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 Jun 4 2006, 08:48 PM
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how long is too long when talking about kissing your bf/gf for the first time?
it doesnt have to be your very first kiss but the first with that person. |
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Jun 4 2006, 08:52 PM
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 the most flavored one Group: Member Posts: 132 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,593 |
just talking about your first kiss w/ the person? or actually kissing?
talking--dont talk about it, just do it! If you kiss her/him first time...make it quick so the element of surprise lingers! 
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Jun 4 2006, 08:59 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 86 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 392,728 |
no i meant actuallt doing it
how long is too long |
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Jun 4 2006, 09:04 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
when you look at your watch and wonder how much longer will it last is usually a red flag
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Jun 4 2006, 09:22 PM
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when the both of you are tired after awhile i guess
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Jun 4 2006, 10:05 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
You mean how long is it until you two talk about kissing for the first time with each other?
The last and only time I've encountered that was when I was 14. I think we started talking about it maybe a month into the relationship because it was the first kiss for the both of us. I think 2 weeks is a long enough wait. |
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Jun 4 2006, 10:17 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 86 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 392,728 |
damn
im two month and i still didnt make a move im just really nervouse cuz its my first too but how do i like move in for it |
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Jun 4 2006, 10:17 PM
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if u 2 r going out dont wait too long...unless u guysactually talk about it and want to wait for whatever reason....with my current guy...we were friends for 10 months and he kissed me..i didnt even know he liked me till that moment lol
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Jun 4 2006, 11:12 PM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(GameOverMan @ Jun 4 2006, 11:17 PM)  damn im two month and i still didnt make a move im just really nervouse cuz its my first too but how do i like move in for it I think that's fine since it's your first kiss. You're just nervous. I was a bit umm...precocious at 14. I practically forced everything on him. I'm not sure about the talking thing. It was pretty awkward when my ex and I spoke about it. Just get closer to her. Start holding her hand and hugging her if you haven't already, if you have try doing it more so she notices that you two are getting closer. Than after a date when you take her home, go in for the kiss. 2 months is long enough, I doubt she'll be offended or whatever. |
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Jun 5 2006, 03:53 AM
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 this topic makes me laugh. Matters what type of relationship your in. But as long as you let the lingering of always wanting to have the first kiss to happen 
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Jun 5 2006, 04:48 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 410,094 |
well i have been goin out with my bf for 4 weeks tomorrow. we had our first kiss at about 2 weeks. and made out at like 3 weeks we only kissed like 3 times but made out like 6 times... is that bad?
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Jun 5 2006, 06:41 PM
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 mmm. Group: Member Posts: 283 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 199,949 |
i`d wait
cuz all those weeks of anticipating and when it does come it feels soooooo good my bf waited 3 months lol |
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Jun 5 2006, 08:22 PM
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the most flavored one Group: Member Posts: 132 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,593 |
QUOTE(x3_mr_mak @ Jun 5 2006, 6:41 PM) i`d wait cuz all those weeks of anticipating and when it does come it feels soooooo good my bf waited 3 months lol My boyfriend waited for 2 1/2 years--eheheh...  But, like you said, it was worth it!
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Jun 5 2006, 08:46 PM
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 You know what that is? It's called love. Group: Member Posts: 150 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 255,095 |
well I feel like a dirty slut now lol. You guys all waited... I kissed my boyfriend 5 minutes after he asked me out. But... we had been friends for a long time before and were really close and holding hands before this. So it depends. JUst go for it! It really isn't hard. The worst thing that could happen is that you'd bump noses or something like that.
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Jun 5 2006, 08:51 PM
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I kissed my boyfriend on our first date, weeks before we were ever official... sheesh.
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Jun 5 2006, 08:54 PM
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^ Samee.
QUOTE(da_SALSA @ Jun 5 2006, 8:22 PM) My boyfriend waited for 2 1/2 years--eheheh... But, like you said, it was worth it!WAIT, what the ffuck? You had a boyfriend for two years .. THEN you kissed him? |
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Jun 5 2006, 09:01 PM
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a kiss is just a kiss.
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Jun 5 2006, 10:38 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Hmm months? or maybe even weeks...depends.
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Jun 6 2006, 02:02 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
in your own time..if you feel that you guys are close enough to then go for it.
But I guess around 2-3 weeks is long enough.. My boyfriend kissed me on our 1st week..which was incredibly awkward..when I got more comfortable with him, I told him he shouldn't have..lol QUOTE(Julia =) @ Jun 5 2006, 5:48 PM) well i have been goin out with my bf for 4 weeks tomorrow. we had our first kiss at about 2 weeks. and made out at like 3 weeks we only kissed like 3 times but made out like 6 times... is that bad? haha..we waited 3 months to even make-out.. before that it was all quick kisses and hugs |
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Jun 6 2006, 05:51 PM
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QUOTE(GameOverMan @ Jun 4 2006, 11:17 PM) damn im two month and i still didnt make a move im just really nervouse cuz its my first too but how do i like move in for it throw ur arm around her and kiss her u P**sy |
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Jun 6 2006, 06:20 PM
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 The BossHog Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 410,621 |
there is nosuchthing as too long when it comes to kissing, I mean it may get really boring after awhile...but...never would do any damage to a relationship or anything like that...
also...if she/he is letting you kiss her/him for a long ass time, and they dont seem to be making the next move. then that means they will never, and is a red flag for you to make the next move....alot of times...if the move isnt made one or the other will end the relationship. |
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Jun 6 2006, 06:25 PM
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 All The Girlies Say I'm Pretty Fly For A White Guy Group: Member Posts: 1,944 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,858 |
It usually just sort of happens.
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