking with it for MUCH longer. In my case the girl used to live near me but moved 800 miles away (parents). Now I don't get to see her as much as we would like to. One advice I would give to you guys, don't do anything stupid and never give up cuz obviously you must have seen something special in each other to want to go through with it in the first place so work at it as much as you need to. Oh yea and to the guy, make sure you never forget her bday because its even worse when she is further away cuz then you gotta deal with it over the phone n that aint so easy my friend.
BTw Good Luck to you guys 
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Jun 9 2006, 04:49 PM
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QUOTE(xCrys @ Jun 9 2006, 4:24 AM) Hey now, I say if you all care for eachother as much as you think you do, go for it. My bee-eff and I have been together.. *counts..* almost 16 months, he lives in England and I live in the states, Indiana now, used to be Ohio though. I say if you trust eachother enough, and you both are willing to commit... & of course, able to see eachother at least once every 6 months, you'll be fine. Almost everything deserves at least a small chance, right? yay more long distance people Now we can celebrate crystal! I'm in a long distance relationship with Uronacid on here He lives in NY. and I like in NC. Okay okay not that big of a distance as you guys but its still a long distance relationship. go read other long distance topics.. Long distance relationships take a lot of communication. They can work though! You don't alwalys have to be face to face. Any relationship can go without that. but once you two do meet and go back home you are going to miss each other so its going to get a little harder but you can't ever let that communication fade I wish you two the best of luck.. Long distance stuff. http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=133505 & http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=136997 QUOTE uhm... myspace, she found mine or i found hers .... one of them.... no havent been in a relationship before.. and a while.... couple of months? ahhh, haha Me and josh met that way. he wasen't going to accept me to be a friend at first. And it was all some big joke. but guess what happend. Haha. my dad works at the hospital and this doctor out there met this girl on myspace a while ago and got on a plane about a month ago and met her and now their getting married. |
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Jun 9 2006, 11:31 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
It depends if you trust her or not.
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Jun 10 2006, 05:23 AM
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Lost In The Shadows... ™ Group: Member Posts: 143 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,813 |
Ty, for all the advice. the thing that'll mess me up the most, is Day light saving's time, and I trust her ALOT.
Mmmm, also well i'm gonna start planning out my next summer, to try to go to NY... Cuz i graduated this year, which in turn.. my parent's gave me MORE freedom, so i'm gonna start planning thing's WAY in advance so i'll know not to be busy during the summer time. Lol and i'll probably be lost as hell when i get there... i'm VERY bad with directions... xD and again, thank you for all the feedback and comments i really apperciate it
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Jun 10 2006, 06:41 PM
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